1/ As a practical-minded scholar who aspires to be expert in worldly wisdom, I've concluded that the easiest & most lucrative job for someone with my skill set is to provide an intellectual superstructure to validate selfishness, cruelty & greed.
2/ Fortunately, my ethical constitution & upbringing steered me away from profiting off the misery of others. But the job of the "conservative intellectuals" throughout human history has been to invent plausible ethical-sounding theories to be a terrible person.
3/ This job in the past were false prophets of the idolatrous kings, religious leaders who validated slavery, 19th Century social-Darwinists, and the entire "Right Wing Think Tank" ecosphere with their jewel: trickle-down economics
4/ As a pulpit rabbi & medical ethicist, I know with utter certainty the paths I could have taken to make a boat-load of money by providing rationalizations for wealthy people to cheat at business, abuse workers & family members & elevate selfishness to the highest ideal
5/ I see this in most conservative religions, including my own. Certain clerics become millionaires & others gain prestige telling rich parishioners that everything they do and want to do is blessed by God.
6/ Our pandemic year showed me that frum people who would never dare eat treife or drive on Shabbas - actions that require self-control - nonetheless run after any excuse to reject masks, act recklessly with disease and, of course, slavishly support Trump (ym'sh)
7/ The entire 'conservative' intellectual structure's role is to create slogans to whitewash sin. Racism, injustice, theft are "economic anxiety" or even "the American Way"
And since this year shows the full cost of this intellectual dishonesty, I must commit to destroy it.
1/ My kids know my pet-peeves and, thank God, are compassionate people who won't bring things up just to see me angry (outside of the standard parent-child education process). I describe these triggers as 'big red shiny buttons' based on ancient literature:
2/ My wife & I are both trained teachers, a rabbi & a rebbetzin both with MAs from Yeshiva University and PhDs in humanities/history, who care deeply about how to raise educated & ethical Modern Orthodox kids.
Which means, there are a lot of big red buttons to press.
3/ This comes up over Shabbat meals when they repeat divrei Torah they learned in school; but they aren't trying to get me to blow up, rather they're often disturbed by what they hear.
I've pledged to myself that I won't dispute their teachers unless 1 of 2 rules are violated:
23.01/ Week 23, Jan 19-25 begins here. (Why does it start on Saturday? Because it's Sat. night, which in halakha is Sunday - Yom Rishon - the first day of the week. Thanks for coming to my Todros Talk)
23.02/ Halakhically a lie is ethical if it's for compassionate ends: "white lies" (eg "nice hat") I'd like to add a distinction for lies in the pursuit of justice: "red lies"
22.02a/ Well Obama wasn't a real American, Biden not a real president and Jill Biden not a real doctor. This is a common gripe by anti-intellectuals & #Literalists who believe physicians own "doctor" when they actually stole it from PhDs
22.02b/ But let's be clear about why she actually deserves to use the title - aside from my own standard argument that I earned the degree - Dr. Biden is currently employed as a professor in a university. It's her job title, ya trolls! It's as valid as calling her "First Lady"
1/ I saw recently the ostensibly "pro-life" position described as "pro forced-birth" & I much prefer that moniker. That's where I am ethically: I'm anti-forced-birth
Morality is about *details* & compassionate lived experience shows me that abortion must be legal.
2/ Ethical rules on a page don't mean anything until they're gamed out in real life. The most fraught questions are when the state (or community) uses force against an individual - to deprive of life, liberty, resources etc., either as punishment or intended consequence of rules
3/ I'm an ethicist with a focus on medical questions. Euphemisms are common, but deadly, in that arena.
e.g. "Rationing medical care" means evaluating an individual's worth & passively declaring a death sentence
(It's happening now as a result of the GOP's COVID diktat)
21.02/ Dad achievement unlocked: my thermostat is so low we need to wear sweaters in the house.
Took years to reach this level, I have so many people to thank, starting with my own father (shlit"a)...
21.03/ This is a great point below.
BTW, for me the only way boys have been 'easier' to raise than girls is that I have more first-hand experience (e.g. put your glasses in your kippah by the bedside to protect from breakage). That's it.
20.02/ I was this years old when I learned that many families use Thanksgiving as the official "kick off" for Xmas season, and that's why eschewing it (this year) is esp. hard.
I've also heard people say T-giving is the "Holidays" for "Happy Holidays"... ah, no. It's Hanukkah
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