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Feb 6 13 tweets 8 min read
Feb. 6 is International Day of Zero Tolerance for Female Genital Mutilation/Cutting.

In #Egypt, my country of birth, 87% of girls and women aged 15-49 years have undergone FGM/C. feministgiant.com/p/endfgm #EndFGM #ZeroToleranceToFGM
With a population of 100 million, that horrific percentage means that Egypt has the greatest number of women and girls who have experienced FGM/C of any country in the world.

#EndFGM #ZeroToleranceToFGM
We hack away at perfectly healthy parts of our girls’ genitals because we’re obsessed with female virginity and because women’s sexuality is a taboo.

#EndFGM #ZeroToleranceToFGM
I first learned about FGM/C from a news article when I was about eighteen, soon after which I was told that many women of my extended family had been subjected to the horror when they were girls. My world came apart.
#EndFGM #ZeroTolerance2FGM
I was worried sick that I’d been cut and had somehow buried the memory. I checked my genitals in panic, not really knowing what would have been missing had I been cut, but worried nonetheless.

I have not been cut. I have spent the past 36 years obsessed feministgiant.com/p/endfgm
Something that hurts so many girls and women is kept silent and taboo because it has to do with our genitals and with sex.

The biggest obstacle in the global fight vs FGM is the reluctance to talk about the practice & the ways it harms girls & women–physically & psychologically
Laws are not enough. We need nothing short of a sexual revolution that centres our pleasure & liberation; a recognition that it isn't enough to stand up to the State alone, as we did during January 2011 revolution. We must stand up to patriarchy too. feministgiant.com/p/endfgm
At the heart of any revolution are consent and agency, the unequivocal belief that I own my body–not the State, not the Church/Mosque/Temple, not the Street and not the Family.
#EndFGM #ZeroToleranceToFGM
If is from that belief that we can all help in the fight against FGM/C by talking openly and unashasmedly about sex and our bodies, as these sexual radicals and revolutionaries have begun to do.

feministgiant.com/p/egypts-sexua… #EndFGM #ZeroToleranceToFGM
Every day–not just this one day when we urge the world to remember yet another way that patriarchy hurts us–I will fight to ensure that we claim ownership of our bodies; no longer vectors, but authors of our liberation.
#EndFGM #ZeroToleranceToFGM
It is our right to enjoy sex.

We have a right to pleasure.

We own our desire and we have a right to express it freely.

We must end FGM

feministgiant.com/p/endfgm #EndFGM #ZeroTolerance2FGM
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Feb 8
Was any other major issue given as little time as abortion and the overturning of #RoeVWade in #Biden’s #sotu2023?

Fucking outrageous.

If you thought “Where’s the sense of urgency?!” now you know.

It doesn’t exist.
It’s as if nothing happened just a few months ago.

It’s bad enough that Republicans won the House just 5 months after the Supreme Court overturned #RoeVWade and now the president gives it what—3 or 4 sentences?!

Wow
I am THRILLED that I am postmenopausal because to be a person who could get pregnant in this country right now would be to held hostage to a zealotry that at the highest levels of politics in this country is denied.

Fucking outrageous #SOTU
Read 7 tweets
Feb 7
So I’m told this is the Blue Plate Special.

See those blue weight plates? I’ve had my eyes on them for weeks.

45+45=135lbs!

I did it!

I lifted 135lbs (61.2kg) in deadlifts in training with Jeana today!

So excited! And Jeana was so excited! Our excitement was exhilarating!
My glutes aka butt is not so excited but wow!

After our session, I walk two subways so that I can ease my muscles out and also to relish my accomplishment.

With reverence and humility—working with the weights!

And this is yesterday’s 75lb squats. Working on more depth.
And for those unaccustomed to lifting: the barbell is 45lbs.

Add a plates of 45lbs on both ends and that’s a total of 135lbs.
Read 5 tweets
Feb 7
My most popular essay on menopause.

When you are shameless, you can't be shamed.

Few things are surrounded by more shame & silence than a cis woman who's no longer young, her vagina which is no longer wet, and her sex drive which isn't supposed to exist feministgiant.com/p/moisturize-y…
If I thought I needed to be brave to write about my 2 abortions, it's next level courage to admit to being that cis woman who's no longer young,whose vagina is no longer wet,and whose sex drive isn't supposed to exist.

So here I am looking shame in the eye, daring it to test me
The Black lesbian poet and intellectual Audre Lorde famously told us “your silence will not protect you.”

Silence protects our oppressors. Silence fuels shame.

And of course @Twitter has slapped a "sensitive content" warning on my tweet. What's "sensitive" about what I wrote? A picture of Mona's first t...
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Feb 5
I've been training with Jeana Fanelli for three months now and I'm at the stage where I think about deadlifts at random times, pretty much all the time--ways to improve my form, feeling them in my upper "hammies" (notice the lingo haha!) and glutes, etc. This is 131lbs (59.4kg)
There is a moment when you’re learning to deadlift that background moves into foreground, like those paintings full of dots that required you to look beyond the foreground into the background, so that the picture becomes apparent.
That moment when realise the power behind the move is less a lifting and more a pushing away. Once you sort out your breathing, how far back you can hinge your hips and what to do with your core and arms, you begin to understand it is less about lifting, more about pushing away.
Read 10 tweets
Feb 3
tw: sexual assault

February marks an important anniversary for me: the time in 2018 when I beat up my assaulter in a club.

It was fucking glorious.

feministgiant.com/p/i-beat-my-as… #IBeatMyAssaulter
I’ve lost count of # of times I’ve been sexually assaulted throughout my life and I know that my reactions have spanned a spectrum, all of them valid.

That night it was: Are you fucking kidding me? And my body went into autodrive; it knew exactly what to do. #IBeatMyAssaulter
I wanted him to know that next time he thought he could assault a woman, she too could beat the fuck out of him.

And then guess what a club manager said to me?

feministgiant.com/p/i-beat-my-as…

#IBeatMyAssaulter
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Feb 2
Sending love and solidarity to Rep. @IlhanMN as the U.S. House debates and votes on removing her from the Foreign Affairs Committee
Along with Rep. Rashida Tlaib. @Ilhan has challenged the sacrosanct U.S. support for Israel and expressed support for Palestinians as an expression of both their identities and also their progressive politics. I wrote this about the ways they're disruptors feministgiant.com/p/the-disrupto…
Tlaib and Omar are disruptors who signal that if there was a way to do things before they arrived, that way was not their destination.

It has been thrilling to hear Rep. Ilhan Omar call a fascist what he is: aljazeera.com/news/2021/5/14… Text: "The Israeli government and their far-right, ethn
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