people, I’d love to know what your biggest lessons and regrets from your twenties are?
mine:
learn how to say no and don't do things that make you uncomfortable. set boundaries
mental health is important, nourish it.
the things I worry about won't matter in a year or even a month.
not all friendships/relationships are for life.
don't stay in unhappy relationships
I wish I wasn't as stubborn as I am and learned how to apologise more frequently.
Don't drink too much alcohol.
Success is subjective. You can never truly “arrive” at success, as no matter what there will always be something you can do to achieve more. Don't work too hard - ever
oh, and people are going through shit and it really has nothing to do with you. Don't insert yourself in an individual’s life where you don’t belong.

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