1/ I saw recently the ostensibly "pro-life" position described as "pro forced-birth" & I much prefer that moniker. That's where I am ethically: I'm anti-forced-birth
Morality is about *details* & compassionate lived experience shows me that abortion must be legal.
2/ Ethical rules on a page don't mean anything until they're gamed out in real life. The most fraught questions are when the state (or community) uses force against an individual - to deprive of life, liberty, resources etc., either as punishment or intended consequence of rules
3/ I'm an ethicist with a focus on medical questions. Euphemisms are common, but deadly, in that arena.
e.g. "Rationing medical care" means evaluating an individual's worth & passively declaring a death sentence
(It's happening now as a result of the GOP's COVID diktat)
4/ So the euphemism of "anti-abortion" means forcing a woman against her will to be pregnant for months & endure the deadly risk of childbirth
This is, at best, reducing women to second-class citizens by dehumanizing them into an object.
It's ghastly in practice
5/ Making any rule w/o seeing how it would play out is legal malpractice. Unintended consequences can be predicted with due diligence
Fortunately, I have the skill of #DynamicThinking: playing a scenario out in my head to see how actions & decisions lead to certain consequences
6/ Again, ethics is all about the details. I can say "every patient must be given food, water & shelter" and if they refuse food, I can require forced feeding.
But there's that word: force.
Forcing a human; going against their will; is ethically fraught & often ghastly.
7/ Also ethics requires us to understand how systems force individuals to make choices - & be held liable for them - as if they had free will, when in reality the structure takes that freedom away
If my goal is "free-will ethical choices" that often means changing the structure
8/ Someone who believes that aborting a fetus is akin to murder would necessarily need to create a system of stop-gaps & safeguards to prevent the necessity of abortion occurring
This is what I learn from being an Orthodox rabbi: how to make safeguards to avoid a Torah violation
9/ This is why I can compare it to the rationing of medical care: if I cared about human life, I'd make sure everyone knew how to prevent COVID, pay people to stay home, & ultimately change the health care system from for-profit "pro-life" (eg. create more hospitals, more 'beds')
10/ 'Rationing care' should be reserved only for utter catastrophic times (surprise wars) but we came to this stage knowingly. It's depraved indifference to human life.
It's established government knowledge to know how bad pandemics are & how to handle them. The GOP didn't care.
11/ The scope & scale of the war against life & liberty by the GOP - in COVID, but by extension you can see it in all their policies - shows they aren't "pro-life" at all
That's obvious in how they treat women & abortion: if they really cared, they would have a different system
Making sure abortions will be common by banning 'planned parenthood', laughing off rape accusations & stigmatizing the victims etc. are all a consequence of believing there's no problem in forcing women into childbirth
13/ Yet our society - especially in a time of vast income inequality - is run by those who know they can circumvent any restriction (@sarahkendzior describes this problem well in the below thread)
So these 'leaders' don't care about ghastly consequences
14/ Forcing a woman to endure, against her will, pregnancy and childbirth is such a crime against her liberty, her autonomy, and likely her life that it's actually unconscionable to not prevent that scenario needing to ever come up. That's where I am, ethically.
15/ So I appreciate the description of the two sides: pro-forced-birth & anti-forced birth. It describes the reality; the system you are accepting or rejecting
[While ethical stands are risky, I'm restricting comments on this b/c I don't have to make it too easy for the crazies]
16/ I can imagine I will need to take this thread down some time, given the full force of the probable crazies.
Crazies = those who just want to stoke hatred & civil war (Vlad & his bots) & the RedHat Klan.
Maybe this will just be an experiment, in that regard. Sigh.
21.02/ Dad achievement unlocked: my thermostat is so low we need to wear sweaters in the house.
Took years to reach this level, I have so many people to thank, starting with my own father (shlit"a)...
21.03/ This is a great point below.
BTW, for me the only way boys have been 'easier' to raise than girls is that I have more first-hand experience (e.g. put your glasses in your kippah by the bedside to protect from breakage). That's it.
20.02/ I was this years old when I learned that many families use Thanksgiving as the official "kick off" for Xmas season, and that's why eschewing it (this year) is esp. hard.
I've also heard people say T-giving is the "Holidays" for "Happy Holidays"... ah, no. It's Hanukkah
20.03/ I just donated to the Internet Archive, the world's largest digital library and home of the Wayback Machine. Join me and chip in what you can! archive.org/donate?iax=ctx…
1/ Before I forget, I gave a long Dvar Torah/shiur at lunch on Shabbat about the key question in last week's parsha (Toledot): why did Yitzchak want to give Esav a bracha of supremacy?
A key source for my answer is this shiur by Rav Dror Brama
19.01/ #ShavuaTov everyone. Big Football day. #Steelers win, Patriots lose, and Ravens not only lose, but their coach demonstrates (again) just how bad a sport he is
19.02/ Tom Joseph's point is crucial. 21 Republicans would be enough, plus the 47 Democrats, to remove Trump (ym'sh). They aren't "worse" than the 30+ GOP who don't reject DJT, the former are cowards the latter are outright fascists
19.03/ What I love so far about Biden's proposed cabinet is that I haven't heard of a single one of them. It's so nice to have professionals back in charge (I'm a lifelong Democrat because I know governing requires expertise)
1/ I love #Thanksgiving but #Purim is pretty awesome too & the pandemic hit my town right on that holiday. We were supposed to go to someone's house for seudah & of course traipse all over town delivering mishloach manot. We didn't b/c, thank God, I understood disease
2/ Unbeknownst to us, my whole family were COVID19 positive on Purim. If we had gone to the seudah, if we had given out shlach-manot, we would have been passing disease to dozens of people. I was already using sanitizer heavily but nobody wore masks in March.
3/ I told my family (and anyone who would listen to me) that we had to not only assume that every person was infected but that WE were infected & contagious. Sadly, I was right.
As people have been saying, we needed to follow zombie apoc. rules.