#MEAwarenessHour
One year ago, by writing ‘ACT’ (for ‘activism’) on her bed sheets with her finger, Mila asked us to speak and write publicly about her life with very severe #mecfs. 1/7
It was a huge step for a very private teenager and a generous contribution to raising awareness for this horrific disease that is still gravely under-funded, under-researched, and too often dismissed.
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Since I have started to speak up, many parents (or brothers, grandmothers, etc.) from all over the world have contacted me to share the stories of their loved ones.
This has opened a door to a hidden world of suffering and neglect that I never imagined existed:
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Patients – many of them teenagers or young adults – confined to their beds, existing in the dark, too weak to get up, eat, or even speak. Some in constant pain. Most without adequate medical care.
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Most troubling are those severely affected who do not have a family to care for them and who exist in shocking circumstances.
(Mila wouldn’t even be able to use her phone to call for help.)
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So, when I am writing about Mila and when my husband spends hours every day to advocate for research, it is never only about our daughter.
Acting on her behalf, it is also about Lina, Joseph, Lisa, Pip, Saskia, Lia, Sandra, Bastian (+), and many, many others.
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May @cstroeckw prove to be right: “Soon, people will look back in disbelief at what has happened to patients with #mecfs”.
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Since our daughter became very severely ill, I SO wish we could take her to the hospital, entrust her to specialists for her disease, and know she would receive state-of-the-art medical care. But because Mila suffers from very severe #mecfs, we do not have this option.
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For our daughter to have any chance of surviving, we – like many others affected – had to turn into ME experts ourselves. And 24/7 care workers. And fundraisers. And advocates. Why?
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Because this massively debilitating illness – even though not rare and classified by the WHO already in 1969 (CD-10 G93.3) – has been so utterly neglected and underfunded, that it is, still today, one of the most poorly understood diseases. 3/7
Before Mila became very severely ill with #mecfs, playing the cello was a major part of her life and identity. I loved listening to her playing Bach’s suites while going about my work – until she became too weak so sit upright. 1/8
Today, due to her extreme sensitivity to sound, our house is very quiet. A sign at the door asks visitors to enter softly without ringing the doorbell. We never have more than a handful of guests, no loud talking or laughing, no singing or playing the cello or violin.
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In Mila’s room, total silence prevails. She can no longer speak due to extreme weakness. But also listening to just a few words is too exhausting and causes PEM. Some communication can be avoided by adhering to a strict routine. Plus, she uses finger signs that she developed.
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#severeMEDay
50 years ago, my mother became ill with severe #mecfs. She was sent from one physician to the next and so heavily gaslighted that she stopped seeing medical doctors altogether. As a child, I only knew her bedridden in a dark room.
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My mother is one of the strongest people I know. As a young nurse, she set up a mobile clinic in a remote region in Africa with no access to medical care. Back in Europe, seriously ill herself with no treatment, she felt she could just as well have stayed in rural Africa.
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Three years ago, one of my twin daughters, Mila (then 16), became ill with #mecfs. Since Nov. 2021, she has been even more severe than my mother has ever been, fully bedridden in a dark room, too weak to talk or be talked to, needing the little energy she has to just survive. 3/
Heute, 22. Juli 2022, mitten in Österreich: drei Jugendliche mit sehr schwerem #mecfs
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Bastian (17) stirbt – an #mecfs und an der mangelnden Sensibilisierung und Kenntnisse der behandelten Klinikärzte zu dieser schweren Krankheit. Die Schmerzen und das Leiden über Monate und Jahre sind unerträglich, der Sterbeprozess ein Albtraum.
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L (18) hat eine gefährliche Darmentzündung entwickelt und müsste dringend ins Krankenhaus. Aber kein KH im ganzen Land ist dafür ausgestattet, Menschen mit schwerem #mecfs zu behandeln. Ein Aufenthalt ist für sie hochriskant und birgt die Gefahr weiterer Verschlechterung.