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Nash Profile picture
@DaysOfGame_com
Jun 14 • 7 tweets • 2 min read Twitter logo Read on Twitter
CAFE GAME:

For guys that want to meet girls at cafes (or even some bar/restaurant settings):

If a GIRL SITS NEAR YOU, and you like her, say "hi" in the first 30 secs. Do it. If you wait longer, and you "want something," she'll feel it... ruins the vibe.

3 EXAMPLES...
EX #1: This girl (right now): tiny, lovely, slow walk. She ordered something, and then took the seat next to me.

I like her. So I took my headphones out, waited a sec to see if she'd look up, she didn't, I put my hand out (to get her attn), made a comment about her perfume.
> I put my hand out (to get her attn), made a comment about her perfume

That is it (for now). A comment, got a good reaction, then "back to work." We are "on friendly terms" now.

I can "reopen her" later (when I leave, or she leaves), and it'll start "warm."
> you like her, say "hi" in the first 30 secs

The point is: Don't wait. Don't hestitate.

If you wait, you'll "put pressure on yourself" ("should I say something?"), she'll feel your vibe, and the set will get colder.

I usually do it immediately, or I consider the set "blown."
EX #2: There is a young girl that works at the cafe I am at now. Something about her, I like her.

Few days ago, she sits next to me. I stalled out. W/ each passing min I felt more awkward.

After a few mins went by... it "feels weird" if you suddenly talk to her. So I didn't.
EX #3: About 6 weeks ago a girl walked by. I was like "wow, I like her." She comes sits next to me, I opened immediately. I reopened before she left - which was easy, as I was "cool" when she first arrived.

I didn't # close, but she was back the next day, and she opened me...
>she was back the next day
>she opened me

If I had been awk the previous day, no way she would be interested. But I had been cool, so she said hi. #closed her the 2nd day...

I have been dating her ever since. All because I didn't hesitate.

This girl:

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TEXTING GIRLS... the whole "lifecycle:"

I broke up w/ a GF abt 6 wks ago. I am back to BEING A BACHELOR, & have girls in every stage of the "life cycle" right now:

Ex GFs, a girl I'm seeing again, dating a new girl, active leads, weak leads, and I am hitting on new girls today.
TEXTS: Ex GF

She is still sad about the breakup. She wanted to see me, so I took her lunch yesterday. It wasn't fun, but I would like to see her bounce back well... and maybe she needs a little help.

I really limit how often I even read her msgs, let alone respond. 1X wk.
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I stopped seeing her in Dec so I could focus on my ex. It was hard. As I'm single again, I ping'd her, took her out, sleep over. Some drama after(we never had any before).

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Q: "How do I escalate and could you give me some tips for sex."
-- From my DMs

Escalation is part of "touching." In general, we touch girls we like "early and often" (assuming it's a date). If she "takes it," as the date goes on, you touch her more, and more sensitive places.
INITIAL ESCALATION:

The first contact could be taking her arm when you're crossing the street, moving her out of way when someone is walking by, etc.

As the date starts, you can take her hand (while walking, or even just sitting and talking). Don't hold it forever, but take it.
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Guys that know me know I like dinner dates, but any date where you SIT SIDE BY SIDE makes escalation easier. Sit w/ your thigh touching hers. Use your knee to "poke her" as you talk/tease her. Put your hand on her lower back (for a moment/two). Squeeze her elbow.
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Here are some REALLY GOOD NOTES on "Last Minute Resistance" (LMR).

I would argue with parts of it (of course I would), but this is 100% than the vast majority of what you'll find on the topic.

I'll say what I disagree with BELOW.
"A TEST to see if I would continue and try to lay her, or follow her needs and pull back."
-- @angeldevenganza

This is a great description. I'd ADD:
-- She is not "testing" you on purpose, but it is a test
-- FOCUS on "follow her needs"

@angeldevenganza "She just needs to know it's her choice."
-- @angeldevenganza

This is more true for "modern" girls/girls that have a lot of exp.

For less exp'd girls, I'd say: She needs to FEEL that you notice where she is at

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"TEASING GIRLS"

This ^ is the most over-rated concept in Game. It's taught too often, and guys "over-tease," and tease for the wrong reasons.

When you tease to "CHECK HER VALUE," it's lame. Bad vibe.

But when you tease to CREATE TENSION or show cleverness... Good Game.
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A girl I am dating said a friend of hers asked where I went to college.

I said:

"I didn't go to college. I went to FIGHTING SCHOOL, and killed many people. So many."

"Don't tell your friend. She will be worried."

She said, "Our secret."

GOOD VIBE teasing.
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You can do WIN/WIN teasing where you are still "interesting," but bring her/you together. Like an "inside joke."

BETTER VIBE. Better intentions.
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FIRST: You're gonna want to control your orgasm...

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