Mallam Sanusi Lafiagi
Earlier today, while reading the encounter between Prophets Mūsā عليه السلام and the old man in Madyan as revealed by Allāh in Sūratul Qasas, it gave me fresh insights into how people should conduct themselves
(1) You're Your Own Marketer
وَلَمَّا وَرَدَ مَاءَ مَدْيَنَ وَجَدَ عَلَيْهِ أُمَّةً مِّنَ النَّاسِ يَسْقُونَ وَوَجَدَ مِن دُونِهِمُ امْرَأَتَيْنِ تَذُودَانِ ۖ قَالَ مَا خَطْبُكُمَا ۖ
"When he arrived at the spring of Midian, he found there a crowd of people
When Mūsā عليه السلام arrived in Madyan, he was no more than a refugee in self exile,
Online or offline, never shy away from marketing your knowledge and skill. You're your own brand manager and promoter. No one will buy you if you fail to sell yourself.
فَسَقَىٰ لَهُمَا
"He watered their flocks for them..."
Prophet Mūsā عليه السلام got his first job as a cattle rearer based on his experience as witnessed by the sisters. He showed passion, efficiency and commitment. One of the things that a prospective
(3) You Need Recommendation
قَالَتْ إِحْدَاهُمَا يَا أَبَتِ اسْتَأْجِرْهُ ۖ إِنَّ خَيْرَ مَنِ اسْتَأْجَرْتَ الْقَوِيُّ الْأَمِينُ
Some of the Mufassirūn said that the well from which Mūsā watered the sheep requires about ten strong men to lift its cover.
Ibn Kathīr rahimahuLlāh wrote about Mūsā's strength and trustworthiness:
قال لها أبوها : وما علمك بذلك ؟ قالت : إنه رفع الصخرة التي لا يطيق حملها إلا عشرة رجال ،
(When one of the sisters described Mūsā as strong and trustworthy) Her father said to her: "How did you know this?"
You need recommendation to land some jobs in life. This is why prospective employers do request for referee's report. These days, even to gain admission into higher institutions requires that
A lot of people have lost their jobs to their uncouth and uncivilised attitudes on the social media. You never can tell who your prospective employer may ask about your general conduct and suitability for the job.
فَلَمَّا جَاءَهُ وَقَصَّ عَلَيْهِ الْقَصَصَ قَالَ لَا تَخَفْ ۖ نَجَوْتَ مِنَ الْقَوْمِ الظَّالِمِينَ
"When Mūsā came to him and narrated to him the whole of his story, he said: "Have no fear. You are now safe from the iniquitous people."
قَالَ اِنِّىۡۤ اُرِيۡدُ اَنۡ اُنۡكِحَكَ اِحۡدَى ابۡنَتَىَّ هٰتَيۡنِ عَلٰٓى اَنۡ تَاۡجُرَنِىۡ ثَمٰنِىَ حِجَجٍۚ فَاِنۡ اَتۡمَمۡتَ عَشۡرًا فَمِنۡ عِنۡدِكَۚ وَمَاۤ اُرِيۡدُ اَنۡ اَشُقَّ عَلَيۡكَؕ
He said to Mūsā "I want to marry one of these two daughters of mine to you if you serve me for eight years. But if you complete ten years, that will be of your own accord (but not an obligation).
Mūsā's employer tabled a deal before him. He was to be signed for a period of eight years with an option two years voluntary extension. This was NEITHER the marriage contract NOR the Sadāq.
Mūsā knew the implication of what he was about to sign, so he made clear his position right from the start. He said:
قَالَ ذٰلِكَ بَيۡنِىۡ وَبَيۡنَكَ ؕ اَيَّمَا الۡاَجَلَيۡنِ قَضَيۡتُ فَلَا عُدۡوَانَ عَلَـىَّ ؕ
Mūsā replied: "So that is agreed between me and you. Whichever of the two terms I fulfil, I trust that I shall not be wronged. Allāh is a witness over the covenant we are committing ourselves to."
Before you sign on any paper,
(6) Fulfil Your Obligations
فَلَمَّا قَضَىٰ مُوسَى الْأَجَلَ
"And when Mūsā had fulfiled the term..."
A man's word is his bond. Mūsā gave his word to the old man and lived by it.
When you're signed to a job, you have an obligation
Note: I deliberately used "the old man in Madyan" because according to the more correct view, he is NOT prophet Shua'ib. And Allāh knows best.
I hope I'm able to inspire your day.