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Feb 9 11 tweets 4 min read
The word "finally" is doing a lot of heavy lifting here.

Finally.

What happens during menopause? Science is finally piecing it together. nationalgeographic.com/magazine/artic… via @NatGeoMag #menopause
Humans and killer whales (and the short finned pilot whale) are the only species who go through menopause.

And we really don’t know why. Yes, really.
feministgiant.com/p/postmenopaus…
The theories that abound mostly revolve around the notion that we are here to reproduce.

It’s either the “granny effect”
theguardian.com/science/2017/j…
I like the “After Menopause, Killer Whale Moms Become Pod Leaders,” but I am childfree by choice. I have signaled to the universe that I am not here to reproduce. smithsonianmag.com/science-nature…
So these theories are a moot point for me.

I am nobody’s mother and will not be granny to anyone either. My offspring and the survival of their offspring should not be my price of admission to leadership. feministgiant.com/p/postmenopaus…
And you want to know more patriarchal fuckery that connects us with killer whales?

A study of orcas in the North Pacific has revealed rearing a son significantly reduced a female killer whale's chance of reproducing in the future. bbc.com/news/science-e… h/t @maazaland
The energy Orcas need to feed sons appears to compromise their health, leaving them less able to reproduce and raise other young.

"Mothers sacrifice their own food and their own energy," said Prof Darren Croft from the University of Exeter.
Orcas remain closely bonded to their families throughout their lives. But while young female offspring become independent in adulthood, males depend on their mothers - even demanding a share of the food that their matriarchs catch.

bbc.com/news/science-e…
It may seem paradoxical that such powerful, intelligent animals remain dependent on their mothers through their lives, but it appears that males simply don't have to become independent, because their mother remains by their side.
"If my mother cooked my dinner for me every night, perhaps I just wouldn't learn to cook my own dinner," joked Prof Croft.
And a reminder:

Menopause is Shit Menopause is Amazing feministgiant.com/p/essay-menopa…

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Feb 8
Was any other major issue given as little time as abortion and the overturning of #RoeVWade in #Biden’s #sotu2023?

Fucking outrageous.

If you thought “Where’s the sense of urgency?!” now you know.

It doesn’t exist.
It’s as if nothing happened just a few months ago.

It’s bad enough that Republicans won the House just 5 months after the Supreme Court overturned #RoeVWade and now the president gives it what—3 or 4 sentences?!

Wow
I am THRILLED that I am postmenopausal because to be a person who could get pregnant in this country right now would be to held hostage to a zealotry that at the highest levels of politics in this country is denied.

Fucking outrageous #SOTU
Read 7 tweets
Feb 7
So I’m told this is the Blue Plate Special.

See those blue weight plates? I’ve had my eyes on them for weeks.

45+45=135lbs!

I did it!

I lifted 135lbs (61.2kg) in deadlifts in training with Jeana today!

So excited! And Jeana was so excited! Our excitement was exhilarating!
My glutes aka butt is not so excited but wow!

After our session, I walk two subways so that I can ease my muscles out and also to relish my accomplishment.

With reverence and humility—working with the weights!

And this is yesterday’s 75lb squats. Working on more depth.
And for those unaccustomed to lifting: the barbell is 45lbs.

Add a plates of 45lbs on both ends and that’s a total of 135lbs.
Read 5 tweets
Feb 7
My most popular essay on menopause.

When you are shameless, you can't be shamed.

Few things are surrounded by more shame & silence than a cis woman who's no longer young, her vagina which is no longer wet, and her sex drive which isn't supposed to exist feministgiant.com/p/moisturize-y…
If I thought I needed to be brave to write about my 2 abortions, it's next level courage to admit to being that cis woman who's no longer young,whose vagina is no longer wet,and whose sex drive isn't supposed to exist.

So here I am looking shame in the eye, daring it to test me
The Black lesbian poet and intellectual Audre Lorde famously told us “your silence will not protect you.”

Silence protects our oppressors. Silence fuels shame.

And of course @Twitter has slapped a "sensitive content" warning on my tweet. What's "sensitive" about what I wrote? A picture of Mona's first t...
Read 11 tweets
Feb 6
Feb. 6 is International Day of Zero Tolerance for Female Genital Mutilation/Cutting.

In #Egypt, my country of birth, 87% of girls and women aged 15-49 years have undergone FGM/C. feministgiant.com/p/endfgm #EndFGM #ZeroToleranceToFGM
With a population of 100 million, that horrific percentage means that Egypt has the greatest number of women and girls who have experienced FGM/C of any country in the world.

#EndFGM #ZeroToleranceToFGM
We hack away at perfectly healthy parts of our girls’ genitals because we’re obsessed with female virginity and because women’s sexuality is a taboo.

#EndFGM #ZeroToleranceToFGM
Read 13 tweets
Feb 5
I've been training with Jeana Fanelli for three months now and I'm at the stage where I think about deadlifts at random times, pretty much all the time--ways to improve my form, feeling them in my upper "hammies" (notice the lingo haha!) and glutes, etc. This is 131lbs (59.4kg)
There is a moment when you’re learning to deadlift that background moves into foreground, like those paintings full of dots that required you to look beyond the foreground into the background, so that the picture becomes apparent.
That moment when realise the power behind the move is less a lifting and more a pushing away. Once you sort out your breathing, how far back you can hinge your hips and what to do with your core and arms, you begin to understand it is less about lifting, more about pushing away.
Read 10 tweets
Feb 3
tw: sexual assault

February marks an important anniversary for me: the time in 2018 when I beat up my assaulter in a club.

It was fucking glorious.

feministgiant.com/p/i-beat-my-as… #IBeatMyAssaulter
I’ve lost count of # of times I’ve been sexually assaulted throughout my life and I know that my reactions have spanned a spectrum, all of them valid.

That night it was: Are you fucking kidding me? And my body went into autodrive; it knew exactly what to do. #IBeatMyAssaulter
I wanted him to know that next time he thought he could assault a woman, she too could beat the fuck out of him.

And then guess what a club manager said to me?

feministgiant.com/p/i-beat-my-as…

#IBeatMyAssaulter
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