8 Beautiful Pearls Which Make A Wife Special
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1) The Patient & Just: The woman who remains patient in all circumstances, and never whines, moans and complains. When she has to communicate she is direct and clear. When some trouble or affliction hits her, she turns to Allah for help.
But when her rights are being trampled she has a strong voice and fights for her haqq.
2) The Protector: The woman who protects her husband’s wealth & her chastity when he is away from home. When he returns , she does not burden him with petty gossip or day’s problems, but listens attentively to his needs and does her best to take his tiredness away.
3) The Lover: The women who adores her husband, beautifies herself for him & craves for his children to the extent that whenever her husband glances at her, duaa pours for her from the bottom of his heart. She keeps herself fit and physically well groomed for Allah,
her ownself practicing self love and then her husband.
4) The Good Do-er: The women who has an excellent reputation in society – for being kind, caring & courteous. She is good with her neighbours & relatives & never backbites or displays jealousy.
She does this solely for the pleasure of Allah and because regardless of her title as a wife, her core is that of a good Muslimah.
5) The Content: The women who has material desires but understands her specific financial condition and is content with whatever her husband gives her. She is thankful to Allah and then to him for every morsel that he feeds her, every cloth that he gifts her,
including the roof over her head. She makes her gratefulness known to him in words & action and thus, soothes her husband’s heart.
Such women are usually blessed with strong men who if their wives want to earn and pursue a career support them and become their backbones sharing responsibility.
6) The Pious: The women who spends much of her day in dhikr, reading the Quran & Salaah and her nights in praying tahajjud & crying to Allah for forgiveness. She encourages her husband to give daw’ah in his spare time. She encourages him to spend time with his family.
She reminds him that before serving others that she and her children are under his care first and deserving of his love, time, money and attention.
7) The Sweet Smiler: The woman who smiles excessively, especially when her husband is at home. She always talks in a way that it seems that pearls are dripping from her mouth. She never raises her voice while talking to her husband.
If she raises her voice she is heard and understood. She is gentle yet firm when things are not going right. If her husband is angry with her for some reason & shouts at her, she does not answer him back but maintains a dignified silence.
She becomes water when he is fire. When he has calmed down, she offers him cool water & makes him understand that it was his fault and that she will not tolerate such behaviour again.
She has class and also the firmness that is needed to protect herself from abuse or man-child behaviour of her husband. She maintains her self respect while also working to keep this relationship alive.
8) The Prioritizer : A wife who prioritizes her relationship with Allah & herself above anyone & everyone. If she sees that her kindness, love and sacrifices are not being reciprocated she leaves the undeserving husband. She understands marriage is not the purpose of this life.
She moves on and makes another deserving man a happy husband with all of her above qualities. She knows when to have sabr, when to speak and when to walk out.
🤲 May Allah bless the Muslim women with these characteristics, and make Muslim men #TrueQawwam deserving of such amazing women.
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