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A word on the Bea Weber thread pile on agreeing that “frum women” are “so cringe.” You all took the fact that someone is different from you and turned into a mob sneering and mocking for silly reasons.
When this happens to you, you say that there is no G-d, G-d is cruel, religious people should have their children taken away from them and the state should take over their schools.
If one frum looking lady found herself in a room full of Yaffed folks she would feel extremely uncomfortable even if she had no conflict with anyone. Just for the way she looks and your preconceived notions about her.
Somehow this is not a problem. If it were someone proudly identifying as queer trying to get official recognition in an Orthodox synagogue, it would be the utter manifestation of evil on this earth.
But if it’s Yaffed sympathizers being cruel and acting like outright bigots, it’s perfectly acceptable.
#BeKind Don’t judge people you don’t know. Don’t judge them by the group they are from.
Maybe even find some tolerance in your heart for other people who fall short. #BeKind

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I don’t mute much but putting human life in quotes is not ok.
If Terry Schiavo wanted to abort her baby, these peeps would claim that she ought to be able to because her life is more important than the baby’s.
But then when Schiavo’s husband wanted her dead, they would think her life is expendable.
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A little story. We made a birthday party for our 8 year old on Sunday. Someone else gave out invitations first so we made the party directly afterwards and wrote on the invitation that we will bring the children from the first party to our party.
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I read a tweet about not pressuring other people to have more children because it’s not your business.
I firmly believe in minding your own business.
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It was like Rabi Shimon bar Yochai coming out of the cave.
Like omg is this what people do when they don’t have a little toddler and a baby and are expecting?
I began to have a little extra time and much more headspace for nonsense. And I was like, instead of bringing new life into the world, this is the frequency people live on?
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@rishpay_aish Is this a fair representation?
Do I do high pitched nonsense talking? Most definitely.
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That women, in uniquely feminine roles, are equally necessary to men and equally deserving of dignity is a more durable, less destructive, and more affirming message than the idea that women can act as men and are therefore equal.
If women are equal to men because we can also act as men it calls into question what a man is. Someone who can do math but cannot give birth? That doesn’t resonate and it’s disrespectful to men, leaves men without a defined role.
If women are equal to men because we can act as men it shortchanges children, because traditional women’s work is care of children and when women and men both fill mens’ roles, children lose out.
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