As I've said, I am 54yo and I can barely watch films or TV shows these days because they are about either high school students or people who are 31 years old.
I'm writing about pleasure & desire, what we're allowed to want, what we're allowed to "take," how to free ourselves from shame. And Good Luck to You, Leo Grande jumps into that fray. Until my essay read an excerpt from my essay in #ThisArabIsQueerfeministgiant.com/p/essay-the-de…
Central to my writing these days is the liberating power of speaking your desire.
The most subversive thing a woman can do is to talk about her life as if it matters. Because it does. Her desire, especially when she is not supposed to desire or to be desired, is especially disruptive.
“Why won’t you take what you want when it’s right here within reach?” Leo Grande to Nancy.
THAT!
On the back page of a notebook,I used to write 1st letter of the name of the men I had sex w/ because I wanted to keep a record of taking what I wanted despite all I'd been taught
To desire and to be desired is political. How we fuck and who we fuck is political. Always the goal: to be free.
Eric Greitens tied up and blindfolded a woman and took a picture of her partially nude without her consent and forced her to perform oral sex on him. We are sick and tired of sexual predators and misogynist fascist fucks like 👇🏽
And remember: white evangelicals supported this sexual predator "Some evangelical leaders, who supported him in 2016 along w/ an overwhelming number of the state’s white evangelical voters, said they had maintained their support for the governor"
On Thursday: my flight from Montreal to Atlanta was. cancelled and rebooked for Friday. It was among approx 6,000 cancelled or delayed flights into/out of the U.S.
On Friday: my rebooked flight was cancelled again. It was among the approx 3,300 cancelled flights into/out of U.S.
Send calm and relaxation...
Three weeks ago, I almost missed my flight out of Dublin because of long lines at the airport.
This past Wednesday, I went to the airport in Amsterdam about 4 hours before departure time so that I don't miss my flight.
In many non-Western countries, speaking about such things as desire is scorned as “white” or “Western” behavior. I’ve been accused of being “obsessed” with sex because I insist on talking openly about desire. feministgiant.com/p/essay-my-des…
Being able to speak of our desire - without fear, without penalty, and on the way of being ourselves - is at the heart of being free. So I’m thrilled that wonderful book exists 👇🏽
To desire and to be desired is political. How we fuck and who we fuck is political. Always the goal: to be free. And so I’m thrilled that this book exists and honoured I’m among its contributors #ThisArabIsQueer
Returning home later today from Amsterdam, where I gave a lecture on sexual liberation & bodily autonomy.
I told the audience I came with a warning from their future: the end of #RoeVWade will affect the entire world. It will embolden theocrats globally.
I'm so fucking enraged.
I said this when Trump was elected and I am saying it again as #RoeVWade is about to be overturned:
U.S. feminism has failed.
The same arrogance and naiveté that made so many white Americans think Trump would never become president is that same arrogance and naiveté that made so many think "it would never happen here" about abortion bans as well. #RoeVWade
In 1996, I had an “illegal” abortion in Egypt and in 2000 I had a “legal” abortion in the US. I share my stories because I know how long it took me to share them and how many others need to hear them (as I did). #OurAbortionStories
I was not raped. I was not sick. The pregnancies did not threaten my life. I did not already have children. I just did not want to be pregnant. I did not want to have a child. And so I had two abortions. feministgiant.com/p/abortion-is-…#OurAbortionStories
When abortion is “illegal,” it does not make it rare nor eradicate it. It makes it dangerous and often deadly for the poorest and most vulnerable people who can get pregnant. I could afford the doctor’s fee for getting a safe, “illegal” abortion. #OurAbortionStories