"My biggest issue is i want to rush. i want everything to fall in place right now and that’s just not how it works." That's most people's biggest issue. THAT'S YOUR PROBLEM
You are at a stage in your life right now, everything is not going well.
You've built a nollywood movie..
..standard in your head where rain will fall money and thunder strikes the food and it becomes cooked
Fine! You are suffering from insecurities and you're wallowing in inferiority complex
You can pressure your self, you can pressure your life and makes things hard for yourself.
..but you cant pressure your circumstances.
Because okada is fast for short distance doesn't make it suitable for long distance. Your life is meant to be dealt with ,WITH EASE
You are not supposed to make things hard for "you"
You can't build a 3 storey building in 1 week no matter how rich you are.
Slow touch,dont rush.
A community wasnt built in one day
An ecosystem wasnt built in one day
You didnt become a complete fetus in one day
You didnt start talking in one day.
This is not how things work in life
Even a mango tree doesn't just sprout from the seed in one day
You gats take it easy on yourself fella,Is it money that's your problem, farabale you will mke it
Small actions & steps compounded over time mkes a significant change in your life
It takes a progressive step by step,one at a time stage to get your life together.
Everyone just have this quick fix mentality,
You've been eating like glutton for years ,everything accumulated and gave you a pseudo-pregnancy.
Now you want to take slim tea and tie taekwondo belt round your stomach for 2 months and you're expecting a miracle.
You can't build a 3 storey building in 1 week no matter how rich you are.
Slow touch,dont rush.
A community wasnt built in one day
An ecosystem wasnt built in one day
You didnt become a complete fetus in one day
You didnt start talking in one day.
Lastly, everyone has something they are dealing with, no be only you get problem.
Some people will just come with their entitlement mentality and term one...
....wicked if you dont dance to their tune...
Dont be the "somepeople" because those "somepeople"..their head aff knack ground(please interpret to yoruba, e go sweet for yoruba)
Mai dear, everyone has a load they are carrying..and load pass load..
Everything cannot fall in place right now right now..
If you run too much, you will fall for gutter.
Keep your head up high and keep your hands busy.