You have become a recognized leader in an important social movement at an incredibly important moment in time.
Such a vaulted position brings with it great opportunity, but it also brings real responsibility.
Leaders have good days and bad days.
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Today has been a terrible day for you. Terrible because you've allowed, and from what I have gathered from looking at your timeline a bit ago, are continuing to allow your own pride to step all over your message, your goals, and your personal integrity.
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Have you ever watched someone self-immolate via social media? A moment when a person seems to close their ears and minds and doubles down on an expressed opinion even after being told by many, many others that the opinion is wrong or dangerous or based on incorrect data?
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I have.
And it's not pleasant to watch.
Especially when you want the person to be and do better, because you support them, and you support their ideas.
Buddy you are doing that today.
Right now even.
You are exposing some pretty unflattering personal shortcomings.
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But you're compounding your problem because you're not doing battle with your actual foes, but instead you're fighting your own allies. You're fighting the people who've been most loudly cheering you on. You're fighting your base.
Today you said a stupid thing, at a bad time.
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There are only 75 days till midterms & you have just amplified an argument that's been seeded by Russian bots and Right Wing Nut Jobs for the purpose of sowing discord among Democrats.
That's irresponsible. You're not being the kind of leader you're asking others to be.
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You're refusing to listen to advice or criticism, even from the people whose support has given you the extensive social reach you currently enjoy.
Worse, you've committed a cardinal sin. You've attacked an ally not for their ideas, but b/c of their identity.
And, oh, irony.
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For a person who is frustrated by the limitations of your own age to turn around and try to limit another person for theirs is not a good look.
Do you know how many of us have come to your defense when the arsonists from the right tried to silence you because of your age?
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Many.
If you choose to fight an ally you don't use the same tools your enemies use(d) against you.
@NancyPelosi deserves your respect. Most of the criticism you hear comes from the right, and what comes from the left comes mostly from purists w/ no understanding of politics.
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Step away from your devices or at least decide to stop responding for now.
Instead, breathe. Read through the many thousands of comments and see if it's possible that you have not given this idea enough thought.
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No one is infallible.
I apologize for something at least once a day.
Being wrong is fine as long as you're able to recognize it & have the courage to admit it.
Think. Learn. Correct. Apologize. Grow.
That's the kind of leader the world needs, and I think you want to be.
One of the harder lessons everyone must learn while leading is that words often have unintended consequences; that they can and will be used against you.
I note here that I wrote the above thread before reading the entire interview.
That's lucky for both of me, because if I had known then that you had demanded that a woman like Nancy Pelosi "get the fuck off the plate," I would probably be suspended right now.
That was meant to read: that was lucky for both of us, especially me.
I wrote it while trying to feed three dogs and a cat.
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Yesterday there were dozens of Trump supporters protesting along a major traffic artery here in Kenosha, one that runs directly in front of our largest hospital; a hospital once again filled to bursting with Covid-19 admissions.
They were protesting all covid-19 mandates.
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They do not want them anywhere in public, and, it seems, especially not schools.
No masks.
No social distancing.
No vaccine requirements.
I know a nurse who works in that building who battled Covid and who lost her own mother to the virus.
This was a shameful display.
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The cognitive dissonance is profound and is a danger to all of us.
I grow weary of reading about yet another of these "patriots" who, just weeks ago probably stood in such protests themselves, but who now have Covid and suddenly its all "I wish I had listened..."
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The Magas in the region I live in were often fairly well off financially. Well off enough to pay both arms and legs for the array of very expensive Trump signs, Trunp flags, and other types of political detritus to fill their yards and windows and automobiles with.
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Your economic disparity argument was never a good fit and was based more on the guiding force of your imagination than in reality.
In 2016 more of the truly impoverished in this nation voted for Hillary Clinton than for Donald Trump.
Tonight, after having to inform @instaCart that no one had gotten back to me about a new appeal, I finally received a response.
Upon opening the email I was gutted.
Gutted.
The response I received tonight is the exact same form letter I received originally.
Word 4 word.
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They did not address or consider any of my evidence, nor seek any further information regarding the many systemic flaws the q! evidence uncovers. Nor did they offer any explanation on why or how my identity keeps getting crossed w/ other users or the implications.
I am so broken by @instacart that it's almost hard to describe. After two years with this platform, and after over 1000 shops I was summarily deactivated three days ago. It is my ONLY source of income.
My initial devastation has been replaced by pure shock at the treatment I have received since.
I was informed of my deactivation through a form letter email that did not outline a specific problem, but asked me to defend against it anyway in the single appeal I was allowed.
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I begged them repeatedly to explain why I was deactivated and what specific charge I was defending against, but I received only a single response that said my appeal was denied and their decision was final. It was in that letter that they finally told me what I had done wrong.
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My mom used to tell people that I was the easiest pregnancy she ever had, but the I paid her back by being her most difficult birth.
I weighed nearly 11 lbs at birth and my mom said she struggled with managing my weight for my first eighteen months. By one I was 45 lbs..
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This might amuse some who know me given I have struggled with keeping weight on for most of my life, but I got a strange flu when I was almost two and lost the weight.
It never came back.
My mom insisted that I "struggled to be born, and then struggled everyday after."
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In the last years of her life, when we spent all of our waking hours together, my mom shared a lot of things she never thought she would share with me or any of her children.
"I always knew you were gay. A mother just knows. And I hate knowing that."
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