Thread by @GbengaWemimo

There are some men a lady had to dim her light before they can be comfortable around her
They expect her to shut up and listen
They expect her to be less intelligent, less vocal, less obvious, and less of herself
Dont be one of those men
Don't ever kill the buzz of the woman you

love because you want to create the impression that you are in charge
I love wisdom
I don't like the appearance of wisdom under a layer of silence
I love obvious wisdom, vocalized and loud
It is very easy to identify foolishness
it is often loud and abrasive and cannot tolerate

anything that will expose it
The worst kind of foolishness is the quiet kind
A pastor friend once married a very quiet lady who gave birth to a baby boy, fetched water in a bucket just beside the bed and locked the baby in the room (baby was asleep) to go and watch a fight

between neighbours
She got home two hours later and discovered her baby had drowned in the bucket of water
Her husband almost lost it
The church intervened and he forgave her
She did it again two years later
Exactly like the first time
She fetched a bucket of water and placed it

close to the bed, she left her eight months old baby on the bed (Asleep) and went off to play ludo with a neighbour
She was gone for about two hours
When she got back to the room her baby had drowned the second time
This time nobody could appeal to the husband
None of us had the

heart to
Her foolishness was a capital liability
Many people realised after the repeat act that her gentle and quiet nature had made many assume she was wise
If she had been a chatterbox, her foolishness would have been made obvious earlier and the two tragedies could have been

avoided
I am hearing a rumor that students want to stage a peaceful protest due to ASUU strike
@MBuhari and @ASUUNGR I beg you in the name of God not to put a keg of gunpowder on a boiling sea
The last protest didn't end well
I beg you, let us recover from it in peace
Eight

months is more than enough time to address your issues
To stumble twice over the same stone is a proverbial disgrace, please resolve your issues and call off the strike this week
Let this cup of trouble pass over Nigeria
There are lots of people with crazy motives who are still

hurting from the abrupt end of the last agitations and are waiting for an opportunity to unleash all forms of mayhem
Dont let us be like the lady who didn't learn from the first tragedy and as a consequence allowed the tragedy to repeat itself
You can only poke a bear so much...

My wife has been investigating the event that happened in Lekki during the last protest
Me i just want her to resign and forget about this journalism business
Her office was burnt down during the last carnage by hoodlums and protest hijackers and i received too many calls from

friends and well-wishers regarding her well being
if you watch me and my wife engaging in a discussion regarding government policies and events, you will assume we were doing a mock trial for a supreme court case
That's how I like all the people around me, open, transparent,

strong, able to posit their beliefs with logical precision and accuracy.
Her opinion is key
My opinion is equally key
We laugh over matters when we refuse to agree
Sometimes if she gets too passionate, i will resort to offering her a peace offering just to get off the hook!

I learned the value of divergent opinions several years ago.
My wife cannot be a dummy
Dummy wives are unable to save their husbands when such is heading in the wrong direction
The value of a wife with a good head on her shoulder cannot be overemphasized
Such is a life saver

Ananias and Sapphira lost out because one couldn't check the other
i remember reading about Peter and His wife while they were in Rome
The writer says Peter wanted to run away from Rome when Christians were being persecuted and his wife said No!
His wife said "Remember the Lord"

His wife didn't allow him to deny the lord a second time
i know a couple who are as thick as thieves
The husband is towing a path of destruction and the wife is following him like a puppet
Every time i remember the two of them, i pray earnestly
I can see the end of their story

and I assure you it is not palatable
Strong women are lifesavers and destiny helpers
I would rather take a strong and wise woman than a quiet and manipulative one who knows the location of all the witch doctors, spiritualists, and herbalists and yet acts all innocent!
Such is the

witch many of us attribute to untimely death and destiny capitulation
A woman is equal to a man in every way
A wife is not equal to a husband (But only her own husband and not any other man)
The reason for this is obvious
Every ship with two captains ends up having to deal with

mutiny!
there has to be only one head but the neck in every marriage has to be very stable and reliable
I know many young men who had been programmed by culture and religion to regard women as the inferior kind.
Such a culture and religion will find itself obsolete very soon and

its adherents will be the biggest losers
God made mankind male and female
Jesus made those who believe in him associates of the Godkind, members of the assembly of the saints in light and Christkinds
There is no inferior gender in Christ
The Holy Spirit has made us like Him