And so I assumed that I am beyond misogyny and sexism. How can anyone question me? I was not willing to consider or reflect on my own behaviour.
HOW CAN YOU CALL ME SEXIST? HOW DARE YOU CALL ME SEXIST?
I will describe the stages of state of mind I went through.
Second, I wanted to defend my stance. They are just trying to humiliate me. I need to explain where I came from.
Then I started finding faults in the criticism. Here, you misquoted me. There, you are overreacting. This person already hated me so now she is taking advantage of this, etc.
My priorities were entirely wrong too. Freedom of Speech is great, but sometimes there may be multiple causes involved.
My courage and conviction to deal with difficult conversations took me in a direction that I did not recognize at all.
It may sound strange to you that I am not mortified to be talk of the town for wrong reasons, and being branded a sexist everywhere...
And please do not take my word for it.
Please continue to subject me to criticism and education, as lovingly or as harshly as you wish to.
What do we have to lose apart from our weakness? This was a true miracle, to get this much attention from so many amazing people who helped me along to way to be a better human beings. I hit jackpot.
And I am not quitting guys, no matter what you say. I have a lot to do at LawSikho, and I would use the platform to push the right agenda.
Do save this post and share it with other men who may be struggling to accept their sexism and therefore unable to mover forward.