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Aug 26, 2019 8 tweets 3 min read Read on X
here is a thread with some exploratory thoughts about #patternlanguage...

I believe the best org structure is a local bespoke design

global abstractions are intoxicating and sense-killing

e.g. see how badly people implement #agile princples and miss the point by miles
I can say "I visited 1000 groups and the best ones all did X"

that might help a few groups. also it will give a lotta groups the wrong idea, send them on a goosechase while thinking they've found a great solution
I wanna offer people lessons, shared language, grow collective memory, accelerate learning...

.. but I know how quickly people take a guide and turn it into a rule to hit each other with. you learn the abstraction, but miss the essence

e.g. weaponised #NVC
so my instinct says, avoid giving ppl recipes, but at least name common pitfalls. lotta people fall in these pits, here's a hazard sign to help you avoid it, and here's a rope ladder to pull yerself out
what's the name for that thing where you learn an abstraction and it makes you intoxicated/ distracted/ overconfident coz you think you understood something but actually you have totally missed the essence of it?
another e.g.: how many groups call themselves non-hierarchical and therefore cannot see the toxicity of their power dynamics

because hey, we chose the One True & Good Abstraction which is a magic amulet against coercion, exclusion, manipulation
if I new the name, I'd be better at spotting it, and better at designing pedagogical methods that avoid the developmental cul de sacs
If you're in a 'teacher' role, how do you approach this challenge?

cc: @Sociocracy4All @sam5 @opentogrow

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Aug 12, 2023
ok not to sound dramatic but I used to be kinda dumb and now I'm smarter than like 80% of people and I know when & how it happened & I think the same method would work for most people
for me it happened during the Occupy Movement. specifically, participating in lengthy deliberation, with skin in the game, for days on end
prior to the deliberative process, my ideas were just what my friends thought. ,y head was full of slogans. I had no interest in truth, I just believed things that seemed good to believe. I calibrated my inner compass from the people I looked up to and that was enough
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"I never would have believed how quickly you can develop trust & belonging with a group of strangers" — we routinely get this feedback at the end of a 2-3hr workshop

I wanna explain how we do it...
people are lonely because they lack the social context that invites meaningful connections, NOT because the "right people" are so hard to find
my friends & I know how to create the ideal social conditions for people to find trust /belonging /safety /connection

in my mental model there are 3 key ingredients:

1. convening
2. hosting
3. social process
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Jun 22, 2023
for the misfits & awkward freaks who never fit in back home, twitter is the biggest city in the world to move to, find anonymity and, free from the judgement of unloving peers, creative self expression, and eventually, companionship, love, family & self acceptance
this is why the discourse around vibecamp & the other meetups we organise in this part of twitter can feel so high stakes: for a significant fraction of participants these gatherings represent a rare chance to experience a real homecoming, sometimes for the first time
there was probably a moment when you were a little kid, before puberty, where you were totally unselfconscious, utterly secure, completely relaxed in playful exploration, intense curiosity expanding your mind... that is the home you are invited to come back to
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Jun 21, 2023
I want to design a game to visualise status in a group

maybe use "how many people here know your name" as a heuristic
break a group into random pairs, you each get 1 point if you know each other's name. you get 2 points if you don't know their name but they know yours

randomise and take 5 pairwise samples like this
after 5 rounds everyone has 0-10 points

now get everyone to line up by score and you have a reasonable proxy for status rankings
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Jun 15, 2023
maybe you're lonely because you're fundamentally broken or maybe it's because we spent the last 70 years dismantling social structures that took centuries to develop and we haven't replaced them with anything yet
here, have a mass produced microtargeted identity, here's 100,000 people with the exact same values, beliefs, triggers and psychological baggage as you. yummy yummy why don't you enjoy this cozy monocrop community why are you still feeling isolated??
so the good news is: it's not your fault

bad news though: if you want to change this, it is your responsibility
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I had a heckin big insight this morning

it's too raw to be able to write about well but I wanna hack out a rough thread while it's still fresh
I had a rough couple days, stuck, caught in a loop of feeling bad about a thing, dissociating, feeling bad, dissociating, not getting anywhere
yesterday I tried journalling about it, talking to myself like hey man what's going on how can we fix this let's work it out why is this such a big deal for you cmon we can find a solution cmon lets do it
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