I've been writing about women I call the Sorority Of Pinky Swears (SOPS) and looking at their hollow feminism tailored to fit just their needs, which I call Bespoke Feminism. @AngryBlackLady coined A Well Actually of Chads (AWAOC) for male counterparts feministgiant.com/p/the-bespoke-…
Feminism: fights to destroy patriarchy--that many-tentacled octopus of oppressions such as misogyny, racism, homophobia, classism, ableism, transphobia, ageism, etc

Bespoke Feminism: fights whatever hurts its individual wearer and fuck the rest of us.
SOPS (Sorority of Pinky Swears) conveniently aligns with SOP - Standard Operating Procedure.

Bespoke Feminism is a form of white feminism and is the antithesis of intersectionality, as coined by Prof. Kimberle Crenshaw.

google.com/amp/s/time.com…
I did not coin Bespoke Feminism to replace white feminism.

I came up with it because I wanted to add to the terms we have to describe feminism that does not attack the oppressions that work in tandem to undergird patriarchy; and to use it globally feministgiant.com/p/the-bespoke-…
Examples in the US: racism and classism of Senator Kyrsten Sinemal and the two other white female Democratic senators who voted against the minimum wage increase. Sinema's office said it was sexist to question her callous thumbs down gesture that accompanied her vote
Racism and transphobia of Reps. Marjorie Taylor Greene and Lauren Boebert who claimed their opposition to the Equality Act was a defense of women and girls. Their Bespoke Feminism is tailored/custom made to fit their transphobia.
It was a reminder that:

Feminism is not: supporting a woman simply because she is a woman. Is she upholding or fighting to destroy patriarchy?

Sexism is not: any and all criticism of a woman.

Subscribe to FEMINIST GIANT for more feminist analysis feministgiant.com
In future essays, I'll be examining SOPS and Bespoke Feminism in other parts of the world.

Subscribe to FEMINIST GIANT for my writing. It's free, no paywall or ads.

If you can pay, it helps keep it free. feministgiant.com/p/coming-soon?…

• • •

Missing some Tweet in this thread? You can try to force a refresh
 

Keep Current with Mona Eltahawy

Mona Eltahawy Profile picture

Stay in touch and get notified when new unrolls are available from this author!

Read all threads

This Thread may be Removed Anytime!

PDF

Twitter may remove this content at anytime! Save it as PDF for later use!

Try unrolling a thread yourself!

how to unroll video
  1. Follow @ThreadReaderApp to mention us!

  2. From a Twitter thread mention us with a keyword "unroll"
@threadreaderapp unroll

Practice here first or read more on our help page!

More from @monaeltahawy

11 Mar
“We're looking at grief as the hidden health crisis in this whole pandemic," she said. "One of the reasons we need a national grief strategy is to provide a coherent response to an urgent public health crisis." 

I’m writing about this v soon google.com/amp/s/www.cbc.…
"Grief is hard no matter what, no matter where you are in the world, what time in history," she said. "But trying to do grief in a healthy way during a pandemic just magnifies the barriers to a healthy grief process,” Andrea Warnick, a nurse and psychotherapist.
I know there are laughing circles/clubs - I've heard of some in India.

I'm looking into whether there are grieving circles/clubs. Something along those lines.
Read 12 tweets
11 Mar
Watched the most recent Queen Sugar and cried and cried and cried.

I think we need ritual crying. A way to get all the sadness out.

I am individually fine but have so much sadness in my heart it hurts.

If your heart hurts with sadness, I hear you and send you 💜✊🏽❤️
I am alive, have food and shelter. As I said, I’m individually fine.

I’m sad for all of us. For the horrors of this past year. And for all who have and continue to hurt.

It’s like I/we have tapped into this vortex of sadness, collectively and individually grieving.
And now watching There’s Something About Mary with @rerutled for some silliness.
Read 6 tweets
10 Mar
I particularly like the green because as I link in my essay: "Thick coats of black and green eye makeup partially made from lead may have boosted the immune systems of ancient Egyptians, a (2010) study suggests." nationalgeographic.com/science/articl…
In fact, “according to ancient Egyptian manuscripts, eye makeup was believed to have a magical role, in which the gods Horus and Ra would protect wearers against several illnesses.” feministgiant.com/p/deliberate-b…
Read 4 tweets
10 Mar
Thousands of female farmers held sit-ins and a hunger strike in India’s capital on Monday in protests on International Women’s Day against new agricultural laws. apnews.com/article/narend… h/t @MetalRabbit13
The demonstrations were held at multiple sites on the fringes of New Delhi where tens of thousands of farmers have camped for more than three months to protest against the laws they say will leave them poorer and at the mercy of big corporations.
FEMINIST GIANT intern Inaara Merani has been including since December news of female farmers who are protesting in India in her Global Roundup. Subscribe to FEMINIST GIANT & stay up to date with global feminist resistance
Read 4 tweets
9 Mar
I've been writing about women I call the Sorority Of Pinky Swears (SOPS) and looking at their hollow feminism tailored to fit just their needs, which I call Bespoke Feminism. In the U.S. it would fall under white feminism. I coined SOPS & Bespoke Feminism to take it global. 1/
Examples in the US: Senator Kyrsten Sinemal and the two other white female Democratic senators who voted against the minimum wage increase. Sinema's office said it was sexist to question her callous thumbs down gesture that accompanied her vote feministgiant.com/p/the-bespoke-…
It was a reminder that:

Feminism is not: supporting a woman simply because she is a woman.

Sexism is not: any and all criticism of a woman.

And also the way Sarah Huckabee Sanders insisted that anyone opposing Gina Haspel as CIA head was sexist
Read 16 tweets
9 Mar
#Egyptian police arrested a man allegedly caught on a surveillance camera assaulting a young girl in widely shared footage that caused public outrage. aje.io/dh59l
It is not clear exactly when the video was recorded, but it went viral on social media on Monday night with many users calling for the perpetrator’s immediate arrest. It showed a man abusing a child near the staircase of a residential building in the Maadi district in Cairo.
He was confronted by a woman who opened the door of her apartment, an interruption that enabled the girl to escape, footage showed. The woman then pointed to a surveillance camera recording the incident. #Egypt
Read 4 tweets

Did Thread Reader help you today?

Support us! We are indie developers!


This site is made by just two indie developers on a laptop doing marketing, support and development! Read more about the story.

Become a Premium Member ($3/month or $30/year) and get exclusive features!

Become Premium

Too expensive? Make a small donation by buying us coffee ($5) or help with server cost ($10)

Donate via Paypal Become our Patreon

Thank you for your support!

Follow Us on Twitter!