#TheWife
This poem by W.S. Merwin is the perfect evocation of what happens when one loses a spouse–the missing piece leaves you riven. There is nothing that one doesn’t want to share with that person who was supposed to be there, always. Solidarity to all who are grieving.
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All the daily things The WIfe and I did together–the quotidian daily things. How much would I give to do those chores with her again. All of it. For even one more day. I shall love you and miss you and long for you always. Until we meet again, my sweet darling girl. xxx
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“Your absence has gone through me
Like thread through a needle.
Everything I do is stitched with its color.” –W.S. Merwin
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It is true we never went to bed angry with each other. It is true that she never left the house without my telling her I loved her and to be safe. It is true that at no point in 23 years did we stop loving each other. Don't stay in lovelessness--love is everything. Find it.
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#BREAKING_NEWS: #TheWife
It is with heavy heart and incalculable grief that I announce the sudden and too-soon death of my beloved and adored wife, Maddy, who I always called The Wife here. It’s impossible to articulate the depth of my pain at the loss of her. I am riven.
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Many of you followed The Wife's cancer journey here. Your messages of support and love, your prayers and messages of healing I read to her and she loved y'all for your kindness to her, to me, to us. I am meeting with the funeral director at 3pm, but I wanted to let you know.
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I will post an obit and a condolence page once the notice is up on the funeral home website. But for now, thank you for all your support and kindness. I shall need more of that going forward. Maddy was the love of my life and we were bonded deeply and forever.
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So the phone rings as I'm emailing an editor because I am late with a story, so I answer without looking and it's the mortgage company. An hour after the gas company. I explain about The Wife and I am crying, again. The agent is gentle --she really wants me to stop crying.
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But I am crying hard,like a tired toddler. I can feel my chest tightening. The agent tells me of a Biden COVID program to help borrowers (that the GOP wants to end). She signs us up, tells me she will send the paperwork. It will give us a reprieve. She wishes us well.
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