How to be Supportive to your Man
I’ve posted quite a bit about the fact that a feminine woman should be ‘willing to support her man’ as part of the equation to reach high value status.
It’s a vague concept, and it seems like specific examples would be useful...
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I’ve posted quite a bit about the fact that a feminine woman should be ‘willing to support her man’ as part of the equation to reach high value status.
It’s a vague concept, and it seems like specific examples would be useful...
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First, a high value man with a strong frame is not going to ask for your support.
He should *never* have to do that.
(Besides, you’ll *both* hate where that ends up, as it kills attraction.)
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He should *never* have to do that.
(Besides, you’ll *both* hate where that ends up, as it kills attraction.)
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Let’s start with some easy ways to support Him:
•Maximize your looks at all times.
If you’re in public, you’ll subtly increase His natural confidence by being His arm candy.
At home, you’ll increase His desire for you, which is a total win-win.
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•Maximize your looks at all times.
If you’re in public, you’ll subtly increase His natural confidence by being His arm candy.
At home, you’ll increase His desire for you, which is a total win-win.
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Another easy way:
•Nutritious & delicious meals. If you really don’t know how to cook, put in the effort to learn.
He will definitely recognize your efforts, even if it isn’t perfect the 1st time. (If you’re not sure if it’s good, serve it naked, he’ll instantly care less.)
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•Nutritious & delicious meals. If you really don’t know how to cook, put in the effort to learn.
He will definitely recognize your efforts, even if it isn’t perfect the 1st time. (If you’re not sure if it’s good, serve it naked, he’ll instantly care less.)
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Easy way 3:
•Have a drink waiting for Him when He comes home. Or simply make sure His glass is filled *before* He finishes it.
Works with booze, water, coffee, etc.
There is no reason your Man should ever have to get himself a drink of *anything.*
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•Have a drink waiting for Him when He comes home. Or simply make sure His glass is filled *before* He finishes it.
Works with booze, water, coffee, etc.
There is no reason your Man should ever have to get himself a drink of *anything.*
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Easy way 4:
•Sex. Probably should have put this one first, lol.
Quantity, quality, new stuff, kinky stuff... you should be offering sex at all times.
You have 3 holes, ladies. If you don’t believe *fully* that all 3 belong to Him at all times, you’re not supporting Him.
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•Sex. Probably should have put this one first, lol.
Quantity, quality, new stuff, kinky stuff... you should be offering sex at all times.
You have 3 holes, ladies. If you don’t believe *fully* that all 3 belong to Him at all times, you’re not supporting Him.
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Okay, those are basic, easy ways to support your Man.
(Honestly, those are the baseline minimum. If you’re not willing to support your Man in those most elemental of ways, why are you even with Him??)
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(Honestly, those are the baseline minimum. If you’re not willing to support your Man in those most elemental of ways, why are you even with Him??)
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Intermediate support:
•Backrub, foot rub, neck massage, etc while He’s working (or even watching tv.)
Support means making everything easier for him to do or enjoy.
Your focus should never be on the movie, anyway.
He is the best view you can ever have.
Mindset.
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•Backrub, foot rub, neck massage, etc while He’s working (or even watching tv.)
Support means making everything easier for him to do or enjoy.
Your focus should never be on the movie, anyway.
He is the best view you can ever have.
Mindset.
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Intermediate support 2:
•Show interest in His interests!
You probably won’t be able to understand when he talks abt His work, but be an active listener. Put down your phone. If He’s giving you His attention when He talks (about anything), realize how lucky you are.
Tell Him.
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•Show interest in His interests!
You probably won’t be able to understand when he talks abt His work, but be an active listener. Put down your phone. If He’s giving you His attention when He talks (about anything), realize how lucky you are.
Tell Him.
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Higher level support.
First, these next examples are “higher level” because they require you to MANAGE YOUR OWN FEELINGS.
Difficult, for sure.
But if you want Him to see you as a high value woman, it is crucial.
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First, these next examples are “higher level” because they require you to MANAGE YOUR OWN FEELINGS.
Difficult, for sure.
But if you want Him to see you as a high value woman, it is crucial.
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Higher level 1:
•You’re mad or upset about something. But you also know He’s exhausted from a 14-hour flight. Or He has a major work deadline. Or you know He has other stresses.
Shut. The. Fuck. Up.
Your problem/issue can wait. Even if it’s crazy important.
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•You’re mad or upset about something. But you also know He’s exhausted from a 14-hour flight. Or He has a major work deadline. Or you know He has other stresses.
Shut. The. Fuck. Up.
Your problem/issue can wait. Even if it’s crazy important.
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Manage your own feelings and reactions.
No wall of words the first thing He walks in the door. No passive-aggressive BS.
Wait til He’s relaxed & calm. It may even be DAYS before He can turn His attention to you.
A high value woman knows she’s not the center of His world.
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No wall of words the first thing He walks in the door. No passive-aggressive BS.
Wait til He’s relaxed & calm. It may even be DAYS before He can turn His attention to you.
A high value woman knows she’s not the center of His world.
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Higher level 2:
•Discuss CONSTRUCTIVELY. Don’t assume facts, calmly ask questions, especially when you recognize that you may be mad about something that didn’t actually happen the way you thought.
Super hard, & requires a level of self-awareness low value women don’t have.
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•Discuss CONSTRUCTIVELY. Don’t assume facts, calmly ask questions, especially when you recognize that you may be mad about something that didn’t actually happen the way you thought.
Super hard, & requires a level of self-awareness low value women don’t have.
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Higher level 3:
•Project positivity and enthusiasm for *all* the things He does.
Even, and ESPECIALLY, when you don’t like it.
I’m not talking about heavy drug use. (Wouldn’t be a high value man, anyway.)
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•Project positivity and enthusiasm for *all* the things He does.
Even, and ESPECIALLY, when you don’t like it.
I’m not talking about heavy drug use. (Wouldn’t be a high value man, anyway.)
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In this case, I’m referring to His legitimate hobbies and interests.
Maybe His love for painting miniature figurines bores you to tears.
Make the effort to learn why He loves it... and appreciate/celebrate His successes.
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Maybe His love for painting miniature figurines bores you to tears.
Make the effort to learn why He loves it... and appreciate/celebrate His successes.
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Or maybe He’s into a particular sport or activity that is potentially dangerous.
Of course, you never want to see Him get hurt!
But don’t let your fears get in the way of His enjoyment.
Ever.
Celebrate and ENCOURAGE His joy for it, and then STFU.
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Of course, you never want to see Him get hurt!
But don’t let your fears get in the way of His enjoyment.
Ever.
Celebrate and ENCOURAGE His joy for it, and then STFU.
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I’m sure most of you reading my threads assume they’re didactic and I’m speaking from a position of knowledge.
In actuality, most of my threads are notes for ME to learn & internalize.
I do struggle myself with some of the higher level examples of supportiveness I provided.
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In actuality, most of my threads are notes for ME to learn & internalize.
I do struggle myself with some of the higher level examples of supportiveness I provided.
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But I figured that if I’m struggling with it, I’m probably not alone.
And maybe others can benefit from my thoughts, as well.
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And maybe others can benefit from my thoughts, as well.
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