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Many professionals have identified that #HarryandMeghan have narcissistic tendencies. This 🧵outlines a destructive narcissist & what to do. It seems The King has been dealing with them & the stupid PR is their meltdown of being ignored. Keep Calm #KingCharlesIII & Carry On.

When you’re dealing with a narcissist you’re dealing with an entitled childish ingrate who lacks boundaries & has very little, if any empathy & conscience. In addition, you’re dealing with a master manipulator. Someone who is willing to go to any lengths, lengths that you and I

cannot even fathom, just to get their way, just to win the right fight, just to look like the good person, just to look like either the hero or the victim, they’ll go to any lengths. So you want to be sure you choose you’re battles wisely. It’s in you’re best interest to back

away slowly and when you get away stay away. When it comes to shutting down a narcissist permanently the first thing you want to do is leave all emotion out of it. Do not under any circumstances react to their provocations. You want to deal with them like it’s a business

transaction, no matter who they are. There is zero room, zero, nada for emotion if your goal is to actually shut them down permanently. You wanna stay calm, cool and collected, no matter what it takes and remain completely non-reactive. If you want to successfully shut

these creatures down, what ever you do, you’re gonna have to find a way to remain cold, detached and unfeeling, you know just like they are. Forget reasoning with this person, being heard or getting your needs met, it’s not going to happen. You’re not dealing with a reasonable

rational adult here. Rather, you’re dealing with a wounded entitled childish ingrate. You’re dealing with someone who is willing to go to any lengths to hurt you, to provoke you, to win the right fight, to get their way, to manipulate you, to manipulate the perception of others

and to manipulate outcomes and if they’re resentful and motivated enough they’re also willing to go to any lengths to seek revenge on you, what ever it takes. The truth is, because they lack a fundamental moral compass or conscience they will go to lengths that you and I cannot

even imagine. They don’t have the same emotional response to their shocking attitudes and behaviour, which is why they’re often so shocking to us. They do and say things, they contrive situations and circumstances, they manipulate and play games, leaving great big huge

chunks of the truth out of the equation. The point being, forget showing up with your big heart and all that love and empathy that you carry or forget trying to become a better communicator, more understanding, more patient, more tolerant and long suffering, maybe I could make

this work. Forget all of that. Forget showing up with what you would normally show up with in the discussion with a reasonably sane rational and healthy adult. Forget bringing that to the table of a destructive narcissist as it’s not going to work with this person. To shut them

down here’s what to do. With as much detached flat-line ambivalence as you can possibly muster use words and super short, succinct, clear, simple statements, like no or no thank you or I’m not available (I’m busy) or sorry, I can’t do that or I’m not interested, thank you. The

point being, no is a full sentence, might be hard at first but if you can deliver the information with zero emotion attached to it, no high-voltage energetic intensity coming with it. Be super ambivalent, super detached, super flat-line, clear, succinct, followed by silence, Get

Comfortable With The Uncomfortable Silence, let it land and let the silence be what it is. NO EMOTION. Silence is powerful, once we get past the discomfort of the silence, silence is by far more powerful than anything we can even say, believe it or not so use it. Especially when

dealing with someone who lands on the spectrum of destructive narcissism and want to communicate a clearly as possible. You’re got zero power or influence over me here, zero, you’re wasting your time, this is not a yummy target, this is not going to go well for you, not giving

my power away today. Silence is going to make them far more uncomfortable than you can even imagine. Watch the narcissist become completely unraveled (Stupid PR) when they realise they are fully entirely powerless over you. This is how we shut down a narcissist permanently. Start

acting like you couldn’t give a beep kind of energy, pretty soon they have to go find someone else to play with (Harry & Meghan’s recent lawsuits against the media) and you’re left alone in peace to get on with your happy, healthy, productive life. To start moving in the

direction of a much better life without all the nonsense that they bring. Or you might want to go for good old fashioned silence right out from the get-go (Which KC did) and I don’t mean in a passive aggressive way like a covert narcissist (M) would, that’s not what I mean. I

mean in a way, (and is all about the energy) that says “I am boundaried, I am not easy prey, I’m not a good target” in a way that communicates you’re bulletproof, unshakable, like grey rock (uninteresting, fully uninterested and fully unaffected and unfazed) (RF is doing this)

All this is to diffuse a high tense situation, you’re looking to turn the volume down on the crazy and insanity to the best of your ability. Obviously the RF is not responsible for how H&M react & behave, trying to not make things worse. They want to avoid inflicting narcissist

Injury and thus, inciting narcissist rage which just being you can start that so you don’t have control over that (Catherine just walking into a room can do this) but in so much you do have control don’t let them trigger an emotional reaction from you, don’t engage and get sucked

Into the nonsensical mind-bending toxic vortex and starve them of their hit of their narcissist supply. #KingCharles behind the scenes is doing everything he needs to do and to get their narcissist supply #HarryandMeghan are desperately trying to get a reaction

by saturating the media with stupid PR and their behaviour is becoming more extreme, attention seeking and ridiculous. Cut off their narcissistic supply & don’t fool, engage or react to the stupid #Coronation, titles, kids PR it’s all narcissist H&M fakery. Silence is everything.