#TBT: On a courtesy call to renowned Yoruba political figure, former SGF to IBB administration, and former Finance Minister, Chief Olu Falae @ his Ilu-Abo palace, Akure North. 🙌🏽 (March 2018)
Chai, otONDO like me that year wey carry PCDS project for head. 😭🤦🏽♂️
Chief Falae gave me the sum of N20,000 cash as support for the ‘free’ community computer appreciation training I delivered to his constituents during my service year there.
The govt. schools in the community (1 pry, 1 sec) had ZERO computers for learning purposes. 💻
Asides the free computer classes for the villagers, I constructed a mini bus-stop at the junction of a major dirt-road leading into the community, facilitated the rehabilitation of the school toilets and installation of 8 pour-flush units and a borehole water source…
…courtesy of AWDROP (Asso. of Water Drillers, Rig Owners & Practitioners), through the instrumentality of the office of Ondo State’s First Lady.
To what end?
Dunno, I was just another youth ‘corper’ from across the River Niger who’d obeyed the call to ‘serve my fatherland’…
…and was determined to make a difference.
Forgive my assumed self-glorification 😜 but, did any of these villagers say “oh, this Omo Ibo wants to take over our land by bringing development to us”? Or that I was disrespectful to their culture or religion? NEVER!
For avoidance of doubt, I was even offered a chieftaincy title “Akorewolu of Ilu-Abo” which, of course, I declined 😂🤦🏽♂️. One of the chiefs, the Elemo, even promised to sell a plot of land to me for <150k whenever I was ready. But I just wanted to do NYSC and leave in one piece.
Ngl, I sorta enjoyed the peace and little supports here and there in the village. Interestingly, legend has it that Ilu-Abo was an old settlement area which housed migrant farmers from different parts of Nigeria. You’ll find a significant number of people from different tribes:
The indigenous Yorubas, Igbos mainly from Ebonyi & Enugu states, a few Hausa/Fulani, Igede & Idoma ppl from Benue state, Igbira & Igala ppl from Kogi state, and more tribes & tongues. It’s literally a melting pot for ‘Nigerians’.
No one ever claimed it was a no-man’s land…
…neither were the non-indigenes ever told to “go back to your state” (in fact, a lot of these ‘settlers’ have naturalized and acquired property and livelihoods here that an outsider can’t tell whether they’re indigenes or not.
Although there were mutual banters and ‘beefs’…
…amongst the villagers (as expected of a multi-ethnic community), never did it escalate to unabashed hate and targeted violence. If it had, in this case, not only the Igbos but every other ‘foreigner’ would be gravely affected. And that’s like 60-80% of Ilu-Abo’s population!
My point?
Yes, we usually don’t like each other that much in Nigeria, especially based on where the other person ‘originates from’, but the gory hullabaloo in Lagos and other states due to this year’s election, is a testament to the fact that it is 💯 politically motivated.
Nothing you wan tell me otherwise.
And I’m afraid the kinda mentality some people have come to bear: that even though this person brought or is bringing development and commerce to my region, as long as he/she is not from my tribe, then it’s ok to harm them.
The power of influence is far greater than the power of money imo. Both influence and money are not mutually exclusive tho. Yes, with💰, you can influence ppl’s actions, but there’s a level of influence you’d possess over a group which can’t be undermined by a rival with more💰.
This is why, in areas like politics, business and entertainment, influencer marketing will continue to be a hot cake till tomorrow.
For instance, someone like Dangote may be the richest in the country but won’t be able to, on his own, influence 1m people to, say, sit at home.
Whereas someone like Kanu or Ekpa can direct their followers to do same, which’ll have negative ripple effect on, say, 10m people including businesses in the South East owned by much richer people like Dangote.
The high point of marketing has always been making someone else believe that they actually have a ‘problem’ (which they probably don’t), and to get them to use your own ‘solution’ for their real or imagined problem.
This is applicable in all spheres of life, including religion.
Religion marketers (televangelists, streetvangelists, busvangelists and pastorpreneurs) wanna make us believe that somehow, by no fault of ours, we as humans have a ‘problem’—SIN. And that it’s only their own brand of religion that holds the power to solve our so-called problem.
And so we have the messages continuously in our faces:
“Jesus is the way, the truth and the life. No one cometh to the Father except through him.”
“Allah is the greatest and greatness belong to him. For you to be great, you have to believe in Prophet Muhammad.”
No person in a position of authority enjoys their authority being undermined by those they lead, and Product Managers are no different. This is one of the issues you get to face by having “superstars” on your dev team.
The PM role is like that of a football team coach, and just as in football, good man management skill is of essence if you must have good results and meet corporate goals/KPIs during the product development process (PDP).
In football, however, it’s easier for the coach to sideline and ultimately transfer out a superstar player whose ego appears to have irreversibly gotten bigger than the team—for instance, the CR7 vs ETH saga in 2022. This is possible cos of squad depth and ‘easy funding’.
But why’s it that most IPOBians on social media are usually faceless people? 🤔👀
Freedom fighting is one thing, terrorism and rabble rousing are another.
I’ve never been a fan of MNK’s approach to “freedom for Biafrans”, but even though One Nigeria, as it were, doesn’t seem to be working for all, there are subtler ways of getting what you want. (NB to Nigerians: An Obi presidency is NOT one of such.)
Wow just getting to know that the late Major Gen. Philip Effiong (Ojukwu’s 2nd-in-command during the Biafran War, who’d signed the peace treaty with Gowon) was friends with and used to visit my paternal grand-uncle Sir Philip Nkwocha of blessed memory.
Didn’t get to have a much personal experience with Ndaa Philip Uwaezuoke Nkwocha (was quite a kid when he died about 2007), but he had a reputation as an astute academic (one of the pioneers in my community of origin) and Director, Sunray Publications, Port Harcourt.
I fondly remember him for his bald rounded head, áfó beer (potbelly 😂), baritone voice and boisterous, witty humor. As a lover of education, he’d greatly influenced my father (who has always supported his children education-wise). And a bevy of texts columbia.edu/itc/mealac/pri….
On a norms, no Nigerian man would ever wish for his daughter to ‘go wayward’ (i.e. start h0eing around for money and favors from the—older—opposite sex) especially during her teens (and probably early twenties)…
Yet, some of these men are the same that string along these ‘little girls’ with cash and gifts/treats just to bed them and add to their bouquet of ‘female conquests’ a.k.a ‘chicken poultry’.
Mr Man, are you forgetting that that little chick is actually another man’s daughter?
Yes, female hypergamy is a thing here and the age of sexual consent in 🇳🇬 might be 18, but you know most of these girls are not, esp., emotionally, intellectually and financially capable of a mutual, healthy sexual relationship with your thirty and forty something year-old self…