I have yet to hear a solid, convincing argument on why we shouldn’t do everything possible to make sure that disabled students retain the same EPA throughout the school year. That consistency can absolutely make or break their experience. Probably a thread.
I appreciate that life happens and sometimes a change must take place, but in those cases a transition plan should be prioritized with the students unique needs centred.
I can’t tell you how many times I have heard, and experienced, the news that a students EPA is being changed immediately. Meaning there is no time for them to adjust. They simply just meet a new EPA and have to roll with it.
This goes against everything we have learned about Autistic students especially. Routine and structure is something that they depend on. An EPA is the person who often works with them the most, knows them the best, is the recipient of their trust.
There is a lot to feel demoralized about when it comes to inclusive education, but nothing makes me more infuriated (and exhausted) than how we treat our EPAs, and the kids who depend on them.
We treat this position like it’s disposable, and as a result, we undermine the students great need for that support.
You want to see a dramatic impact in the delivery of inclusive education? Focus on the EPAs. Train them, pay them, respect them. Then watch our kids actually get a chance to thrive.
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I believe talking makes a difference. Talking has saved my life. So while I love seeing people share tweets/posts about raising mental health awareness and supporting those who are struggling, I have to be honest and say that words don't always cut it. #BellLetsTalk
After I took part in #BellLetsTalk Primetime Special in 2018, I was overwhelmed with lovely messages from people calling me "brave", "strong" and sharing my story saying they were "proud to know me". It felt lovely to be seen after being so vulnerable.
So, it was extra isolating/devastating that when I was actually in the midst of a mental health crisis about 8 months later, those same people offering the platitudes were tumbleweeds in the wind. They were out there, but bouncing as fast as possible away from me. #BellLetsTalk
It will be six years next month that my son was diagnosed with #Autism. At that time, my knowledge of Autism was minimal and was based on fear. I can't go back in time and adjust my mentality, but maybe these words of "wisdom" will help a family currently in that situation.
Your child is the exact same as they were pre-diagnosis. The only thing that has shifted is *your* expectations. We're all selfish as parents, and we visualize what we deem is a "perfect" life for our kids. But it is their life, not ours'. We're just here to be their guides.
Parenting is hard. When you are raising a child that has a different neurological make-up, the truth is it is even harder. It's also true that you will see the world differently, appreciate new perspectives, and your compassion, empathy and heart will grow so big you might burst.