@jameelajamil Spout nonsense/mute replies. Sigh. We'll be here spreading a sense of reality.
Men have never been and will never be at the forefront of feminism. That includes men who say they are women. Claiming men can be women transgresses every single boundary women have ever fought for.
@jameelajamil How many men were banned from voting because they said they were women? Or because they dressed or acted femininely, or believed to have a female soul? Zero, that's how many. Why? Because they're men.
@jameelajamil Women are subjected to violence from men because we are women. Not because we perform some kind of stereotypically feminine role. Imagine claiming it's men who pretend to be women who expand those stereotypes. Not women.
@jameelajamil Women are subjected to violence from men because we are women. Not because we perform some kind of stereotypically feminine role. Imagine claiming it's men who pretend to be women who expand those stereotypes. Not women.
@jameelajamil Lesbians have broken the boundaries of femininity since forever. Now young lesbians are being told they must be men if they don't conform to girly stereotypes - including liking boys. Adult men who call themselves lesbians predate on them. This is not progressive.
@jameelajamil If you want to advance women's rights, you need to centre women. Many women are afraid to do that (unlike men who speak out on their own behalf at every turn). Why? Because men. Because there can be consequences. Because they're afraid.
@jameelajamil It's understandable up to a point that women are afraid to speak out against men when it can be dangerous. Settingi boundaries, saying no, has always been dangerous. We've all kept silent when, in retrospect, we felt we should have spoken up against men or for other women.
@jameelajamil But there really is no need to actively come forward, especially when your job affords you a visibility that rises above that of the mass of women, and tell women they need to put of men first. And, as you've done in the past, be abusive to women who are NOT afraid.
@jameelajamil Women who have worked for decades for lesbian rights, who have set up women's shelters and support services for rape victims, who have taken on the pimp and porn lobby, women who work to end female genital mutilation. You have told them to shut up because "TWAW".
@jameelajamil Well, I'm #NotShuttingUp. I like The Good Place but having a role in a funny show doesn't make you right. Come to think of it, it seems like you haven't realised that THIS is the bad place. 100 million women are missing from this planet. Can we talk about that?
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Just met with the brand new coordination team of my women's network *jumps around excitedly*
One woman who recently organised an event said her boss told her: "I'm sure it was awful. A room full of only women."
The event was on benevolent sexism.
The man is clearly afraid of women. It made me wonder why men feel so threatened by women, and only women, gathering in one place.
I remarked that he, as a man, has never nor will he ever be in a room of only women, so he has no idea what that's like. As soon as he enters the room, the ambiance will change. Women will act differently when there's a man in the room. Men don't know.
FYI the reason Twitter silenced me again for 12 hours was calling this man - Scottish politician - a man.
He was calling women ‘cis’ which I and a good number of other women objected to. Because we do not identify as women, we are women. It’s our biological reality and it exposes us to the risk of male violence, discrimination and exclusion every day.
We don’t choose that nor does denying that physical reality - literally our skin, blood and bones - change any of these conditions. Because men. Men do this to us. They rape and kill us in huge numbers. So much so they’ve built entire societies around it.
Which reminds me of my abortion doctor who, upon seeing two embryos on the ultrasound, said that would make me it “a double murder”.
This when I was already in stirrups and ready - and willing! - to have the procedure. Yes, you have to wonder why men like that become abortionists. I remember thinking: that makes you a mercenary though.
So as long as I'm on Twitter I want to write a few words about what Twitter means to me and what it means when @twitter bans women for speaking our minds.
I joined Twitter in 2009 - omg that's 10 years ago!! - let's call this my Tenth Twitterversary Thread then.
An 'early adopter' friend suggested I join this new thing called Twitter, and I did for fun. I joined under my full name and tweeted mainly about work-related issues. I made accounts for my kids who tweeted up to me from downstairs. We just had fun with it.