π§΅The views today's propaganda embeds in people will be hard if not impossible to change. Neurologically, we tend to hold on to what we first come to believe - about ourselves & about others. #StopTheBoats will do lasting damage by planting & cementing deeply flawed convictions.
2/ My German nan, born in 1914, was a profoundly unpolitical person, her interests entirely elsewhere. She wasn't a great intellect, but equally not ignorant. In the 30s, she worked in an office & had an English boyfriend whom she visited in the UK in 1938.
3/ She also lived through Nazism as a young adult. She fled the GDR w/ her (German) husband in 1953 & felt at home in West Germany, for economic reasons more than political conviction. She took times as they were & adapted. A comfortable life, travel, clothes, that was her focus.
4/ I had never heard her utter an antisemitic or anti-foreigner sentiment ever ... until one day, in the late 1980s, we were watching a Saturday evening entertainment show. The (reasonably young) host made his entrance & she said, almost casually, "Look at his nose, he's a Jew."
5/ My brother & I were shocked, we'd been taught about antisemitism & Nazism all our lives. We argued against it, told her it was a terrible thing to say, factually wrong, Nazi propaganda. She was somewhat astounded. I don't think this had occurred to her. For her, it was a fact.
6/ It is a tiny example. Clearly she had soaked up this propaganda as fact, information, believed it, & despite decades of life experience never questioned or changed it. I don't think any research or statistic I had put in front of her would have. She *thought* this was true.
7/ Today's lies of asylum seekers being illegal, not genuine, a threat, a wave, once believed, might become just as unshakeable. Once accepted as factually right, they often remain. They poison people's minds. The antidote: immediate contradiction. Once believed, they might last.
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Very nice chap sharing a room with my family. Married to a Polish lady. Widely travelled. We chat about the world.
He says, unprompted, Scots are the warmest, most welcoming people he's ever met. He's never felt such genuine friendliness elsewhere.
2/ Remembering individual moments of kindness on his journey all the way to the Hebrides. A visit of a crowded pub where a local, unprompted, offered his chair. The true spirit of B&Bs with no effort spared to make every guest feel comfortable, welcome, at home.
3/ Watching a football game (the Euros co-hosted by Poland that year) & wondering whether they could dare support England in a Scottish pub, only to be met with much good humour, generosity, tolerance when they cheered.
Well, after I took a dive downstairs in a hospital (you may laugh), after 2 weeks my wrist is still giving me grief, so I decided it was best to go to A&E to make sure nothing's fractured or torn.
I took a book & a charger for my fully-charged phone, preparing myself for a wait.
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There's a 2G+ rule to be let in (vaccinated + tested within the last 24hrs), unless you're an emergency patient. My temperature was taken, and I was channelled straight to A&E.
Within 15 minutes my details & medical problems were registered, and I saw a doctor.
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He assessed movement & pain & ordered an x-ray. Radiology was just around the corner, so I walked there & completed 2 forms.
I had just settled down when I was called in. 2 x-rays in 2 minutes, and back to the treatment room.
There's a huge grey area between uncritical and overcritical. We tend to be very forgiving towards those we already see in a positive light, and rather strict with those we don't. It's not easy to apply the same standards to everyone (including ourselves π), is it?
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We see this echoed in yesterday's comments. Clothes or behaviour, gestures or words ... the praise and criticism reflects the divide in the country. I'm not sure this funeral has, as the BBC said, brought people together. That, in my view, was wishful thinking.
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The last 10 days were a pause. Welcomed by some who politically profit, but damaging to most who live through increasingly difficult times and need help right now. 10 days lost to enforced inertia, under a blanket of ermine decorum.
Once, a consultancy came to our office. They rightly criticised that I kept photocopies of the travel claims I did for my manager. Why would I take, file, & keep copies when the originals were literally 2 offices down with the accountant?
2/ A good question. I explained.
The accountant was an elderly man, a bit set in his ways. [I didn't tell them he liked a beer or 2 at lunchtime.] A lovely man, good at his job, just not at filing. [You could barely see him behind all the stacks of papers piled up on his desk.]
3/ Every yr, we'd have an official audit. The auditors always wanted to see manager's travel claims.
Every yr, the accountant relied on my copies to provide the info. I never complained. It was more important the claims were correct, we looked competent, & the auditors saw it.
π§΅Yesterday, at the hospital, I had a question. In the corridor, I spotted a lady in scrubs, leaning back against a wall, waiting. My "Excuse me,..." was answered with a firm "I am a surgeon.", so I instinctively backed off.
2/ My 1st thought was, oh dear, she probably thinks I mistook her for a nurse. My 2nd one was, so what? I had a question. I needed help. She could have redirected me. Or listened to me first. She was not in hurry. I didn't interrupt.
3/ When it comes to people I care for, I am fairly resilient. So I soldiered on & eventually did find someone who'd help. And yes, we were able to ascertain that the vitally important medication had been administered. Phew.