As kids and teenagers friendship is easier. You form friendships from shared spaces like school, church, neighborhood etc so it’s easy to keep up with the friendship as you’ll see yourselves often whether you like it or not.

But as adults people are living different lives, working, staying far away, you have to be intentional about friendships. You have to put in effort to actually call, text, gift, send streaks, send reels, share tweets, create a group, hangout, plan trips together, study together, do business together etc and it has to be mutual too.

This is going to be hard especially for an introvert but it will get easier.

If you’re looking to start earning from X, you should know a few things.

A lot of things make up for your X Ad revenue, it’s not just by impressions as wildly misunderstood. Impressions are needed to be eligible but not for payouts

So things like giveaways, rt4rt or follow trains might get you impressions but they won’t get you a revenue. Advertisers are not stupid lol

Quality Engagements are what gets you revenue and by quality engagements i mean comments and replies to comments and also the quality of the commenters too. Unlike other platforms, on X, Ads are served in the comments so more than viewing and retweeting the post, advertisers need people in the comments to see the Ads.

So a good way to increase your revenue is by keeping the comment section alive, like i do in most of my posts 💁🏻‍♂️

I try to reply a few comments on my Posts which helps give them for visibility and extended conversations 👇🏽

In every area of my life, i like to tweak my actions, efforts and applications till i find what exactly works for ME.

It doesn’t need to make sense to other people, it doesn’t need to conform to societal standards, it just needs to work for me and be beneficial to me. (1) I grew up in a very religious family. My Dad is a deacon, my mum is a deaconess, Uncle is a Bishop etc I read the bible so much till it started to confuse me the further i wanted to know

I’d ask certain questions and never got satisfactory answers or everyone just answers based… twitter.com/i/web/status/1…

There comes a point in your life that you need to ask yourself one simple but very important question

“What am i doing?” You moved from 75kg to 95kg and still getting fat, stand close to your fridge very early in the morning and ask yourself “What am i doing?”

You’ve been in the same business for a year and not making progress, ask yourself “What am i doing?”

Quite a bit of a sensitive topic here but let’s dive in.

Deep reflection got me thinking about the country and i just realized that Nigeria as ONE Country is hanging on a thread and that thread may not hold much longer. The project Nigeria as created by Luggard was a failed one, and everyone knows but has refused to accept it.

The term “One Nigeria” is a facade that exists only on paper. Nigeria has never been one and will probably never be. We will say it till we believe it tho

I’ll tell you one thing, Manipulation mostly is hidden in the most sensitive topics.

The more people are afraid to have conversations on a particular subject, the more it can be used to manipulate people. Someone thinks it’s okay to kill another person in the name of Allah & Islam because there is someone/persons more powerful supporting it or not condemning it.

And the person succeeds because people are scared to talk about, it’s so sensitive people would rather move on

To all the Men out there… Open this thread #InternationalMensDay I know you guys won't be expecting any wishes because our world and this society doesn't celebrate your existence like it celebrates other occasions and somewhere you too aren't much affected by this now.

Growing up, my Mum will always compliment my look at every chance she got cos I look exactly like her. “Nwoke mara Nma ka nwanyi”, she would always say.

But my Dad will always cut in “Nma nwoke bu ego”, I never understood till I grew up! At some point I thought my dad was jealous 😂 because my Mum’s looks came out a lot in me and my siblings than my Dad’s, he’s dark skinned but he was a very smart business minded person and I’m glad I took all that from him.

I love that my Dad was around to balance me up.