I see those trying to deprive women victim-survivors of sexual and domestic violence and abuse, including prostitution, of their legal right to single-sex services from specialist independent organisations have come out to play again.
Firstly - it is perfectly straightforward and contains no contradictions to support universal human rights AND sex based rights and protections - and in doing so to prioritise the well-being of women, particularly those who have been subjected to men's violence.
I have made no secret of my belief in the importance of single-sex services for women who've been subjected to men's violence - but don't listen to what other people say I say, read what I say myself for yourself (if you're interested). Links follow.
Personally, I think this is one of the most important things that I've written:
Trauma-Informed Services for Women Subjected to Men’s Violence Must be Single-Sex Services kareningalasmith.wordpress.com/2020/07/08/tra…
This is a slightly broader piece, I gave it as a speech in Scottish Parliament about this time last year: The importance of women only spaces and services for women and girls who've been subjected to men's violence kareningalasmith.wordpress.com/2020/01/20/the…
From a different angle, I wrote this about why Counting Dead Women is about women killed by men - and no one else: kareningalasmith.com/2019/07/27/cou…
I can accept that some women say that they don't think single sex services are important for women survivors of men's violence, fine.
But don't you try to rob women who do need and want them of their legal right to those spaces.
nia, the charity I work for prioritises women and utilises the single-sex exemptions permitted in the Equality Act; in some cases, our contracts require that we work with males. We never do this in women-only spaces, where we do, those males, are treated with compassion & dignity
If you are in a position to, and would like to donate to support a specialist service that is proud to prioritise women and girls, please consider nia @nia_endingVAWGjustgiving.com/niaproject
Sharing this with permission of the author, a survivor - scared to even like a tweet about the single sex services she and too many like her need
She says "Im severely disabled BECAUSE OF MEN and my fear is acute. Crying a bit now because I feel shame that I am not able to do more and stand up more, because of it. "
A woman who has endured so much is crying and feeling ashamed because of the posturing of entitled bullies
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Any woman can be subjected to a man’s or men’s violence. We know that class, race, disability, sexuality, any of the differences between women, differences which are often turned in to inequalities do not provide an impenetrable barrier;
We also know that women of means may have alternatives to those services, e.g. it’s rare you find a woman in refuge, who could afford to book herself into a hotel, or who have access to friends with space. She has choices. Many women in refuges do not. Women in prison do not.
Most women in prison have been subjected to far greater crimes than those they were incarcerated for, crimes against them for which the perpetrator never served time, was never held to account by the woefully patriarchal criminal justice system.
It’s absolutely true that the scrapping of self-ID is the work of hundreds, no, thousands of ordinary women fighting to retain rights for our sisters.
But I personally would like to say thank you to @bindelj who stood practically alone against the threat of transgender ideology
for such a long time.
Secondly to @Womans_Place_UK who took up the mantel for those of us who wanted to address the issue within the context of broader structural inequalities and whose support and sisterhood gave me determination to speak out.
Thirdly to @nia_endingVAWG’s board of trustees who gave me the permission to speak out as CEO because they recognised the threat to specialist women’s services and made the issue a strategic aim for nia; and to nia’s staff & senior management team for everything they do for women
To the women (and men) who made this happen, whether or not we agree on broader feminist or other political ideals: Thank you. thetimes.co.uk/edition/news/c…
To those with whom I share broader feminist & political ideals, but who have stayed silent on the threat of transgender ideology to women’s rights & protections: many of us will neither forget nor forgive your silence (particularly for me,those with a purported interest in MVAWG)
To people who identify as transgender and their allies, I support universal human rights, including yours.
He's a speech I gave earlier this year (remember pre-lockdown anyone?) about the importance of women only services for women and girls subjected to men's violence
On another platform this morning, a bunch of women were discussing menopause and peri-menopause, the OP was specifically about how the issue was still taboo and neglected.
Cue a younger woman turning up and proclaiming that framing menopause as a women's issue is transphobic.
I am bloody sick of this. (Of course not just for this reason).
Women were discussing a major life event for almost all women and a challenging one for many of us, and another woman (of course significantly younger), in a feminist forum, makes it about males.
Newsflash
Women talking about our bodies is not transphobic.
Males do not have periods.
Males do not experience menopause and peri-menopause.
Silencing women talking about our bodies is misogynistic.
Deflecting attention away from women talking about our bodies is patriarchal
Just sorted out a route to ride with a colleague from nia for tomorrow's Ride For Murdered Women. So grateful to see those of you planning to take part. Thank you.
If you can't ride but you would like to donate, you can do so here justgiving.com/fundraising/je…
The funds shown as raised is the incredible running total from @JeanHatchet's work in riding to commemorate women who have been killed by men and in doing so to raise funds for nia to help women escape violent and abusive men.#RideForMurderedWomen
This thread, instigated by Jean, is women in their own words describing what being in a relationship with an abuser felt like and did to them. It breaks my heart to read it.