Researching partner violence by women •
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Jun 1, 2022 • 13 tweets • 3 min read
I can no longer stay quiet on #DeppvHeard. I watched pretty much all the #DeppVHeardTrial (amazing I got any work done or still have a relationship) and my main takeaway message is, yet again: WE ARE STILL FAILING EVERYONE WHEN WE IGNORE WOMEN'S VIOLENCE & ABUSE. Buckle up...1/13
Just to be clear about *my* context - I'm not a men's rights activist, I'm not a feminist, I'm not a Depp/Heard supporter. I am a staunch believer that there are no 'bad people' but that people do bad things, and that everyone should be given the chance to change. 2/13
Apr 15, 2020 • 7 tweets • 2 min read
So, let's talk about the use of the term "Cinderella" in describing these cases. Cinderella was abused, imprisoned, frightened, a victim. She was delicate, had suffered a number of ACEs and just needed a Prince to save her (insert eye roll here) 1/7
If women who perp violence at home are seen in this way (& I'm not saying they shouldn't be), what is our instinct? Probably to understand why (which usually means assuming self-defence), to care, to sympathise, to rescue.There are 2 fundamental problems with this that I see 2/7
Dec 24, 2019 • 8 tweets • 2 min read
I stand by our country's legal system, that someone is innocent until proven guilty and is entitled to a fair trial. But it is difficult not to comment on the issues of the #CarolineFlack case as someone who researches women's perpetration of intimate partner violence 1/
Women's use of violence and abuse against partners is a very real thing. It is not always self-defence, just as it is not always a pattern of behaviours (note - this applies to men too). But it can have very serious consequences that are often largely ignored 2/
