Thread by @alexlobaloba

I have a friend currently dating this wealthy guy. He spoils her silly & barely allows her to do a thing!

But the problem is, whenever they're having a quarrel, he destroys some of the expensive things he bought for her.

The last time, he flushed her AirPods,...

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..., expensive makeup kits and even burnt some of her wigs.

He has smashed her phone a few times & even angrily punched her tyres.

After this act, he becomes calm & remorseful; he'll apologize & replace those stuff with more quality ones.

I asked if he beats her?

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She said, "No, he has NEVER raised his hands on me".

She seems very confused; she asked if she should continue the relationship or break up.

I told her his reaction is a BIG RED FLAG that should not be ignored, but can hopefully be remediated using therapy and counseling.

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Her other friends say she should ignore so far he's not beating her and that with time, he'll change.

411 reaching me as of today has it that the guy proposed to her over the weekend & she said YES; I am very happy for her but deep down I'm really scared for their future.

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-What would you have advised her to do?

Mature responses ONLY!!!

I forgot to add that she is also a comfortable lady that can afford all those expensive stuff too, but the guy is just richer.

From my DM, I just feel some ladies in this type of relationship might need this for necessary emancipation.