Not a single man on the planet believes "Not All Men".

In reality what you want to say is that you personally haven’t been directly or moderately violent towards any woman. But don't for a second gaslight women about “Not All Men” as though you believe it. You don't. If you really believed #NotAllMen, you would let your tried, tested and trusted homies date your sisters.
You don't.

You would let your daughters go to sleepovers at other men's houses, even if those men’s wives or mothers were not home. You don't.

Because you know.

Thank God we don’t look like what we have been through. In January 2020, I joined the legions of women in South Africa whose right to safety and justice had to be upheld by a court of law. My crime: I did not respond to WhatsApp messages on my phone from a stranger. #IWD2020 Gender Based Violence has no bounds: no age, demeanor, class, access, education, public standing, colour will protect you from it. It’s not a matter of IF, it’s a matter of WHEN it will affect you directly. It’s waiting at the supermarket, in the boardroom, in your DMs. #IWD2020