Just started #HarryandMeghanNetflix and am reminded that while they were falling in love, unhinged British women were posting conspiracy theories about why they had never met and Meghan was showing up to places Harry would be the stalk him. Hard to surmount that kind of crazy.
If I ever call you and tell you I’m going to be staying in a tent for ten days with a new boyfriend I am not in love. I have been kidnapped. Alert the authorities. #HarryandMeghanNetflix
Indeed their secrecy made it possible for that unhinged narrative to form, that it wasn’t real. Because some people needed for it not to be true. And they hated Meghan for existing and damaging their delusions that he could one day pick them. #HarryandMeghanNetflix
It’s insane that these two beautiful people could exist in the world and not have an inkling of the scrutiny they’d face. I mean people with an inth of their fame get harassed. I so wish they’d have been prepared but the hate they got isn’t their fault. #HarryandMeghanNetflix
Doria is so beautiful. Can’t imagine having to be silent as people wish for my child’s banishment from the earth. #HarryandMeghanNetflix
How you would watch this and believe that anyone would sign up for this abuse and not be completely in love is baffling. A mere gold digger would have bailed. There are other rich dudes she could have dated. #MeghanandHarryNetflix
True story that I was asked if I were my son’s nanny when out with my White husband and the baby and I are both brown skinned. Oddness. #HarryandMeganNetflix
This part about Doria regretting not having that race talk with Meghan who had been able to exist without acknowledging race is rough. I’m not biracial so my Blackness was never in question so that talk came early. And I’m grateful. #HarryandMeganNetflix
Here is the thing. I was brought up to believe that being Black was a good thing. The bad thing is that it was a problem for others. And I had to anticipate it but never apologize for it. If you have a problem with my Blackness that’s on you. #HarryandMeghanNetflix
There is no quicker way to prove that race is an issue than showing up in a role people don’t expect to see your Black face in. Ask me how I know. #harryandmeghannetflix
This curtesy scene was clearly poking fun at herself and her lack of knowledge and not crapping on generations of British tradition. Anyone who says otherwise just wants to be mad. #staymad#HarryandMeghanNetflix
Can I be honest? I don’t know one Black person who doesn’t have very light skinned cousins who didn’t look at that woman and know she was biracial. Casting Bunk as her dad was an immediate clue. #MeghanandHarryNetflix
I was excited about their marriage as an American, a Black person and a fan of “Suits.” I guess I and others felt some small stake in a world that didn’t include us and that was fun. But we learned how many people didn’t want us included. Ever. #HarryandMeganNetflix
The wedding shattered a lot of fantasies and confirmed that a biracial person could achieve a thing they didn’t. Kind of like being president. And that meant she had to be destroyed. #MeghanandHarryNetflix
They hated her so much that they were willing to destroy their formerly favorite Royal because he chose her. #HarryandMeghanNetflix
In the very first episode Meghan says “Everyone we’ve never met is yelling our story. Why shouldn’t we?” Exactly. But some would rather that reporter who blocked me tell their story because they want to believe him. #HarryandMeghanNetflix
What an important point that UK people could pretend they were colorblind because the slavery was all in the Caribbean where they could ignore it. #HarryandMeghanNetflix
Walkabouts always seemed so crazy vulnerable to me. Then again I’m from Baltimore. I am always ducking. #HarryandMeghanNetflix
I love that Meghan brought her makeup artist along on the come up. It’s loyal and also it’s hard to find a good makeup artist. #HarryandMeghanNetflix
Harry in how the British tabloids felt they owned the royals and their trauma is chilling. #HarryandMeghanNetflix
@afuahirsch said the most interesting thing that Harry and William were born into a contractual relationship with the media that they had no say in. #HarryandMeghanNetflix
And you know so many Black people were relieved that it wasn’t the Black side of her family acting afool. #MeghanandHarryNetflix
Someone who was married into my family-in-law before my husband was born tried to start stuff about me on an in-law’s Facebook page because it gave them a feeling of being part of something exciting. I’m not even famous. I get the Samantha Markle thing. #HarryandMeghanNetflix
Nobody who was being honest that that racist-ass broach was a mistake. #HarryandMeghanNetflix
Anyone who ever covered teen idols and know how they were made to hide their relationships to maintain the fantasy that they were available understands the hate Meghan got. That’s why they believe her pregnancy was fake. #HarryandMeghanNetflix
I’ve just discovered more British media people I’ve never heard of who have blocked me. #MeghanandHarryNetflix
People who love you don’t sell stories about you.
I feel so sad she couldn’t have her niece at her wedding but that all makes sense now. #HarryandMeghanNetflix
Hey isn’t that Serena Williams who the tabloids say isn’t Meghan’s friend? Hmm. #MeghanandHarryNetflix
Once you understand how much England plundered the wealth of the countries they colonized you will never look at a photo of those Crown Jewels the same. #HarryandMeghanNetflix
I didn’t know about the death of Mr. Lawrence but it makes sense that a country that wants to deny its racist past got mad that any royals acknowledged it. #HarryandMeghanNetflix
And again why are you mad about #MeghanandHarryNetflix but not that her tacky family sold their stories to the tabloids?
“And now she doesn’t have a father.” That man sold damaging stories to the tabloid. Harry is right. She owes him nothing. #HarryandMeghanNetflix
So that’s it for the current episodes. So far these seem like lovely people who are in love and had no clue what was about to happen to them. Haters NEED this to be fake, for her to be this seductress who made him leave his family. Wow. #HarryandMeghanNetflix
One more #MeghanandHarryNetflix thought: I am so confused by the people who think Meghan can’t have suffered racism because she didn’t identify as Black or biracial. First of all, you can’t define someone’s identity based on how they look.
Also are you really saying that her personal indemnification means that the Compton crack or the depiction of her kid as a monkey hurts any less?
I have started #TicketToParadise and already am annoyed by grown rich adults who can’t be civil to each other for their child’s sake for a day.
I love that the movie knows the Americans are asshats. That idiot friend who introduces the Balinese man along with his tattoos as if he’s a museum piece and announces she’s going to sleep with him, not knowing he has a pregnant wife.
Her American colonial tourist fantasies assume that she is irresistible and that these men exist for a fun story when she goes home. She looks stupid. I love it.
When @selenagomez showed up in the #SNL monologue with #MartinShort and @SteveMartinToGo I squealed “It’s the baby!” Because I have now reached Black auntiehood and it’s delightful.
Sprinkles/Pringles the Elf is a mood. And I share it.
One of the most wonderful moments of my journalism career was when I quoted Franck’s line “He’s a genius and we need his miiind” to Martin Short and he drolly corrected my pronunciation. “No, that’s Jon-ous.” I loved that he played along. The best.
Starting “The Goonies”‘with the kid. Joey Pants and Robert Davi were different flavors of criminal hot.
Mouth messing with the Spanish speaking maid by telling her there were drugs in the house is not cute.
It’s such a GenX movie. Kids fending for themselves as their houses got foreclosed on. Running the streets. Our parents would not have known if we were on a pirate ship running from felons.
Black Americans paid taxes during segregation for pools they weren't allowed to swim in, fountains they couldn't drink from and buses they had to ride in the back of. So...miss me with this "Why am I paying for school I didn't go to?" At least this is about uplift, not hate.
I wanted to clarify for the confused. I wasn’t saying that Black graduates won’t benefit from the plan but that there is precedent for taxpayers contributing to things they did not - or legally could not- benefit from.