1 / Went to #LetWomenSpeak at Speakers’ Corner earlier. The gender fascists had already encircled the women. The way the purple-haired young woman was tripping on her rage was so intense, I thought she was might explode #purplerage
2 / “You’ve got Nazis on your side!” she screamed as she tried to hide her face, not realising the women speaking are doing so to defend her rights as a woman
3 / Trying to drown the women out as per usual. Here @Aja02537920 is speaking. I could see her speak but couldn’t hear a word
4 / As I walked around a young woman, early 20s, scarf to cover her face, screamed right in my face. I thought her eyes were about to pop out of their sockets. What is this rage? This utter unadulterated rage? Here’s what she screamed at me…
5 / I asked a police officer why they let the gender fascists get away with having megaphones and a PA system. He said “People keep asking me that” and that was it. They were just there to make sure things didn’t escalate, but didn’t prevent what was happening at all #policefail
6 / Angry bloke with megaphone leading the chant “Our bodies, our choice!” and flipping the bird. Mate, do with your body what you want, just keep it out of women’s spaces 🤷♂️
7 / I guess he thinks this is ‘activism’?
8 / At this point a number of women have left and I’m in the inner circle now. The gender fascists use umbrellas as ‘shields’ and to block us. One guy with long curly copper died hair makes gestures with his fist near his mouth while holding a large rainbow umbrella
9 / I thought he was making a lewd gesture and ask him what it means. He screams at me but I can’t hear him - too much noise. I ask him a couple of times more, finally I hear “I’ll knock your f-in teeth out.” He stares me down. There’s a police officer right next to me, and I
10 / tell him. He does nothing. This mob gets away with their aggression and intimidation right under the police’s noses - it’s a joke. @LondonMetropol2 and @MayorofLondon you cool with this?
11 / Most of the women have left by now, there’s 6 of us left (3 guys including myself). The mob who had told us to go home / F off then begin to follow us. The police is still around.
12 / A man in his 50s or 60s starts giving them hell, shouting about how they are preventing free speech, asking why they don’t want to debate, why they are hiding their faces and putting umbrellas in his face. The police tell him to stop and that he’s ‘provoking’ them. He shouts
13 / back at the police that Speakers’ Corner is about free speech and how the mob undermines it. A young woman with a face mask screeches that he’s a fascist / Nazi (of course). He shouts “I’ve been a Marxist all my adult life, you are the fascists!” One bloke with bad eyeliner
14 / carries the lesbian flag - purple with the labrys. We make our way down the path with the mob to the Joy of Life Fountain. Think they were planning to do a debrief. I said “Well done for trying to silence women.” They didn’t like that.
15 / At this point it appears the police is trying to extract themselves from the situation. I can see one officer motioning to the others to move away. The 6 of us walk on, the mob follows us, chanting “scratch a terf, a fascist bleeds”
16 / “There are many, many more of us than you” they chant through their PA system. They use their umbrellas stop stop me filming them #stunningandbrave
17 / Smile, you’re on camera! 😉
18 / A couple of young Arab guys are there as well. They laugh at the mob and speak in Arabic. One asks “Are you with these freaks?” “Hell no!” I say. The police is now quite removed from us. It’s like they just sneaked away. I tell the others we better follow them as the mob
19 / will keep following us. So we walk across the grass up to where the police are. The mob stays out. @AlfUpATree wants to counter the chants of “Nazis!” and “Fascists!” by waving the peace flag. And then they come for us again…
20 / There are 3 lines of police officers. We go and stand next to them. The mob encircles us, chanting “Whose streets? Our streets!” and getting their umbrellas (and knitted rainbow) out. The police just sort of stand there, seemingly unsure of what to do
21 / “To police or not to police, that’s the question” Again I ask one of the officers why they are allowing this situation to happen. He says I can just leave if I want to… The guy with the long copper curly hair has been keeping an eye on me in the meantime. I point him out to
22 / the police officer and say “He threatened to knock my teeth out earlier, can you keep an eye on him?” Police officer says yes. Copper-haired bloke seems to enjoy this. The 6 of us agree to get out, but we’re being blocked. Copper-haired bloke blocks my way by stepping left
23 / or right when I try to move. A chubby guy blocks Alf from leaving, even though he asks him quite politely to step aside. Finally an officer tells them to make way and we leave
24 / Then off to the pub. Tbh I thought there would be a bigger crowd, but the fact the police is allowing all this to happen is unacceptable. This mob was lucky in a way that it was quite quiet at Speakers’ Corner today - could’ve turned nasty (for them) had others been around
25 / it was interesting to see how quickly some of them got scared when the man let rip about free speech needed to be protected and them hiding their faces. Just a couple more of those men may send those gender fascists packing
26 / Some screen shots of the bloke with the copper dyed hair (taken from someone else’s footage)
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1 / Mammoth thread 🧵🦣 Had a challenging chat yesterday with a dad (an old friend) whose son started 'puberty blockers' a few months ago. Had to navigate a very complex conversation on the spot:
▶️ what to say
▶️ what not to say
▶️ how to communicate certain things to make sure they landed
▶️ giving him enough space to process what I was saying
▶️ noticing his body language and facial expressions
▶️ giving him enough space to ask questions and share whatever he wanted to share
▶️ ensuring he felt comfortable enough to share deeply personal stuff in the first place, and to be able to do so without feeling like he was being judged as a parent
▶️ how to not let my own emotions get in the way or become a distraction - this situation was first and foremost about a worried dad and his distressed son
We talked for hours and were both so happy to have been able to have this kind of conversation, but it was also upsetting as it put certain dark realities into very sharp focus.
I'm posting about it here in the hope it will help some of you navigate these conversations when you're faced with them, and would love to hear your thoughts on what you've found to be helpful from your experiences.
We cannot underestimate the importance of these conversations and the impact they may have. There is no magic formula but together we can work out some key pointers for 'best practice'.
I'll add annotations in italics.
M = Menno
F = Friend
OK, let's go...
#KeepSpeakingKeepPeaking
2 / An old friend messaged to say he was visiting the UK with his teenage son and wanted to meet up. We met at uni back in 1994 (!) and had last seen each other 7 years ago. We don’t really keep in touch regularly but always have a good time when we meet and simply pick up where we left off.
He sent me a pic of him and his son and I went “Uh oh…” His son looks young for his age, has very long hair and quite an androgynous look in a soft / sweet / angelic sort of way. My first thoughts were “That’s the kind of kid that gets bullied” (I remember those days well myself) and “I hope he knows it’s perfectly fine to not be a ‘typical boy’ and that he doesn’t get sucked into thinking of himself as some kind of magical gender person.”
I was about to find out...
3 / We met at noon and it was so good to see him again. He’s such a friendly guy and always has the biggest smile. I noticed his son was shy and awkward, so I tried to be friendly and calm around him. He mumbled rather than spoke (like I used to), he tried to make himself physically smaller (like I used to), and seemed a bit vacant.
My friend asked me what I was up to these days and so I said I’d started looking into the conflict between sex and gender. His son immediately turned his face away and looked uncomfortable. “Maybe we should talk about that later,” I said to my friend. “I think that would be best,” he responded.” My initial hunch of “Uh oh” had unfortunately been right. Sometimes it’s not nice to be right.
1 / DOUBLE MASTECTOMIES promoted at local Brighton supermarket 🚨😲
Yesterday I went to get some I thought ice cream at @coopuk on St James Street in Brighton. The first thing you see as you walk in is a notice board with posters and leaflets for anything from local music events, maths tutoring, yoga… and getting your breasts surgically removed. All dressed up in the usual baby pink, baby blue and white and disguised by the word ‘top surgery’ so Joe Bloggs won’t take notice.
The leaflet is for an ‘advisory care service’ that puts women (who believe themselves to be male, or neither male of female, or whatever ‘identity’ they feel necessitates breast removal) in touch with surgeons in ‘medical tourism’ hotspots like Poland, Mexico, Thailand, the Czech Republic, and India.
I decided to speak to someone in the shop to see if they were aware of this leaflet.
2 / So I get my ice cream and pay at the self-checkout, then go up to the check outs where there were two staff members. One a young bloke on oestrogen, and a middle aged bloke. I ask the latter what the rules are for putting something on the notice board. “At long as it doesn’t have any swear words it should be fine.”
“There a leaflet on there that promotes double mastectomies”, I say.
“What?! Show me.” He comes out from behind the checkout and we walk to the notice board. “Well it’s gone now because I took it down. Got it in my bag. Here it is.”
And I showed him.
Pic 1: the leaflet
Pic 2: notice board after I took the leaflet down
I said “Top surgery is a euphemism for double mastectomies - but targeted specifically at girls and women who feel uncomfortable with their body. Should something like that be up on the board here? We’re talking breast amputation.”
“I hadn’t even seen it. Maybe because it’s Pride?” he said.
“Since when is Pride about amputation?” I ask. “Gays and lesbians fought to get away from ‘medical’ treatment, like lobotomies, electroshocks, castration.”
He pauses for a bit. “It’s kinda crazy how things have been hijacked huh?”
“This just seems really dodgy to me. Who even is behind this service? Do they even diagnose patients properly, or what is the process? Does it belong on a notice board next to yoga classes and a theatre show?”
“I wasn’t aware it was even there.”
“That’s why they use the ‘trans’ colours and obfuscating language. Because when it’s ‘trans’ no one is allowed to question it, right?”
“Well thanks for taking it down mate” he says, and I leave. Then I meet some people outside…
1 / This is the guy who stalks #LetWomenSpeak in London and posed as a detransitioned woman to get friendly with some of the regulars and get info / contact details.
He tries to get people arrested for any and every reason so if you ever see him *do not engage*
He even wore Kellie-Jay merchandise and had an adult human female flag to pretend he was ‘on our side’.
2 / First time I saw him was Spring or Summer 2022. He was hovering around Reformers Tree, some women were talking to him and I walked up to them. “Oh my god, MrMenno, I looooooove your videos!” he said. “Oh great - which one is your fave?” He looked at me blank, didn’t have an answer. Thought he was a TRA.
Then a month or two later he joined us at a summer picnic. That’s when he wore a Kellie-Jay scarf and said he was a detransitioned woman. I asked him some questions about his so-called ‘transition’ and he waffled a bit. I didn’t believe him.
3 / March 2023 he showed up, again with his scarf and this time an adult human female flag. There was a group of TRAs trying to intimidate the women. I filmed as I walked up to the gathering, and you can see him chatting with his TRA mates (note the one with the pink and blue hair). As soon as he saw me filming he quickly walked away.
- Marcus claims to be 'non-binary transgender' and wants to be referred to as 'she / her'
- Lucia said he is biologically and scientifically male
- Marcus is now suing Lucia for €11,000.
This is Marcus.
2 / Marcus is an activist and takes part in talks about feminism where he discusses 'transfeminism'. Here's an interview. He says that at home he 'pretends' to be a 'cis man'.
He recommends we read a book by Susan Stryker, a man who claims to be a lesbian (and was a keynote speaker at Lesbian Lives in Ireland in 2022).
3 / Lucia has put a crowdfunder up (use Google Translate to translate the webpage if the option doesn't come up automatically)