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8 Mar, 6 tweets, 2 min read
I spoke to a couple making $335,000/year. Impressively, they knew their savings rates, investment rate, etc (most don't)

I asked "How do you feel about those numbers?" they laughed

"We don't know! Is it good? Bad? We have no idea!"

Here are a few things we talked about👇
Because they didn't know basic benchmarks -- savings rate, investing rate, etc -- they had no idea if they were doing POORLY, FINE, or VERY WELL

Knowing these benchmarks is key

They were doing well but felt guilty

I reassured them, then we celebrated

Telling people to "learn benchmarks" is a losing battle. Nobody cares. So I dug in

They had some peculiar $ habits. When I probed, it became clear why

They had no vision of a Rich Life. They were just saving to save...because "that's what you're supposed to do"

My approach...
I helped them develop a really compelling vision of a Rich Life. Oh, you want a beach house? What city? When do you want it? Think bigger. Let's dream.

NOW they were excited. They had a reason to learn their investing rate because they could see a path to their future Rich Life
A high income solves most financial problems

Thanks to their income, they could "make up" for a few years of not being completely dialed in

This is why earning more is such an important Big Win

(In our programs, we teach how to get $10K - $80K raises and start a side business)
Here is a list of words I NEVER USE in a first meeting

Estate planning (who cares)
Taxes (scary)
Expense ratio (GTFO)
Budget (die)

Words I DO use
Rich Life
Dream
Feelings

If you want to have a conversation like this -- where you dig into your Rich Life vision -- stay tuned

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5 Mar
How do cult members respond to being wrong?

On January 21th, a QAnon cult member messaged me promising that by March 4th, we would have 45,000 "pending indictments" released and our country's corruption would come to an "abrupt end"

Today I followed up with him

👇
As a reminder, here are some of the things he messaged me, totally unsolicited.

What do you notice about his comments?
His messages continued to become increasingly unhinged until his crescendo, a supposed "smoking gun" video...which was unavailable

You can see others' responses to his comments here

Read 10 tweets
5 Mar
Do you agree or disagree with Noah?

What are the things to take into consideration to decide what's right for you?

I'll leave my thoughts in comments below.
Here are some things to consider about buying vs. renting.

I've rented by choice for 15+ years in SF, NYC, and LA. Renting was an awesome lifestyle and financial decision

Why? Because even though house prices appear to go up, most people forget about PHANTOM COSTS
Here are examples of PHANTOM COSTS:

- Down payment
- Maintenance
- Interest
- Taxes
- Time
- Opportunity cost

Once you factor these in, your returns shrink, often dramatically. This is why granny buying a 1979 house for $100K and selling for $800K didn't actually make $700K
Read 16 tweets
3 Mar
In general, I'm not a fan of ordinary people using financial advisors

* Wall St fights against commonsense regulation
* People don't realize that 1% fees can equal 28% of returns
* They'd would rather pay $50K in hidden fees than $2.5K out of pocket

But... ImageImage
There are good reasons to hire a fee-only advisor. I've done it myself and had a great result.

(This is an excerpt from an email that I sent out today.) Image
I asked my readers to share their BEST and WORST stories of using a financial advisor Image
Read 5 tweets
3 Mar
Ramit's Rules for Letting Go

1. Let go of the “should dos” that you actually don't care about.
2. Let go of waiting for inspiration to strike.
3. Let go of feeling guilty.

👇
What’s been on your to-do list for a year…but you really don’t want to do it?

If you truly don’t want to do it, acknowledge it!

Then move forward:
* If it’s not important, delete it
* If it is, cause it to get done (e.g., hire someone to handle it).

Make the decision
I love how pro athletes think about inspiration. They train so they can perform anytime — they sidestep inspiration. Instead of hoping to be struck by inspiration, build systems so you’ll succeed by default

Here's an example of the I Will Teach You To Be Rich financial system
Read 4 tweets
4 Jan
Years ago, we tested a fitness program at IWT. Testing lasted 3 years.

From a psychology perspective, it was one of the most interesting beta programs we've ever run.

Here were 3 psychology insights that I'll never forget👇
We asked: "What if you discovered you were overeating by 1,000 calories/day?" People were mortified, guilty, "I would be ashamed"

Food is a HOT emotion. We taught them how to go from “Hot to cool"

Later, after lots of prep work, we got into calories. They could handle it then
We asked: "What if you could stop feeling cravings?"

People were in COMPLETE DISBELIEF. "Amazing but that's not possible" Cravings are so deep, we think they're part of us. And we feel guilty at our "weakness"

With 4 weeks of hard work, most people's cravings were under control
Read 5 tweets
30 Dec 20
We've been working with people to help them find their Dream Jobs, including:

- Large raises ($10,000 - $80,000)
- Flexible schedules / work from home
- Changing industries

Here are 5 mistakes that many average applicants make in their job search process 👇
Average Applicant mistake #1: Going to a job board with no plan

People go to a random website, post a resume, and wait. They're passively delegating their career to an algorithm.

It's demoralizing, you're competing with thousands of others, and worst of all, it's ineffective
Average Applicant job search mistake #2: Sticking to what they know

Take a Marketing Manager who dislikes his job. He finally decides to make a change, goes to a website, and types in...

"Marketing Manager"

THE VERY JOB HE DISLIKES!

People do this because it's what they know
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