“Remaining childfree was an easy choice for me, but my decision is often written off as selfish, childish, or premature (I'm only 30). Because of all the good reasons out there not to have kids, one remains taboo: I just don’t want them.”
Just had this conversation with my mother last night. I don’t really want kids unless the situation is perfect (I’m married to the financially savvy love of my life). She doesn’t understand I am 100% ok with the high likelihood of neither of those things happening lmao
Having a child while poor, having a child with no partner, having a child without having traveled the world and achieved my career goals are not things I want. So children are low on the priority list. When I factor in the sheer responsibility....
So the thing that would change my mind is a non-religious man who can take care of me better than I can take care of myself, with enough money AND who I love enough to say, “hey, I’m willing to be torn from my vagina to anus for you.” So again, the likelihood....
