There’s a masculine and feminine way to parent. The goal is to have polarized, integrated parenting. Not emasculated fathers and masculinized mothers. twitter.com/i/web/status/1…
Each parent needs to do both masculine & feminine parenting, when appropriate.

(based on polyvagal theory)

A lot of mothers will get hardened by a de-polarized parenting system & fathers become passive & aloof. Resentment & disrespect will build. Intimacy will erode.
You’re probably wondering:

How do you fix the overbearing wife, passive husband trap?

Here’s a tip👇🏽
If you want a more feminine wife/mother of your children or a more masculine husband/father of your children, you need polarized, integrated parenting.

Giving her reprieve from her rigorous duties is a necessity (not a luxury) that helps her balance her energy & nervous system…… twitter.com/i/web/status/1…
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