Women are FUNDAMENTALLY FLAWED, or even fatally flawed. Some women are of higher quality, some women are of lower quality, but they all have "the flaw of betrayal", you could call it.
No woman is going to love you unconditionally the way your mother loved you. This is because women love their CHILDREN this way, not their husbands. A man needs to EARN the love of his woman, every damn day. To be a man in love means to be a man eternally vigilant over his woman.
And to take the #redpill means to ACCEPT this fundamental flaw in women, and to kill this dream of unconditional love.
However, focusing on this flaw is entirely the wrong way to frame our experiences with women. Women exist to bring us joy and TO MAKE US STRONGER AND BETTER MEN
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This is one of the most IMPORTANT conversation skills to learn... for one simple reason:
The men women are attracted to are the ones who LEAD them (NOT the ones who follow!).
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So often when you talk to women, they try to seize control of things in subtle (or not so subtle) ways:
•"No, I'm not like that"
•"Do you say that to every girl?"
•"I'm just bossy"
•"Guys can't really handle me"
•"I'm not dating right now"
... and so on.
Most guys fall RIGHT into these traps women lay, and talk back to them the same way they would to another guy:
HER: "you just talk to all the girls you see."
HIM: "Yes I do, and this time it’s your turn"
If there's anything you're skilled at, I'm sure you remember how you progressed.
When you started out, you were just okay. Or maybe you weren't okay. Maybe you were awful at it.
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Whatever the case, you shrugged off the early failure and RESOLVED to get good at this thing.
So you hung in there, put the work in, took the punishment, absorbed the failure, and soldiered on.
And, as time passed by, you improved.
One day you looked around and said, "Hey. I'm pretty good!"
From that point on, you had confidence. And your confidence in the field grew as your skill did.
Building a strong frame and getting good at game works EXACTLY this way.
Think about it, because if you do, you are facing a large obligation.
Protect, provide, teach, nurture.
Oh yeah, and also making sure your son can get laid.
The ability to get laid is important for a man’s well-being.
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For many guys, this doesn’t come easy and they end up needing to learn game in their late teens or twenties. Some never learn it at all.
Learned game from the internet has done many guys good, but most guys would have been saved a lot of time and frustration if they just had good fathers who taught them the basics.
The First and most important thing for every man in a relationship:
is your woman has to want to get molded by you. That means you have to become a high value man with a strong mission and a strong understanding of her female needs (emotional, psychological, sexual)…
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and your masculine role in fulfilling her needs & desires.
Once you become the man she actually wants to be molded by, then a lot of the skill of molding her is based on the training concept of rewarding good behavior and punishing bad behavior on a daily basis
and also working to instill and reinforce deeper values into her character. So:
1-I gotta establish the rules, more with actions than with words
2-She needs to allow me to set the rules and allow me lead her
3-She will only allow me to lead her if I’m a high value man to her
Learn the fundamental mechanics of game, stuff like push pull, qualification, attraction before comfort, validation
Learn other important dating concepts, like non neediness and boundaries
Learn the basics of cold approach. This is very important to generate lots of leads. If we don't have lots of of leads, then we will become more needy with the leads we do have. Cold approach skills are vital!
Learn the basics of male-female polarity. We need to understand women deeply if we want success with them! And women can be very counter-intuitive in some important ways. We need to interpret women's words, not take them literally