Thread by @GbengaWemimo

He had to beg her to delete their messages
He was a man of God
He was married
And the content of their chat messages was very indicting
It shows he was lusting after her and willing to pursue an extra-marital affair with her
The relationship didn't start that way
They met on

twitter
She was looking for a job and praying that God would give her a home
He was an entrepreneur
His small business which started slowing had suddenly gained speed and he was branching out into other states
He also got some financial backing from some Nigerians living abroad

who saw his business as very viable and considered it a worthy investment
His senior pastor saw the stride he was making in business and decided to include him in the panel for the church's Business and Economic summit
That was where he met her
She was desperately looking for a

job and walked up to him right after the summit to present her case for employment
He needed to employ at least three people but they have to be trained professionals
He was into the manufacture of paints and she studied history
There was no correlation between the two
He could

have employed her but she would need at least six months of training before she would get a hang of the business
He didn't have that time
So he took her contact and promised her he would talk to some friends about her
He said it just to dismiss her
He promptly forgot her as he

left the meeting
Two days later she reached out to him on Twitter via his DM
She said she wanted to remind him about her job situation
She told him she was also a creative writer and wouldn't mind if he could invest in her work so that some of her manuscripts could get published!

He told her to write something spontaneously so that he could test the veracity of her claim
She did
She wrote a short story of about one hundred words
She wrote about a young man and a young lady having sex for the first time after they started going out
The writing was centered

around the young lady's mindset, her previous lovers as compared to the young man with her and her struggle between expressing herself or restraining her impulses so as not to be seen as too forward
She wrote very well
Her writing opened his eyes to what could possibly be going

on in the heart of a lady while having sex with a boyfriend for the first time
So he asked her if she wrote from her own experience and she said yes
That was how their conversation dovetailed into intimate details of her past relationships and why she was currently out of a

relationship
He shared some of his experiences too
The discussion was so real that while having it, it felt as if he was reading an erotic novel
He told her so and she told him she was sexually aroused too
From that point, it was a slippery slope
He just slipped downhill
He was a

faithful husband and father of three children before responding to her message that morning
By the time they were done, he had practically had chat sex for the first time
Later that day, as he laid in bed with his wife, he called himself to order
He sent her a message begging her

to delete their previous conversations from her DM
It was sex chat
It was an indictment
It was evidence that could tear him and his family to pieces
She deleted the messages immediately
She said she was not that sort of girl
She showed him the evidence and promised to always

delete their messages
Her words of assurance calmed him down
Instead of fleeing as his instincts had warned him to, he relaxed and they started chatting again
At around 10AM, she asked him if he would like to take the conversation to whatsapp
He said Yes
They got on whatsapp

She called him via video
He picked
They joked and laughed around a bit
Then she started strip teasing until she was naked
It was an exhilirating experience for him
It was like riding the tiger like a horse
He would only survive if he held on and didn't get thrown off
The strip

tease thing led to their first physical meeting at a hotel two days later
He sent her some money for her transportation and the hotel room
She called him after she had gotten the room
His office was thirty minutes drive from the hotel
He drove down and they had sex for the first

time
He was an official adulterer
He had no good reason to cheat on his wife
After sleeping with her, he decided it was over
He didn't tell her so, it was just a strong determination to walk away from the bed of sin
As soon as he tried to get out of the bed, she pulled him back

She said she wanted to cuddle
He said No
She said she would scream
He looked into her eyes and saw that she was serious
He relaxed and held her
They had sex two more times
He was with her all day
She got out of bed at about 4pm to take a shower
He quickly dressed up
His business

had began to suffer from the moment he met her
So many things on his table had been left undone because he was with her
He had a responsibility towards his investors and his family
He owed it to himself to succeed
She was a distraction
He waited for her Uber to arrive and pick

her up
He waved at her as she left
He got into his car and sped back to the office
Once he got to the office, he blocked her on every platform and told himself it was over
He did what he could that day and went back home to his family
He reminded himself of his love for his wife

and his wedding vows
He knew he had set fire on his own bosom and needed to extinguish it
He kept away from her
He saw several missed calls from her via truecaller
The calls didn't get through but she kept at it
She called him almost a thousand times in the next three days
Hmmm!

He thought she would get the message and just walk away
The next thing he got was a voicenote via whatsapp
She told him to meet her at the same hotel at such and such a time the next time the next day or she would publish their chat records on twitter
Apparently, she had left the

record of their conversations undeleted
She knew that was his worst nightmare
The social media is a dangerous world, a world where judgment is swift and passed without mercy or recourse for truth
What could a forty year old man say possessed him to get involved with a lady in her

early twenties
The next day, they met at the hotel
She had booked a room
He joined her there
She told him she meant him no harm
She deleted the messages right in front of him and assured him there was no backup
She told him she was in love with him and wanted to be with him
She

cried and begged him not to change towards her or leave her
He hugged her and slept with her
When they were done he explained to her that he had no intention of being unfaithful to his wife
He told her he would do his best to get her a job and treat her with dignity but it was

over
She said she understood
When he got home that evening, he met his wife crying her eyes out
His sin had found him out
She had mailed everything to his wife
He didn't even know what to say
It was a sad day
Later that day, she sent him a message
"No man can use and dump me"

PS: if you dont want your life to be used to play "ten ten",
if you dont want to be begging a 20 year old with tears running down your face, if you dont want to be thinking of how to pour acid on a girl's face for ruining your life please keep away from adultery and sexual

immorality
This is for your own good
At the end of the day, you will discover that you have much more to lose than the pleasure you believe you are getting from sleeping around
I am begging you
Dont become a slave to the things Christ has given you victory over
Choose to be wise!