I even put on makeup for this (Toreador represent! #Vamily)
Full video. The song is Children of Heaven from the Blood of Angels album - club remix. Lyrics & vocals by me, music & arrangement by @NoxArcana@billPiotrowski
Not bad for a Goth who’ll be FIFTY in January ♑️🐐
The real star 🌟
Ozzie inspects the corner of the living room that will serve as my ad hoc dance floor
So … today I got woken up at about 9 AM by a police officer shining a flashlight in my face. In my bedroom.
That was not how I expected to start my day.
I have a housemate who works for Spectrum. Spectrum has changed its sales policy recently & my housemate’s supervisor has been demanding they lie to customers in the sales calls & automatically sign them up for things
When they refuse, they’re called into meetings
The supervisor at spectrum doesn’t frame this as disciplinarian meetings exactly. They pretend it’s a peptalk. But the bottom line is, my housemate refuses to lie and illegally sign customers up to things they have an asked for and the supervisor wants that to change
What if training young salesmen to “never take NO for an answer” has a direct impact on their respect of boundaries in other aspects of their lives?
For example, when someone they want to have sex with says NO
Sales & upselling train people that trampling consent is “winning”
Moreover, many folks who get deeply ingrained in sales culture begin to model their identity around their ability to convince people to say yes to things they obviously don’t want or need
The ability to trample consent is perceived as power, superiority: a skill to be rewarded
Sales culture (and capitalism more broadly) is rotting us from the inside out in ways I don’t think many people ever stop to consider
“Don’t take no for an answer” is some of the most toxic advice any human being could take to heart - let alone be monetarily rewarded for
Tried to get a picture of Ozzie with my @ElyriaRose to give some sense of scale for this enormous cat. Still not sure this does him justice (also he really, really wanted to be put back down)
When I endeavored to take these photos I did not fully appreciate the difficulty I would face in getting both the cat and the wife to hold still at the same time as the two are nearly always perpetually in motion 🤣
Also, I realize our fridge is a probable treasure hunt of Curious Things ™️
Not the least of which are my precious origami bats gifted from @Kambrieldesign 🦇
When I, sheltered in the Midwest within a white, performatively Catholic family, first learned attraction between people could actually be more than vanilla heterosexed, bisexual seemed to fit
But -
Back in the day when I was reading Dykes to Watch Out For & Hothead Paisan, I encountered the term “Stone Butch” which seemed to better encapsulate how I experienced love & affection for people but rarely any desire for them to get sexy with me (asexual wasn’t widely used)
I was sorting out my orientation in the 1990s & had been given virtually no healthy tools to do so
We didn’t have many terms for that complex trifecta of sex/gender/orientation better understood now
Also, AIDS was a thing & alternative sexuality carried enormous stigma
I did a bunch of my undergrad work on the portrayal of women & witches in Shakespeare, the witchcraft beliefs of the time & the period in European history often called the “witchcraze”
Just never expected to experience a renewed wave of violent mass delusion in my lifetime
To be clear, the delusion is not the practice of witchcraft
The violent mass delusion in this case comes from Christian sects sublimating their fears of contagion, destructive weather & economic insecurity into beliefs of a widespread Satanic conspiracy working to harm them
The thing that gets me is - here we are in the digital age surrounded by life-changing advances in science with these astounding tiny devices we carry around our pockets that allow us to access a wealth of knowledge that would make the Library of Alexandria envious