Question: Will a believer still bear the consequences of his or her sins with God if such commits any transgression?
Answer: You know there are sins against God and there are sins against men and if you sin against God he will forgive you but men don’t always forgive.
For example, if you stole something God will forgive you but the law may not forgive you, you may be taking to court you may be found guilty and even put in prison now those are the consequences of your sin but this time is a bridge against the law. So you have to understand it
depends on the sin from God’s side he holds nothing against you anymore but you know man has a different standard, so it depends on what kind of sin we are talking about if it offended a human being he may lets you go even though God but man have rights in their world so it
depends on what kind of sin it is but be sure of one thing that God will not hold those things against you after he’s forgiven you. There will be no consequences from God’s perspective. However, the believer who is committing a transgression will drift away from God. Sin hardens
the heart; stiffens the neck and creates a gulf between the believer and the Holy Spirit
The Holy Spirit will not be a partaker of any man's sin against other men and God
He does not desert the believer but until the believer turns from the way of wickedness in repentance, the
Holy Spirit will go quiet
The carnal spirit or human spirit will take over the affairs of such a man throughout that season while the Holy Spirit will try continuously to reach the same man through his conscience and other believers pleading with him to turn from the path of evil
Separation from God is the most dangerous consequence of sin from the believer (Note that this happens automatically when the believer starts making choices that is not in line with the reality of the Holy Spirit.
It is not a punishment God deliberately inflicts the way some
husbands will give their wives the silent treatment or the cold shoulder syndrome!) If we are traveling together in the same vehicle and you decide to drop along the way, from the moment you dropped we will no longer be together and the longer I drive away from you, the more the
distance between us will grow.
This is how sin separates a believer from God
Inevitably, the consequence of sin will come upon that believer
Sin had been programmed to heap burdens and yokes upon its victims
The farther a believer is from God, the more hopelessness and despair
overwhelm such
When such gets to his or her breaking point, he or she will find a way back to God
This is what is called repentance
Like the prodigal son, sin can be enjoyed for a while but it is a killer
A mother introduced her daughter to me some years ago after one of our
Night of Glory meetings
The family (This mother and her two daughters) were located in Akure
The first daughter had gotten a job with an auditing firm in Lagos and the mother was worried that the lure of the city might sweep her off her feet
She had tried very hard to bring her
children up the Christian way but she had always noticed that this young lady had a wild streak in her
I spoke with the young lady, she said her mother was being paranoid and I should tell her not to worry
I prayed with them and this young lady got filled with the Holy Spirit
I made sure I followed her up for weeks and prayed with her until she settled into the city life
Things were good for like a year
Then her mother came to Lagos to visit her and saw that all her gown had become short gowns, she had wigs of crazy colours, strange makeup stuff and
so on
The mother arrived on a Friday
By the time she got to her daughter's flat (She had a key), the daughter had gone clubbing
The daughter returned early in the morning drunk and slurring her words
The mother nursed her
When the daughter recovered she lashed out in self defense
the mother was patient.
The mother noticed that her daughter's phone kept ringing
Many men were calling
Three men came calling and it was obvious to the mother that the men were married
The mother reached out to me in tears
"I have gotten it wrong, this was not what I raised my
daughter to become...."
I told her to relax
I was so sure her daughter would get overwhelmed
Sin is the grandfather of wickedness and heartlessness
Those who indulge in it are casualties in the long run
I told the mother her daughter would be broken by sin, all she needed to do
keep her loving arms wide open to receive her back with love
I prayed with the mother and tried several times to reach the daughter on the phone
She neither picked my calls nor called back
So I prayed for her and left her to enjoy her life...
While waiting for midnight today so
that I can send my wife a love message congratulating her on our 11th Valentine's day together, this young lady called me at 11:53pm & cried till 1:30am
Sin had done what it does not fail to do
Her heart had gotten broken by a man she had been with for seven months who pretended
be single while he was seven years married
The story is long but in the world, such things are fair game
It is to be expected that the children of darkness will do darkness because the darkness is their nature
I told her the rules of the game in the world is different
You cannot
choose to play by their rules and cry foul when the consequences hit
She had gotten pregnant for the guy at a point and the guy had practically drugged her to get the pregnancy out. The abortion thing coupled with her conscience made her feel she had to stay with him
It was a
mixed bag
She said "Brother Gbenga, will Jesus take me back? I am tired. I cannot stop crying
I have lost my peace and joy. I did a lot of things but it just felt as if I cannot stop sinking! I miss my fellowship with the Holy Spirit. I miss God. I am so sorry..."
That is what we
call repentance.
She was genuinely sorry and wanted to be restored to the father of light in whom there is no variableness or a shadow of turning
I led her back to Christ (This is what Apostle Peter called obtaining Mercy) and I prayed with her
Within a minute she was praying in
tongues while crying profusely over and over again
"Lord Jesus, I am sorry. Holy Spirit I am sorry"
She was able to sleep at 1:30
She slept off while we were still speaking
This morning, her mother had already arrived in Lagos
She was in Ibadan when I called to give her the good
news at 5AM
She and her driver got on the road almost immediately
(Oh the love of a Christian mother, how precious)
God didn't punish her and God will never do so
Sin bears in itself the booby trap that attracts to its perpetrators all sorts of bee stings, venom, and poisons
God does not have to do anything but wait, just like the prodigal son's father waited
The lost will eventually return home needing help
When such returns, we will love them & show them heaven in us
See you guys at Lekki Conservation Centre by 11AM
He remembered the week after my wife agreed to be his fiance
He told his mother he had found the person he would spend the rest of his life with
His mother said "Thank you Jesus! When can I meet her"
Her mother's response was strange to his older sisters
It was too easy in their
opinion
When they brought home their spouses, their mother went into a season of fasting and prayer to be sure they were not "missing it"
But for him, there was nothing like that
His three older sisters held several meetings between them
They felt my mother ought to do due
diligence on his choice of a wife because one can never be too careful
They went to their mummy to express their concern
Their mother listened to them patiently and said "When did you ever call me to tell me the Holy Spirit said This or That?"
The three of you have only a surface
Whenever i look at the drama in Nigeria
I am tempted often to draw parallels with the scripture
Ken Saro Wiwa reminds me of Sheba son of Bicri
Late President Yaradua reminds me of King Uzziah
Abacha reminds me of King Ahab
Babangida reminds me of King Herod
Late MKO reminds me
of King Zachariah
Chinua Achebe reminds me of Prophet Ahijah
Wole Soyinka reminds me of Prophet Jeremiah
All the politicians remind me of the priests of Samaria
The garb may not fit perfectly but human nature is the same regardless of culture, tradition, and language
The Lord
Jesus lamented that Jerusalem was a prophet killing city
And he was right but so also is Nigeria
The voice of a prophet is a voice of dissent
The one that took the side of Biafra died in exile
The one that tried his best to stop the war is still lamenting
A country that cannot be
They called it elephantiasis
A disease said to be caused by a strange mosquito
I was at the Bible College at the time
I had been sent for my Teaching Practice at a church located at Ogudu Ori-Oke
The pastor of this church was a gentleman
He and his wife were chartered accountants
and they were blessed
I was a personal assistant to another pastor and the coordinator of the Bible College had to practically beg my boss to allow me to observe the Teaching Practice at another church (He had insisted I do it with him and I would have spent the time carrying his
Bible and practicing nothing)
When I reported for duty, I was assigned the duty of follow up and evangelism
My primary assignment was to liaise with the follow-up lady and visit all the members who have not been to that church in weeks
I was also given the altar to minister one
She didn't see that far into the future when she decided to pitch her tent with the rich but married engineer
She was 24
Young, plump, and beautiful
She had tried dating young single guys but for her, it seems they were all bones and no flesh
They were unable to offer anything
of value apart from empty words and instant gratification in form of sex and infidelity
The three guys she had dated since she was 16 all cheated on her and practically used and dumped her
The first one, the one she would call her first love got her brain so tangled up that she
stole her mother's money for him and allowed him to do all sorts to her in the name of love
When she caught him cheating, she looked the other way because she didn't want to break up with him and be alone
It took her two years to get the message
She was a fool and he was milking
She started the creche right after her NYSC
It had always been her life goal to own one
She loved babies and when she was in
secondary school, her mother ran a creche
Her mother was a matron with the government
hospital
Her mother also took maternity cases at home
especially
cases involving members of her father's church
Her mother's creche was a side hussle
It was located at the second sitting room of
her father's mansion
A house built to impress the world but was found
to be too big for the family
Too many rooms were unfurnished and unoccupied
this was primarily because her father lost his banking job before completing the building and they had to move in
before their rent expired
Because her father married two wives, one wing was built for each wife and her children
To present a front of equality and keep the families
He had a babe once, they met at a fellowship programme when he was an undergraduate
He was in his final year.
Their fellowships was hosting their church convention and he was the one tasked with the duty of organizing the event. She was the secretary of the conference. He always
believed he was a smart guy, a wise guy. Somehow they started dating. He couldn’t explain it how. He found her in his space throughout the planning process, she was easy to talk to and she was kindhearted. One day, he went to see her in her school and she said "The first day i
set my eyes on you, i told myself i was going to be your girlfriend. I just knew it had to be and i made it happen. She was 20 years old, she was so proud of herself that she didn't know when she said it. His ego couldn't take it. At that time, it felt too much like he was a