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21 Oct, 6 tweets, 1 min read
I prefer not to build extensive rapport or even relationships w/ people who ‘don’t trust anyone’. More often than not, the reason that they cannot trust others is because they do not trust themselves & fear that others are also like them. It’s toxic, traumatising & arduous.
Nobody has time to be trying to prove themselves to anyone or enduring a series of psychological tests & trials, only to be pulled into an isolated web of their world where it’s just you & them anyway because ‘nobody else can be trusted’. Please, bye.
It’s one of the most major red flags to me when I meet somebody & they have a generalised apprehensive attitude to people, specifically people of other cultures/denominations - quickest ways to show me I’m about to be in for a whole lot of projection & gaslighting.... oh buddy!
I cannot build anything sustainable with people who have trust issues with the world, because then our bond will be isolated. I’ll be isolated. And I like to share my love & life. Let me love the people you love, whilst you simultaneously love the people I love.
If you don’t love anyone or trust anyone else, then you will want the same for me.
And this is a fate I just cannot agree to.

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21 Oct
Stay away from people who punish you for things that happened to them long before you were even in their life.
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- Unhealthy obsession with the past, including past people & past events, usually revealed to you very on through meeting them.
- You may find that they are so deeply attached to that time that you almost wonder if it were just yesterday, the way they speak about it with more relevance than even the present moment, (only to learn that it was a while ago.
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I think it’s important with what’s happening in Nigeria to establish that we are embarking upon a generational turn over that has no space nor regard for the colonial ways of the past. And yes, as much as people say that it’s an in house problem, the harsh reality is that all of
the problems in & between west African nations have been structurally created & nurtured by the west. For this reason, it is counterproductive to ask the same western nations who thrive as well as benefit (through neo & modern colonialism), from the state of disenfranchisement
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Corruption is a response to wealth hoarding, which is a byproduct of the same colonial tactics used by the west against Nigeria & other African territories. Hoarding wealth & the seizure of power was literally
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A woman who does not trust her own inner self, is heavily advised against any type of ‘submission’to the masculine, because whilst she lacks inner guardian-ship,any type of submission is likely to be or become abusive & rooted in control.This isn’t submission,it’s indoctrination
On discussing the nuances & our love/hate relationship with submission as the divine feminine, it’s important to discuss the fact that yes, at certain stages in life/development, submission is & CAN be a cancer to women, literally & figuratively.
Submission in the healthier form can only co-exist within a woman who has learned to trust & cultivate her own inner masculine & internal guidance system, so that the information the masculine provides her with is naturally filtered through to be truth, to her own knowledge.
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So many highly sensitive or gifted people are taught/programmed to minimise themselves or downplay their confidence from youth because they’ve been exposed to attack through envy, usually by those closest to them. They begin to develop a belief system that overt humility
(Suppression) serves as a means for protection.
Paradoxically, this extreme form of energetic submissiveness towards others, actually serves to attract even more attack, through attracting individuals who play on the inability of the individual to love themselves, prioritise themselves or exercise self belief.
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25 Apr 19
Women really stay going back to have sex with a man who cannot/does not give them orgasms. For what purpose? To seem as the sweet, humble woman who doesn’t expect too much? Because you’re void of choice? Sounds trash. Can’t relate.
Why do we as a society act like sex is this weird sport that men are supposed to dominate & officiate.
Women are not walking/talking masturbation factories. If you’re not fully enjoying & experiencing sex as a woman, you’re literally one of those sex robots.
Stop being so heavily afflicted by the ‘good wife syndrome’. I’ll speak more on it lately, but it’s more a less women who make themselves seem overly satisfied/pleased w/ the very basic, just so their man thinks they’re ‘different from these new age woman out here’.
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Learning to deal with confrontation is a healthy part of mental & emotional health & sends a message to the other parts of yourself that you are unwilling to compromise your own happiness, respect or profitability for another.
Confrontation is a natural part of life & those who seek to avoid it are also those less likely to take risks that will benefit their life, shy away from adversity, develop people pleasing habits & for the most part are willing to put up with a mediocre life for means of comfort.
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