Telling people to "learn benchmarks" is a losing battle. Nobody cares. So I dug in
They had some peculiar $ habits. When I probed, it became clear why
They had no vision of a Rich Life. They were just saving to save...because "that's what you're supposed to do"
My approach...
I helped them develop a really compelling vision of a Rich Life. Oh, you want a beach house? What city? When do you want it? Think bigger. Let's dream.
NOW they were excited. They had a reason to learn their investing rate because they could see a path to their future Rich Life
A high income solves most financial problems
Thanks to their income, they could "make up" for a few years of not being completely dialed in
This is why earning more is such an important Big Win
(In our programs, we teach how to get $10K - $80K raises and start a side business)
Here is a list of words I NEVER USE in a first meeting
On January 21th, a QAnon cult member messaged me promising that by March 4th, we would have 45,000 "pending indictments" released and our country's corruption would come to an "abrupt end"
Today I followed up with him
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As a reminder, here are some of the things he messaged me, totally unsolicited.
What do you notice about his comments?
His messages continued to become increasingly unhinged until his crescendo, a supposed "smoking gun" video...which was unavailable
You can see others' responses to his comments here
Here are some things to consider about buying vs. renting.
I've rented by choice for 15+ years in SF, NYC, and LA. Renting was an awesome lifestyle and financial decision
Why? Because even though house prices appear to go up, most people forget about PHANTOM COSTS
Here are examples of PHANTOM COSTS:
- Down payment
- Maintenance
- Interest
- Taxes
- Time
- Opportunity cost
Once you factor these in, your returns shrink, often dramatically. This is why granny buying a 1979 house for $100K and selling for $800K didn't actually make $700K
In general, I'm not a fan of ordinary people using financial advisors
* Wall St fights against commonsense regulation
* People don't realize that 1% fees can equal 28% of returns
* They'd would rather pay $50K in hidden fees than $2.5K out of pocket
But...
There are good reasons to hire a fee-only advisor. I've done it myself and had a great result.
(This is an excerpt from an email that I sent out today.)
I asked my readers to share their BEST and WORST stories of using a financial advisor
1. Let go of the “should dos” that you actually don't care about. 2. Let go of waiting for inspiration to strike. 3. Let go of feeling guilty.
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What’s been on your to-do list for a year…but you really don’t want to do it?
If you truly don’t want to do it, acknowledge it!
Then move forward:
* If it’s not important, delete it
* If it is, cause it to get done (e.g., hire someone to handle it).
Make the decision
I love how pro athletes think about inspiration. They train so they can perform anytime — they sidestep inspiration. Instead of hoping to be struck by inspiration, build systems so you’ll succeed by default
Here's an example of the I Will Teach You To Be Rich financial system
Years ago, we tested a fitness program at IWT. Testing lasted 3 years.
From a psychology perspective, it was one of the most interesting beta programs we've ever run.
Here were 3 psychology insights that I'll never forget👇
We asked: "What if you discovered you were overeating by 1,000 calories/day?" People were mortified, guilty, "I would be ashamed"
Food is a HOT emotion. We taught them how to go from “Hot to cool"
Later, after lots of prep work, we got into calories. They could handle it then
We asked: "What if you could stop feeling cravings?"
People were in COMPLETE DISBELIEF. "Amazing but that's not possible" Cravings are so deep, we think they're part of us. And we feel guilty at our "weakness"
With 4 weeks of hard work, most people's cravings were under control