1 / "Just treat me like a guy when you f**k me"

No.

You are a woman.

Gay men don't owe you sex for your 'validation'.

#BoxerCeiling 2 / Gay men are constantly being gaslighted that women can be gay men too and called bigots if we don't go along with it.

They are trying to rewrite male homosexuality to include females.

It is homophobic as f**k.

I made a video about this 2 years ago, about how gay men are being taught to go 'eat 🐈‍⬛' 🤯

1 / Mammoth thread 🧵🦣 Had a challenging chat yesterday with a dad (an old friend) whose son started 'puberty blockers' a few months ago. Had to navigate a very complex conversation on the spot:

▶️ what to say
▶️ what not to say
▶️ how to communicate certain things to make sure they landed
▶️ giving him enough space to process what I was saying
▶️ noticing his body language and facial expressions
▶️ giving him enough space to ask questions and share whatever he wanted to share
▶️ ensuring he felt comfortable enough to share deeply personal stuff in the first place, and to be able to do so without feeling like he was being judged as a parent
▶️ how to not let my own emotions get in the way or become a distraction - this situation was first and foremost about a worried dad and his distressed son

We talked for hours and were both so happy to have been able to have this kind of conversation, but it was also upsetting as it put certain dark realities into very sharp focus.

I'm posting about it here in the hope it will help some of you navigate these conversations when you're faced with them, and would love to hear your thoughts on what you've found to be helpful from your experiences.

We cannot underestimate the importance of these conversations and the impact they may have. There is no magic formula but together we can work out some key pointers for 'best practice'.

I'll add annotations in italics.

M = Menno
F = Friend

OK, let's go...

#KeepSpeakingKeepPeaking 2 / An old friend messaged to say he was visiting the UK with his teenage son and wanted to meet up. We met at uni back in 1994 (!) and had last seen each other 7 years ago. We don’t really keep in touch regularly but always have a good time when we meet and simply pick up where we left off.

He sent me a pic of him and his son and I went “Uh oh…” His son looks young for his age, has very long hair and quite an androgynous look in a soft / sweet / angelic sort of way. My first thoughts were “That’s the kind of kid that gets bullied” (I remember those days well myself) and “I hope he knows it’s perfectly fine to not be a ‘typical boy’ and that he doesn’t get sucked into thinking of himself as some kind of magical gender person.”

I was about to find out...

1 / DOUBLE MASTECTOMIES promoted at local Brighton supermarket 🚨😲

Yesterday I went to get some I thought ice cream at @coopuk on St James Street in Brighton. The first thing you see as you walk in is a notice board with posters and leaflets for anything from local music events, maths tutoring, yoga… and getting your breasts surgically removed. All dressed up in the usual baby pink, baby blue and white and disguised by the word ‘top surgery’ so Joe Bloggs won’t take notice.

The leaflet is for an ‘advisory care service’ that puts women (who believe themselves to be male, or neither male of female, or whatever ‘identity’ they feel necessitates breast removal) in touch with surgeons in ‘medical tourism’ hotspots like Poland, Mexico, Thailand, the Czech Republic, and India.

I decided to speak to someone in the shop to see if they were aware of this leaflet. 2 / So I get my ice cream and pay at the self-checkout, then go up to the check outs where there were two staff members. One a young bloke on oestrogen, and a middle aged bloke. I ask the latter what the rules are for putting something on the notice board. “At long as it doesn’t have any swear words it should be fine.”

“There a leaflet on there that promotes double mastectomies”, I say.

“What?! Show me.” He comes out from behind the checkout and we walk to the notice board. “Well it’s gone now because I took it down. Got it in my bag. Here it is.”

And I showed him.

Pic 1: the leaflet
Pic 2: notice board after I took the leaflet down

1 / This is the guy who stalks #LetWomenSpeak in London and posed as a detransitioned woman to get friendly with some of the regulars and get info / contact details.

He tries to get people arrested for any and every reason so if you ever see him *do not engage*

He even wore Kellie-Jay merchandise and had an adult human female flag to pretend he was ‘on our side’.

2 / First time I saw him was Spring or Summer 2022. He was hovering around Reformers Tree, some women were talking to him and I walked up to them. “Oh my god, MrMenno, I looooooove your videos!” he said. “Oh great - which one is your fave?” He looked at me blank, didn’t have an answer. Thought he was a TRA.

Then a month or two later he joined us at a summer picnic. That’s when he wore a Kellie-Jay scarf and said he was a detransitioned woman. I asked him some questions about his so-called ‘transition’ and he waffled a bit. I didn’t believe him.

1 / 🚨𝗧𝗛𝗜𝗦 𝗜𝗦 𝗪𝗛𝗔𝗧 '𝗧𝗥𝗔𝗡𝗦 𝗥𝗜𝗚𝗛𝗧𝗦' 𝗠𝗘𝗔𝗡𝗦🚨

- Marcus claims to be 'non-binary transgender' and wants to be referred to as 'she / her'

- Lucia said he is biologically and scientifically male

- Marcus is now suing Lucia for €11,000.

This is Marcus.



2 / Marcus is an activist and takes part in talks about feminism where he discusses 'transfeminism'. Here's an interview. He says that at home he 'pretends' to be a 'cis man'.

He recommends we read a book by Susan Stryker, a man who claims to be a lesbian (and was a keynote speaker at Lesbian Lives in Ireland in 2022).

#LetWomenSpeakUtrecht is about to start in half an hour. We’re just setting up 😉 2 / Link for the live stream (it’ll be in Dutch)

youtube.com/live/mpYgi89_T…

1/ The NHS is still in thrall of 'the trans child' and planning accordingly, claiming 7-year-olds can 'understand' being referred to a gender clinic.

How would my 6-year-old younger self have fared in today's climate of captured schools and clinicians?

Let's go back to 1982...

https://twitter.com/SVPhillimore/status/1687436407634030592

2 / I remember the moment still. I'm skipping down the garden path on my way to go to school (I'm in my first year of primary school), and my mum is at the front door saying "Remember to write neatly on the lines in your exercise book!" because my handwriting, like my walking

1 / I once went to visit a man in hospital the day after he got castrated and had his penis surgically inverted. I was unaware than of all the craziness and just wanted to ‘be kind’. I got him a pink card (“It’s a girl!”) and a little cake with a candle. I accidentally caught a

https://twitter.com/lgbwiththet/status/1680942394684866562

2 / glimpse of the bloodied bandages between his legs. “You’re having your first period!” I quipped, awkwardly. We laughed.

There were two other men there who believed they were women. One told me he still had his penis. I was quite surprised, I thought they all got rid of it

12 / The ‘Sugar Money’ on his knickers refers to money / gifts in exchange for sex / companionship.

He happily showed his bum to the audience, with a little giggle of course (so womanly!), which got a cheer.

You can see in the vid how his legs were shaking. Not sure if that was 13 / because of the nerves or the heels being so uncomfortable (the heels was super thin). It made the whole thing even more bizarre and ‘forced’.

I wonder if he walked into the Ladies like that yesterday.

1 / Gender woo in full swing yesterday at @Tate’s #QueerAndNow2023

A ‘transwoman’ with scrotum on display and a focus on ‘queer / trans’ children. They even used kids as props in this bizarre parade with adult women chanting “We’re so queer!” The kids were totally bewildered 2 / This happened while a panel were discussing the following…

More than happy to confirm that I am a 'Pronoun Purist'.

I will not call a man 'she' or a woman 'he', let alone use 'xe / ze / ey' or any of those other nonsense pronouns.

I am very lucky to be in position where I don't have to.

#sexnotgender 2 / I realise though that for others this can be very different. They may be able to lose their jobs if they publicly only use pronouns based on sex. It's a crazy situation, but I'm not here to tell them how to navigate that. There is also the fact that we're all 'peaking' at

1 / The difference between actual civil rights movements and the ‘trans’ movement is that none of them fought for rights on the basis of something they were not, or passing themselves of as another demographic of people. Black people didn’t say “Hey, we’re white!” Women didn’t

https://twitter.com/katymontgomerie/status/1666768311537786880

2 / say “Hey, we’re men!” and gay people didn’t say “Hey’ we’re straight!” They fought for rights on the basis of what set them apart.

But ‘trans’ is about claiming the identities and rights of others. Men claiming to be women. Women claiming to be men. Straight men claiming to

@yanisvaroufakis 1 / Dear genuine friend / supporter, the LGB and the T are inherently very different, even diametrically opposed. Years of us being lumped together as LGBT (now LGBTQIA2S+ or an even longer variation) doesn’t mean we *are* the same or have the same goals. LGB is about same-sex @yanisvaroufakis 2 / attraction, whole TQ+ is about ‘gender identity’. An increasing number of LGBs is realising that this concept is highly regressive as it relies on sexist stereotypes which many LGB people have spent a lifetime fighting. It is also the basis for socially and medically

1 / “What is a woman?” is the WRONG question.

We all know what a woman is. It’s just a diversion tactic.

The real question is “What is trans?”

#whatisawoman #whatistrans

https://twitter.com/realdailywire/status/1664424891372941312

2 / One of the only consistent things about the term ‘trans’ is that it keeps changing and expanding, to the point where it’s now common to see it mentioned as ‘trans+’ or ‘trans*’. Normally if there’s an ‘*’ behind a word there’ll be a footnote with an explanation. Not so with

1 / I find this line really chilling…

“Prof. Stock, who previously faced criticism for questioning the prominence of gender identity over biological sex…”

As if 1️⃣ it’s somehow established fact that ‘gender identity’ is a thing, and

lbc.co.uk/news/oxford-co… 2 / 2️⃣ that this should naturally override the reality of sex (no need to say ‘biological’ sex @EJWardNews as there is only one type of sex…) and 3️⃣ that even daring to question this is somehow valid reason for criticism. Like… how very dare she!

The way @EJWardNews so

1 / A few days ago I got a call from someone from Amnesty. "You've supported us in the past so I wondered if I could interest you in playing a monthly lottery game we've started doing" or something like that. He was a man who struck me as perhaps in his 40s, very calm, and so

https://twitter.com/amnesty/status/1663838044951138304

2 / I thought I'd hear him out, especially after he said the call was being recorded. "Are you OK with that?' he asked. I wanted to say "Hell yeah!" but just said "That's fine." So he starts doing the spiel, and eventually he asks if I'd be interested. I said it sounded like a

1 / “I don’t think a transwoman is a woman, I’m sorry I just don’t think that’s true.” - Kathleen Stock

Plain and simple.

Never think it is the ‘unsayable’; it is the very thing that needs to be said to stop the toxic climate of fear & intimidation spun by the gender brigade.

https://twitter.com/lbc/status/1663482750463094784

2 / Just like the woman on Question Time.

Willoughby: “What you said there effectively is that transwomen are men”

Woman: “In my opinion they still are men.”

Again, she just said it, plain and simple.

https://twitter.com/hewitson10/status/1621289922769420293

Things kicking off at #letwomenspeak but police taking decisive action 👏 2 / 3 TRAs led away by police. One big burly bloke, 2 masked / hooded women from what I could see

1 / Can you believe people are still peddling this “Puberty blockers are as safe as can be!” BS? Either unbelievably ignorant or deeply irresponsible

#genderwoo

https://twitter.com/charleyhasted/status/1662187806133764128

2 / Some quotes and info from the Tavistock itself and the NHS…

1 / Gay man here. That is NOT a dick.

It’s a woman’s rolled up arm skin stuck to her groin so she can pretend to have male genitalia and male sexual function.

It’s not manhood, it’s a falsehood.

And it feels like identity rape.

@Channel4 @AnnaRichardso @FinlayGames

https://twitter.com/twisterfilm/status/1648455153618677762

2 / I do not use the word rape lightly. I know what it’s like to be raped. I know what it’s like for my body to be taken against my will. I know what it’s like to feel powerless and scared and violated and to not know when it will end or what state I’ll be in when it does

1 / Went to #LetWomenSpeak at Speakers’ Corner earlier. The gender fascists had already encircled the women. The way the purple-haired young woman was tripping on her rage was so intense, I thought she was might explode #purplerage 2 / “You’ve got Nazis on your side!” she screamed as she tried to hide her face, not realising the women speaking are doing so to defend her rights as a woman