Thread by @Ada_di_ora_mma

On this SMAN and SWAN issue, we need to be realistic and ask the necessary question.
Why are you dating?

For a high value man who has his life together and is not ready to settle down, what does he need from a girlfriend?

Let me break it down;

He's successful, he can hire a cook, a cleaner, he has male friends with connections in high places, he has his parents who pray for him.... He practically has his life together, what can a girlfriend offer him?

He doesn't need you to cook for him, clean his house or pray for

Him.

Now, are we going to agree that it's all about sex, no.

A high value man wants a high value woman. The question now is what makes a high value woman?

Let me lend you what I learnt from Kevin Samuels.

Things that make a high value;

Woman*

1. She's attractive and appealing: one thing is to be attractive which is a natural gift but being appealing comes with taking care of yourself, staying fit and healthy.

2. Comfort: this has to do with character. The man's mind is at ease because he finds comfort in

You. Not only him but others find comfort you. Your sister or friend can leave her kids with you because they trust that the kids will find comfort in you even without their mothers being around.

3. She's disciplined and discerning: not to sound judgemental but lots of women

Lack discipline especially in this era where rules are seen as oppression. "Eat whatever you want", "go wherever you want", "do you the world will adjust". This comes from women who lack discipline and they do not want to be held accountable. No self control, it's always other

People's fault and not theirs.
Discerning, this means having good sense of judgment. Lots of women would have saved themselves from troubles if they didn't keep a certain set of friends.
You see women who are always on the go, you jump into the ship with them without questioning

Their characters and their motives.
So many homes are ruined today as a result of bad advice from bad friends.
"My husband gives me 500k every month", you go home and start fighting your man.

"He doesn't lay a finger on me no matter how much I provoke him"
You take it as an

Incentive to keep taunting your man. When you lose your man, that's when you will realize that you had it better than those friends of yours.

A woman who's disciplined and discerning does not encounter such problems.

4. Loyalty: she can be trusted, she won't leave her man because he can't afford bone straight hair. We live in social media era where everybody wants to catch up and women are the ones who are more obsessed with it.

That's why they carry multiple clothes to fine locations

Just to snap pictures. Shepeteri Twitter is an evidence. Can you trust a shepeterian's* loyalty? I doubt not.
A high value woman must have loyalty because it's very important.

5. She's enthusiastic and exuberant: she is always eager for every good plan her man has. Her enthusiasm is an encouragement and lack of it is a mood killer. No matter what, she hardly gets excited and it leaves the man wondering if he's not doing enough.
Enthusiasm is a value.

Exuberance, how do you feel when when you give someone something you think is small but the smile on their face will make you feel like you gave them the world?

A woman of value is cheerful with things no matter how insignificant. She's appreciative. She compliments

Everything good.

These qualities are values a high value man will expect from a woman who wants his attention not her success; degree, career and what not.

So, SWAN is a group of women who have nothing to offer to a man other than sex and I don't blame them, because they will

Meet men at their level who are begging for women's attention.

Well, do what's best for you; SMAN keep your money, SWAN cross your legs.

Me: I will scrap dating if I have the power.✌️