How to get out of FRIEND ZONE?

A dude asked me this a couple of days back here is the answer which got converted into a mini thread

//THREAD//
You are in a friend zone because of yourself

Accept it
The truth is this

You like a girl and you want to date her

So why the fuck you became her friend first

You should have approached her with clear intent

That

I like you & I want to make you my "GIRLFRIEND"

Not friend
But what the guys do is

They follow a completely different trajectory

They try to shift frames

From friend frame to lover frame

And it creeps the girl out

and it will
It is like you purchased apples from the market & when you unpacked them at

home

They were oranges
You are friend-zoned because you are not clear with your intent

from the start
Can you get out of friend zone?

Yes you can

But with your current skill level

Their is a high chance that you can piss her off

But believe me, it's better than being friend-zoned
Be polarising

Either she loves you or she hates you

Get this line straight into your head

You are not her friend

You are not neutral

Don't do the stuff that her male friends do
Be clear with your feelings & boundaries

Tell her that you want to date her & you are not her friend

If she agrees its cool

If not

You ll not meet her again

& you learned an important lesson
RT this thread & save a friend-zoned dude

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