Thread by @GbengaWemimo

He had a babe once, they met at a fellowship programme when he was an undergraduate
He was in his final year.
Their fellowships was hosting their church convention and he was the one tasked with the duty of organizing the event. She was the secretary of the conference. He always

believed he was a smart guy, a wise guy. Somehow they started dating. He couldn’t explain it how. He found her in his space throughout the planning process, she was easy to talk to and she was kindhearted. One day, he went to see her in her school and she said "The first day i

set my eyes on you, i told myself i was going to be your girlfriend. I just knew it had to be and i made it happen. She was 20 years old, she was so proud of herself that she didn't know when she said it. His ego couldn't take it. At that time, it felt too much like he was a

passenger in her taxi and she was driving him everywhere she wanted. He walked out of the relationship that same day. He just logged out. When the fellow Christians around them came to ask him why he wasn't pressing on with the relationship, he couldn't give an excuse
She was the

victim and he was the wicked brother. he couldn't even quote one word that she said out of place except for her declaration of victory that fateful night. He was the one that asked her out, she even played hard to get while he thought he was running the show
It was all a facade

He had to give it to her.
She was very good and he was played. It was subtle conditioning.
He was controlled without knowing he was being controlled and apart from knowing you have acted against your better judgement, you would assume you did so voluntarily not knowing you had

been had.
Ps: As we approach this Valentine’s Day celebration with feverish excitement, ask yourself if you’re in this relationships for self or for the other party
If he or she didn’t have anything to give you but kind words, will that be enough?
Is the one you call Love enough?

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