I need the record to show the way
The State of Florida
treats me, a queer disabled woman
who is also cyborg,
thus gender nonconforming
bc cyborg is not gendered
On November 8, 2022, an employee of FSU kissed me WITHOUT MY CONSENT in front of another employee of FSU in the parking lot of Gaines Street Pies
This is called battery. I am a tenured, Associate Professor at FSU, and I am not okay with battery committed against me by a colleague in my Department.
Here is the police report about the battery: 2023-90000198
One month later -- and do I think that is relevant? well I don't know, I'm not superstitious -- on December 8, 2022, another male colleague sent an email to public, state-owned listserv with photograph of the colleague and the message: "I hate diversity ..."
Given I hold multiple, diverse identities, as a queer disabled woman in The State of Florida, I could not just let that email go. I could not just look the other way. I could not just pretend I didn't see what we all saw.
So I replied to the email. Here is how I replied:
The way that I replied , as detailed below, caused the male colleague to 1) threaten my life 2) sexually harass me and 3) discriminate against me.
This is happening in The State of Florida. In an English Department. @andersoncooper
The male colleague then sent a barrage of emails targeting me, specifically, and one line of his read:
"If we ever meet, I would like to take your hand and place it on my chest"
I thought: if that man kills me? he can put my hand wherever he wants.
I left The State.
I am employed by @floridastate but I am not in The State of Florida. Because it is not safe for me, as a disabled queer woman, who is also cyborg -- and I write about my cyborg identity for @nytimes -- to be in The State of Florida.
Now I wld appreciate it if fellow trans and gender nonconforming friends on this app would rally to my side. Instead of spewing add'l hate abt me.
If you are already w/ me, then I thank you.
If you spew hate, I see you. I see how yr friendship w/ me was conditional
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And just to be clear: I am in solidarity with all trans and nonbinary and gender nonconforming people not just in The State of Florida but also around The World.
I am in solidarity w/ you whether we know each other or not. But I am especially in solidarity w/ u if I am yr friend
My solidarity with you is not contingent on you acting "right" or behaving "a certain way" that I approve of.
No.
My solidarity with you is on the basis of your humanity.
That's about all I have to say on the matter tonight.
But I will be talking about this again.
And again.
And again.
As long as it takes. Until I can return to my home in The State of Florida. I'm an actual Floridian. I went to high school there. That State is my home.
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@GaetaAmy Cld you take the keys to my Twitter away? I'm about to take ambien for sleep & I dont think I should keep tweeting my ex and my former friend god bless
Then again I'm having a lot of fun ? so like I can't decide
But like to be honest Meg Day is the far better poet. They just are. But like K is good, too. I mean I like them both a whole bunch. They just aren't very kind to me recently but why would that stop me from liking their poems? Right?
Hey. Can someone tell me why we don't have outrage about The Supreme Court's first decision of the term? Where The Supreme Court sided against disabled veterans? Like, are we really just too tired or do we not care about disabled veterans cuz I'm confused.
And the fact the ruling was 9-0 with nobody on the side of disabled veterans? That's yet another reason why I'm an anarchist. Have fun with your Democrats and your Democracy. If your Democrats can't even rep for disabled veterans? who need time? to make a deadline? then no.
There are so very many secret-disabled people in my life. I need the secrecy around disability to stop OR I need to figure out my own boundaries around secret-disabled people.
Preliminary boundary: If you are secret-disabled? I will move my bodymind away from you. I do not consent to be in close relation to secret-disabled ppl.