FYI... if I cut you off and finish your sentence it is NOT my intention to be rude or disrespectful. Subconsciously, my brain genuinely believes that doing this is a sign that I am LISTENING and I UNDERSTAND what you are saying... and it is 100% automatic and unintentional.
So, it took me a long while to figure out why I do this. It's 100% meant to let the other person know I am listening and understand what they are saying. Almost like my brain wants to prove that I'm paying attention.
I feel like this is along similar lines of sharing a personal story to explain to the other person that I have gone through similar things and understand what they are going through.
Both of these things are examples of my autistic brain wanting to show that I care, while also sometimes accidentally and unintentionally coming across as inconsiderate.
And for those who don't understand why autism creates communication and interpersonal challenges, here is a good example of how that can play out.

#AutismAwarenessMonth

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Apr 16
Society: Be confident in who you are

Also society: Never talk about what you're good at or people will think you're full of yourself. Except if you act humble about it, then it's ok. But only if it's in response to someone else complimenting you, otherwise it's too much.
Real talk... everyone is good at things... sometimes better than most others... sometimes even the best at something. We also all have things we're not that great at... and things we absolutely suck at.
We spend our lives being told about and reminded of all the stuff we suck at. Constantly. Why won't society give us room to feel great about the stuff we are amazing at without calling us arrogant and cocky?
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Apr 15
I have a crazy idea...

How about, instead of calling people out and correcting them for what *we believe* they are saying incorrectly... while they are simply asking for help... derailing the convo from the help they need... and chastising them for how they're asking for it...
How about, just maybe, we instead answer their questions and let them go do what they need to do to improve their life/the lives of their children?
And then... I don't know... maybe... share on a public platform like, you know, all the social media platforms out there... what we believe is the correct way of saying things... without calling any specific person out? 

Maybe?
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Apr 1
It's Autism Awareness Month, so time to set some things straight about autism...

What people think autism is:

- What it looks like in movies \1
What autism actually is:

- Sensory over/under sensitivities including extreme sensory anxiety when overstimulated

- Social and communication differences

- Social interactions are often challenging/draining \2
- Anxiety when routines are disrupted

- Struggles with transitions

- Difficulty with organization (particularly mental, which can make starting/finishing tasks difficult) \3
Read 10 tweets
Mar 31
You are totally replaceable at work. You are not replaceable at home.

A thread... \1
As someone who has been in Corporate America for 20 years... laid off 3 times... and watched countless people laid off around me (in one company, 2,500 people were cut in a single day, I was spared that time)... I can 100% attest to this. \2
When working in corporate... there isn't a single person on the planet who isn't replaceable. Because corporations don't have a conscience... they don't consider the human element of replacing someone. It's all tactical. \3
Read 9 tweets
Mar 30
I created this graphic because ADHD, autism, SPD, and GAD often overlap.
**An important disclaimer** This graphic is not exhaustive. My goal was to call out some of the more common overlapping symptoms. This graphic is meant as a starting point, not a destination. If any of this resonates, please look into the relevant conditions to learn more. 🙏🏻
And here is some information on the research/stats...

- Autism and SPD: There is up to an 88% overlap (meaning, if you are autistic, you are 88% likely to also have SPD... the numbers are different in the other direction. I'll link to an article on this below.)
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Mar 29
Autistic meltdowns aren't what most people think.

Can it look like a person kicking, screaming, and thrashing around because something happened that was upsetting or unexpected?

Yes, absolutely...
But much more often than not, an autistic meltdown is not that noticeable, if it's noticeable at all. Mainly because people don't know what they are or what they look like.

So, what is an autistic meltdown, exactly?
Well, first of all, it's the result of an autistic person not getting their needs met.

The person will have a fight/flight/freeze response, which will trigger some type of behavioral response.
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