Thread by @Aella_Girl

Are you interested in having a great experience with a high-quality escort in the US? Here's a handy guide on how and where to look, things to watch out for, etiquette, things she'll expect of you, etc.

1. Where to look
Tryst.link is my top recommend. Great searching, treats escorts well, high volume
Slixa and Eros are also good, but would recommend Eros as a last resort, only if you have low amounts of escorts in your area and can't find any on other sites.

For escorts, price is def correlated with quality. The median rate of escorts is usually around $3-500/hr, but usually is higher in bigger/wealthier US cities. The higher the price, the lower volume (amount of clients she sees per week) she's likely to be, very roughly speaking.

2. Read her website. She might have common questions answered. Sometimes photos are more flattering than she'll look irl - my clients often cited 30-50% of girls they met, looked like their photos. She typically will have an email or a scheduling form.

3. Most established girls want references from other girls you've seen. If you don't have this yet, you'll probably have to give her proof of your income and identity so she can run it through blacklists to check. If she doesn't do this, this is a red flag for your safety too.

If you're afraid of giving out real ID, check to see if she has a long and established presence online. PrivateDelights has reviews, but keep in mind some well established escorts aren't listed and don't like reviews. If she seems like a thorough professional, you're probs safe.

Remember - it's not in her interest to leak your ID. She has a reputation to maintain, wants your business back, and also doesn't want to give you any motivation to leak details from your meeting with her, either.

4. After screening, it's time to meet. Incalls are when you go to her; outcalls are when she comes to you. Sometimes she'll have an extra fee for one of these. Hotels, airbnbs, and apartments are all normal.
Prep is included in your time; some expect you to shower upon arrival.

She'll probably tell you her preferences, but most prefer you to leave cash somewhere in the room and then excuse yourself. If you meet in public first, she might want it given discreetly inside a gift. She also might want a deposit with gift cards beforehand.

It's also totally okay and normal to take her on a date beforehand, like out to dinner. Generally escorts *love* this, but it's also not necessary. Gifts are nice but typically not expected; same with tips - unless she says otherwise, of course.

5. Doin the dirty is less scary than you might think. She's a professional, she's handled people more nervous than you. Keep in mind there's *high* variance between how girls operate, even among the same price range; what you get now might not be what you get with another girl.

And no - it's generally frowned upon to discuss any sexual activities before meeting, so you probably won't get to ask if she likes certain things. Think of this roughly like a tinder hookup - most don't like anal, some are ok with bare bjs, and almost all want condoms.

Generally speaking, the lower your price range, the more 'clinical' you'll get (tho not always ofc); you might get upsold for more raunchy acts, and there might be a clear limit on how many times you can orgasm. Higher prices usually are all-inclusive and girlfriend-esque.

Ofc this isn't absolute; lots of other things affect price such as physical attractiveness, but it's a very general rule of thumb.
Anyway - it's important to wrap up *on time.* Make sure you finish with enough time that you can shower if you want and get out the door promptly.

6. What if?
If you have a bad experience with an escort, there's generally not much you can do - much as there's not much she can do if she has a bad experience with you. It's always a risk you'll be 'throwing your money away' when you see someone.

Often people will see several escorts before picking 1-2 they really like, and then becoming regulars of those women. You've gotta find someone who clicks with you - it's pretty similar to finding a good therapist!

Also, generally speaking, the higher price you go, the less likely you are to run into troubles with law enforcement - typically cause the escorts are frequenting higher end hotels and passing as higher class, and because they have stricter screening methods and lower volume.

If she doesn't screen you, that's a serious red flag that it might be law enforcement.
Also, it's more ethical to hire girls who are fully independent and not giving a cut of their income to agencies. If her website is a profile listed among 10 other girls, run away.

It's up to you to decide what constitutes exploitation - if we don't hire escorts who need the money more, that just makes them *need the money more* - but there's a lot of girls who are doing escorting as a fun side gig, so if that makes you feel better, go for it.