Do not rush into marriage because you are not in a race. Do not insist on what is not yet for you.
All people are blessed by Allah with a partner, either in this life or in the Hereafter.
Love yourself first and do the things you have never done with your parents and friends. Do things that can make you a better person.
Make the most of the time when you are single. Because you can't do that when you are already married.
Your priority will be your spouse and your children.
I remember what my mom and dad said; to prioritize my studies and take care of them and my siblings. And bond with my friends. Because when I get married I can no longer do that.
So do not be stubborn and listen to the advice of your parents. Do not prioritize your desires. You will get there. Do not rush.
Wait for the man who deserves you. The man will accompany you in the right path. You and your children will be taught the right things as a Muslim.
He will not allow you to do wrong in the sight of Allah ο·» because he wants to be with you in paradise. Maa Shaa Allah π
The man will respect you and love you more than himself and most of all you will not be taken into a Haraam relationship.
Soon you will be a bride. In Shaa Allah Allaahumma Ameen β¨
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Would you like to memorize the Quran but didn't know how to start?
Advice on memorising the Qur'an...
1. Sincere intention
2. Patience
3. Must read Qur'an often (able to recite correctly without stuttering, making several mistakes in a page)
4. Good teacher (can even be a friend, as long as they are motivational & have good Tajweed)
|| 2 YEAR PROGRAMME ||
1 hour a day, 6 days a week
Time for memorisation:
Summer - After Fajr
Winter - Before Fajr (pray 2 raka'ah to make it easier)
1 page a day:
* Read a line for 4 minutes (use stopwatch) until completing the page
4 MINS x 15 LINES = 1 HOUR
This is the 'first memorisation' (short-term memory) and if a person forgets they shouldn't feel demoralised
* After Zuhr: Read same page 10 times
I am trying to revisit seerah half hour a day and I wanted to share something that makes me bawl like a baby. Here is the story of Abu Bakr (Ψ±ΨΆΩ Ψ§ΩΩΩ ΨΉΩΩ | May Allah be pleased with him) and how he redefined what it means to be a true Friend π
I am going to present to you a scene after fath' Makkah [Conquest of Makkah]
During the conquest of Makkah at the entrance of the prophet ο·Ί, thousands of people were coming to him to embrace Islam.
And amongst those thousands is Abu Bakr (Ψ±ΨΆΩ Ψ§ΩΩΩ ΨΉΩΩ | May Allah be pleased with him). He comes with his father Abu Quhafa - an old man with a white beard and white hair, imagine the old man how heβs walking slowly with a limp and heβs walking to the prophet ο·Ί.
when i shout at you for not wearing
scarf properly it's because i'm jealous, i fear what
will happen to you the first day you laid in the grave!
When i tell you i don't like the company you are in, it's not that i want you to be lonely,
it's because none of those friends will be with you in your grave!
Oh my dear Habibti , i know i cause lots of pain to you
but it's never my wish, but the day you're in your
grave you'll understand as to why i was doing that.
Oh my dear Habibti ,
enjoy the little moment of mine
because one day you will wish to listen to me and
i'll be nowhere to be found I'll leave the world
and never come back to you, you will cry when
you see my number in your contact list,
βWhen the people of Jannah will reunite, they will remember all the times they spoke about Jannah in this world. Theyβll look back and laugh, at how short life was, and then smile, because beautiful is their final abode.
The people of paradise will have all that they desire. One step into Jannah and they will remember no pain. They will say they never suffered, they will say they never cried.
A dip in Jannah.
Oh how much we long for that moment. The moment where we reunite,
we hug our loved ones once again. We forget about all the pain, and thank AllΔh for all the tests!
How strange does it seem, that these tests which weigh a ton on our chest today will one day elevate us. Elevate us so high, that we will thank AllΔh.
Sometimes you go through hardships because Allah has chosen you to be a positive force in someone else's life.For you to listen to a loved one and say "Hey, I understand that, I have been through the same thing".
Change your perspective. There is a higher calling in everything that happens with us. Alhumdulillah ala kulli haal.
Today I am so extremely thankful to Allah for every single "hardship" He placed in my path.
SubhanAllah with time you understand there is so much hikmah behind every single "test" you go through. I say "test" and "hardship" because every single moment of our life is filled with Allah's rehma,