The Bible is full of strong, independent, and influential women. In fact, the Bible seems to depict more women who are like that than the "paragon of womanhood" espoused by many complementarians.
In fact, a cursory reading of biblical women who are commended
for their character and actions would include a woman who drove a tent peg into the skull of an enemy leader, a woman who led Israel as a mighty judge, a queen who risked her life for the sake of her people, a priestess who helped lead a revival of covenant fidelity,
a wife who led her husband to disciple Apollos in the way of Jesus, a Moabite woman who basically proposed to a kinsman redeemer for the sake of her mother-in-law's family line, women who were present at the crucifixion of our Lord when nearly all of the disciples fled in fear,
a woman who hand delivered Paul's letter to the church in Rome, etc.
From the interpretive principle of analogia fidei, whereby you interpret more difficult passages by the clearer passages, it would seem more than reasonable to take these narratives and endorsement
of biblical women as the clearer passages that tell us what faithful womanhood looks like prior to interpreting passages about women having a "gentle and quiet spirit." "Gentle and quiet spirit" cannot mean something contradictory to these biblical examples of faithful women.
Furthermore, by taking this approach, it can be clearly seen that complementarian interpretations of "womanhood" are more shaped by cultural assumptions that come from early to mid 20th century White American society than biblical precedence. It's as if they take several
passages about womanhood, see it through the grid of 1950s White suburbia, and then reinterpret biblical narratives about faithful and strong women in order to make them fit this invented idea of womanhood. It is eisegesis par excellence.
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The Bible uses many different metaphors and imagery to describe the work of Christ: ransom, redemption, legal declaration, adoption, satisfaction, justice, etc.
What becomes dangerous is when we do theology and don't take all of these metaphors into consideration
and instead put all of the emphasis on one at the expense of the others. An overemphasis on substitution and satisfaction at the expense of other familial and self-giving metaphors makes the work of Christ sound like either divine child abuse or Christ twisting the arm of
a reluctant Father into loving us.
Another danger lies in obfuscating the metaphor and making it literalistic, as though there is, for example, a literal courtroom in heaven, or that the ransom is a literal payment made toward the justice of God. We end up over-interpreting.
Years ago, I talked to one of my former classmates and friends about the spiritual abuse my family received at the hands of a church leader. I still remember him telling me that I should consider all the "good things" that leader had done in planting churches and paving the way
for great things in the denomination. It was as though he was saying that the spiritual abuse my family (and countless other families before us) was worth it in his eyes for the sake of "ministry."
Our friendship ended from that point on. The cost of spiritual abuse
is not just the abuse itself but all of the friendships and support networks you lose through it all. It's the large amounts of people who say they believe you but will do nothing to help you when they have the power and influence to do so. It's the well-intentioned people
Can we talk about why Christian nonprofits as a whole pay their staff abysmal wages, provide low quality or even no benefits, yet seem to require 24/7 fealty to their employer?
Yet, the ceos and top executives make six figure salaries, can work from wherever they want, get countless perks for their job, and ultimately get the credit for all the work the lowest level employees actually do.
Shouldn't our employment practices, work culture, and holistic treatment of employees shine forth the kingdom of God? Shouldn't we be going well above and beyond the minimum legal obligations to show a better way?
Folks saying CRT is a bigger threat than racism are cut from the same cloth as those who say that radical feminism is a bigger threat than sexual abuse in the church.
When we bring up racism and Christian nationalism, they bring up CRT. When we bring up sexual abuse in the church, they warn of radical feminism. Same smokescreen tactics. Same excuses to avoid addressing the actual pressing issue at hand.
The gatekeepers continue to place extra hurdles and obstacle courses to be cleared before the actual issues can be addressed. Truth-tellers are placed in the position of either responding to the endless "what abouts" or being accused of being cowards for choosing to not engage
"it is quite common for spiritual abuse victims to develop trauma triggers that are connected to Christian practices. In other words, their faith can become a trauma trigger."
Victims may experience years of spiritual depression and feeling like God is infinitely far away without realizing that it may be because the trauma they experienced made Bible reading and prayer a trigger. They feel helpless or angered suddenly when someone starts talking about
the gospel, even though in their hearts they know and love the Lord. They question their intentions and feelings, when all along, it may be trauma triggers that have been connected to practices of their faith.
I think this is exactly who Jesus has in mind when He told His