On January 21th, a QAnon cult member messaged me promising that by March 4th, we would have 45,000 "pending indictments" released and our country's corruption would come to an "abrupt end"
Today I followed up with him
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As a reminder, here are some of the things he messaged me, totally unsolicited.
What do you notice about his comments?
His messages continued to become increasingly unhinged until his crescendo, a supposed "smoking gun" video...which was unavailable
You can see others' responses to his comments here
Today I followed up. If you're wondering why I spend time on this
1. I studied cults & deception in college. I never thought I'd be able to study an international cult in my lifetime 2. I have extremely good followup skills 3. How does someone react to being so incredibly wrong?
Please close your eyes and imagine this person's life.
Everything he was promised has proven factually false. He's lost friends and maybe family members. Yet at each step, he's become radicalized thanks to the Republican party
How do you think he responded?
I asked the QAnon member to respond about his predictions. Here is what he said.
Please tell me what you notice.
To understand his response:
* Cult members crave belonging
* Cults isolate, reinforce beliefs, & punish outgroup
* To admit they were wrong would be psychologically devastating
Our psychological need for belonging can be even stronger than our desire to live (i.e., antimaskers)
Importantly, the ONLY reason he's talking to me is my perceived status
He even calls me a "smart individual" & then instantly calls me a clown & mocks me for interacting with a 19-year-old
(How can you be privy to such insights but also demean yourself for being 19? Never mind)
His final response. Notice: Cult members frequently identify themselves with generous terms like "critical thinker"
They do this because the truth -- that he's an ignorant 19-year-old rube who's been radicalized by Republicans to vote against his own interests -- is unpalatable
It will be virtually impossible for the Trump supporters & QAnons to be deradicalized
This country is not prepared to grapple with the implications of admitting that 10s of millions of people just like Cory -- your neighbors -- have been radicalized by the Republican party
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Here are some things to consider about buying vs. renting.
I've rented by choice for 15+ years in SF, NYC, and LA. Renting was an awesome lifestyle and financial decision
Why? Because even though house prices appear to go up, most people forget about PHANTOM COSTS
Here are examples of PHANTOM COSTS:
- Down payment
- Maintenance
- Interest
- Taxes
- Time
- Opportunity cost
Once you factor these in, your returns shrink, often dramatically. This is why granny buying a 1979 house for $100K and selling for $800K didn't actually make $700K
In general, I'm not a fan of ordinary people using financial advisors
* Wall St fights against commonsense regulation
* People don't realize that 1% fees can equal 28% of returns
* They'd would rather pay $50K in hidden fees than $2.5K out of pocket
But...
There are good reasons to hire a fee-only advisor. I've done it myself and had a great result.
(This is an excerpt from an email that I sent out today.)
I asked my readers to share their BEST and WORST stories of using a financial advisor
1. Let go of the “should dos” that you actually don't care about. 2. Let go of waiting for inspiration to strike. 3. Let go of feeling guilty.
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What’s been on your to-do list for a year…but you really don’t want to do it?
If you truly don’t want to do it, acknowledge it!
Then move forward:
* If it’s not important, delete it
* If it is, cause it to get done (e.g., hire someone to handle it).
Make the decision
I love how pro athletes think about inspiration. They train so they can perform anytime — they sidestep inspiration. Instead of hoping to be struck by inspiration, build systems so you’ll succeed by default
Here's an example of the I Will Teach You To Be Rich financial system
Years ago, we tested a fitness program at IWT. Testing lasted 3 years.
From a psychology perspective, it was one of the most interesting beta programs we've ever run.
Here were 3 psychology insights that I'll never forget👇
We asked: "What if you discovered you were overeating by 1,000 calories/day?" People were mortified, guilty, "I would be ashamed"
Food is a HOT emotion. We taught them how to go from “Hot to cool"
Later, after lots of prep work, we got into calories. They could handle it then
We asked: "What if you could stop feeling cravings?"
People were in COMPLETE DISBELIEF. "Amazing but that's not possible" Cravings are so deep, we think they're part of us. And we feel guilty at our "weakness"
With 4 weeks of hard work, most people's cravings were under control