@Oneiorosgrip @nyktofil @HoldenNorgorov @RyanWokeFather @thedreamjunkie @PerhapsABot @ElocinTrail @BLS_gov @pewresearch @TIME @usnews @PolitiFact @PunditFact @LexyTopping @IPPR Consider "Money, Work, and Marital Stability: Assessing Change in the Gendered Determinants of Divorce" by Alexandra Killewald, which states that the "husbands’ lack of full-time employment remains associated with marital instability" (asanet.org/sites/default/…, p. 717).
@Oneiorosgrip @nyktofil @HoldenNorgorov @RyanWokeFather @thedreamjunkie @PerhapsABot @ElocinTrail @BLS_gov @pewresearch @TIME @usnews @PolitiFact @PunditFact @LexyTopping @IPPR Moreover, "fulfillment of the male-breadwinner role appears to be equally or more strongly associated with marital stability in more recent marriage cohorts" (asanet.org/sites/default/…, p. 717).
@Oneiorosgrip @nyktofil @HoldenNorgorov @RyanWokeFather @thedreamjunkie @PerhapsABot @ElocinTrail @BLS_gov @pewresearch @TIME @usnews @PolitiFact @PunditFact @LexyTopping @IPPR However, "[w]hen all marriage cohorts are pooled, wives’ full-time employment is positively and statistically significantly associated with the risk of divorce" (asanet.org/sites/default/…, p. 716).

This finding correlates with other research.
@Oneiorosgrip @nyktofil @HoldenNorgorov @RyanWokeFather @thedreamjunkie @PerhapsABot @ElocinTrail @BLS_gov @pewresearch @TIME @usnews @PolitiFact @PunditFact @LexyTopping @IPPR "[H]eterosexual couples were especially likely to marry if the man had high earnings. … [A]mong heterosexual couples, earnings between partners became more unequal as the couples transitioned from cohabitation to marriage" (web.stanford.edu/~mrosenfe/Rose…, p. 5).
@Oneiorosgrip @nyktofil @HoldenNorgorov @RyanWokeFather @thedreamjunkie @PerhapsABot @ElocinTrail @BLS_gov @pewresearch @TIME @usnews @PolitiFact @PunditFact @LexyTopping @IPPR "[W]ives’ high earnings were negatively associated with marital quality" (web.stanford.edu/~mrosenfe/Rose…, p. 19).

Consider that women initiate over 50% of the breakups and nearly 70% of the divorces (web.stanford.edu/~mrosenfe/Rose…, fig. 1, p. 34).
@Oneiorosgrip @nyktofil @HoldenNorgorov @RyanWokeFather @thedreamjunkie @PerhapsABot @ElocinTrail @BLS_gov @pewresearch @TIME @usnews @PolitiFact @PunditFact @LexyTopping @IPPR "[T]he data suggest that married women may sometimes stay out of the labor force so as to avoid a situation where they would become the primary breadwinner" (nber.org/papers/w19023.…, p. 20).
@Oneiorosgrip @nyktofil @HoldenNorgorov @RyanWokeFather @thedreamjunkie @PerhapsABot @ElocinTrail @BLS_gov @pewresearch @TIME @usnews @PolitiFact @PunditFact @LexyTopping @IPPR "[W]hen the wife earns more than the husband, the likelihood of divorce increases by about 6[%]… [and s]ince 12[%] of couples in the sample get divorced, this … implies that having the wife earn more than the husband increases the likelihood of divorce by 50[%]" (supra, p. 25).
@Oneiorosgrip @nyktofil @HoldenNorgorov @RyanWokeFather @thedreamjunkie @PerhapsABot @ElocinTrail @BLS_gov @pewresearch @TIME @usnews @PolitiFact @PunditFact @LexyTopping @IPPR Agreeing with Limbaugh, @ArwaM is "struck by how many empowered women regress to the 1950s when it comes to marriage. [Women] fight for equality at work, but still have traditional expectations when it comes to men proposing with expensive diamond rings"(theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/c…).
@Oneiorosgrip @nyktofil @HoldenNorgorov @RyanWokeFather @thedreamjunkie @PerhapsABot @ElocinTrail @BLS_gov @pewresearch @TIME @usnews @PolitiFact @PunditFact @LexyTopping @IPPR @ArwaM "In the US, …among 22-to 29-year-olds, there are 5.5 million college-educated women, and 4.1 million college-educated men. …[There is] a gap in the UK too. Last year, a record number of women outnumbered men, with nearly 58,000 more women than men" (theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2…).
@Oneiorosgrip @nyktofil @HoldenNorgorov @RyanWokeFather @thedreamjunkie @PerhapsABot @ElocinTrail @BLS_gov @pewresearch @TIME @usnews @PolitiFact @PunditFact @LexyTopping @IPPR @ArwaM "If there are more graduate women than men, who are those men with lower levels of education dating if …educated women won’t consider them?…[W]e don’t talk about their dating challenges the same way we talk about the challenges faced by educated women"(theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2…).
@Oneiorosgrip @nyktofil @HoldenNorgorov @RyanWokeFather @thedreamjunkie @PerhapsABot @ElocinTrail @BLS_gov @pewresearch @TIME @usnews @PolitiFact @PunditFact @LexyTopping @IPPR @ArwaM "A good man is hard to find, especially in this economy. The country is facing a crisis of broke dudes, according to new research from Cornell University — and it’s left successful ladies single and disgruntled" (nypost.com/2019/09/25/wom…).
@Oneiorosgrip @nyktofil @HoldenNorgorov @RyanWokeFather @thedreamjunkie @PerhapsABot @ElocinTrail @BLS_gov @pewresearch @TIME @usnews @PolitiFact @PunditFact @LexyTopping @IPPR @ArwaM The societal impact of younger women getting better educated and earning higher wages (than men) may be "declines in marriage [due to] a [corresponding] shortage of economically-attractive men for unmarried women to marry" (eurekalert.org/pub_releases/2… and onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/abs/10.111…).
@Oneiorosgrip @nyktofil @HoldenNorgorov @RyanWokeFather @thedreamjunkie @PerhapsABot @ElocinTrail @BLS_gov @pewresearch @TIME @usnews @PolitiFact @PunditFact @LexyTopping @IPPR @ArwaM Women also need richer men to date because women getting better educated than men and women working less than men is causing "[w]omen [to] hold nearly two-thirds of the outstanding student debt in the United States—almost $929 billion as of early-2019" (aauw.org/research/deepe…).
@Oneiorosgrip @nyktofil @HoldenNorgorov @RyanWokeFather @thedreamjunkie @PerhapsABot @ElocinTrail @BLS_gov @pewresearch @TIME @usnews @PolitiFact @PunditFact @LexyTopping @IPPR @ArwaM According to @pewresearch, "nearly equal share of men and women say a man needs to be able to provide for his family to be a good husband or partner (72% and 71%, respectively)" (pewresearch.org/fact-tank/2017…).
@Oneiorosgrip @nyktofil @HoldenNorgorov @RyanWokeFather @thedreamjunkie @PerhapsABot @ElocinTrail @BLS_gov @pewresearch @TIME @usnews @PolitiFact @PunditFact @LexyTopping @IPPR @ArwaM Michael J. Silverstein and Kate Sayre, in @HarvardBiz, write "[w]omen now drive the world economy" controlling "about $20 trillion in annual consumer spending, and that figure could climb as high as $28 trillion in the next five years" (hbr.org/2009/09/the-fe…).
@Oneiorosgrip @nyktofil @HoldenNorgorov @RyanWokeFather @thedreamjunkie @PerhapsABot @ElocinTrail @BLS_gov @pewresearch @TIME @usnews @PolitiFact @PunditFact @LexyTopping @IPPR @ArwaM @HarvardBiz Michael J. Silverstein and Kate Sayre, in @HarvardBiz, note that women's "$13 trillion in total yearly earnings could reach $18 trillion in the same period" (hbr.org/2009/09/the-fe…). If you do the math, you might note that women are obviously spending unearned money.
@Oneiorosgrip @nyktofil @HoldenNorgorov @RyanWokeFather @thedreamjunkie @PerhapsABot @ElocinTrail @BLS_gov @pewresearch @TIME @usnews @PolitiFact @PunditFact @LexyTopping @IPPR @ArwaM @HarvardBiz Michael J. Silverstein and Kate Sayre state, in @HarvardBiz, simply that "women are the customer" (hbr.org/2009/09/the-fe…).

If men lose their earning power they may find themselves without marriage prospects or divorced (if already married).

Makes you wonder who is privileged.

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12 Mar
@jackruamusic What "privilege when it comes to sexual violence" do men have, @jackruamusic?

Let's check the data to see how privileged men are.

You may find that it's women who aren't "allowing [men] to express their experiences without trying to shout over them" (archive.ph/wexCf). Image
@jackruamusic Consider “The Sexual Victimization of Men in America: New Data Challenge Old Assumptions” by feminist Lara Stemple and epidemiologist Ilan H. Meyer published in 2014 in the _American Journal of Public Health_, volume 104, issue 6, on pages e19–e26 (ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/P…).
@jackruamusic "[F]ederal surveys detect a high prevalence of sexual victimization among men—in many circumstances similar to the prevalence found among women."

Am J Public Health. 2014 June; 104(6): e19. Image
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11 Mar
@HolstaT There are academic studies that don't support your contention, @HolstaT, that "the vast majority of domestic violence is committed by men towards women" (archive.ph/k3yNE), but rather suggest that women abuse more than men.

Let's look at those studies, shall we? Image
@HolstaT With physical aggression, "studies consistently find that as many women self-report perpetrating this behavior as do men; some studies find a higher prevalence of physical aggression committed by women" (ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/P…, p. 2), but only a minority of women are arrested. Image
@HolstaT Notes @TheJusticeDept: "[w]ife defendants had a lower conviction rate than husband defendants…. Of the 222 wife defendants, 70% were convicted of killing their mate. By contrast, of the 318 husband defendants, 87% were convicted of spouse murder" (bjs.gov/content/pub/pd…, p. 2). Image
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@Firebird_psych @Gaea56998567 @SimoneMesk @claudius_cruz @sarah__lenard @bairdjulia @smh @theage I agree that "[f]amily, domestic and sexual violence is a major health and welfare issue" (aihw.gov.au/reports/domest…), but your claim, @SimoneMesk, that "men are largely the perpetrators" () seems to conflict with other studies.
@Firebird_psych @Gaea56998567 @SimoneMesk @claudius_cruz @sarah__lenard @bairdjulia @smh @theage Consider "Intimate terrorism by women towards men: does it exist?" by Denise A. Hines and Emily M. Douglas published in July 2010 in Volume 2, Issue 3, of the _Journal of Aggression, Conflict and Peace Research_ (available at www2.clarku.edu/faculty/dhines…).
@Firebird_psych @Gaea56998567 @SimoneMesk @claudius_cruz @sarah__lenard @bairdjulia @smh @theage "Research showing that women commit high rates of intimate partner violence … against men has been controversial because [intimate partner violence] is typically framed as caused by the patriarchal construction of society and men’s domination over women" (Supra, p. 36).
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@HWohmahn @SeptimusSulla @kkriztinaa @playspoemsprose @Gaea56998567 Is that like women (on average) choosing for men (on average) to do most of the work when labor both in and out of the home is considered?

That there is a #GenderedLaborGap that is seldom considered, which contributes to the so-called pay gap and many other social phenomena.
@HWohmahn @SeptimusSulla @kkriztinaa @playspoemsprose @Gaea56998567 Consider the above and consider that women initiate over 50% of the breakups and nearly 70% of the divorces (web.stanford.edu/~mrosenfe/Rose…, fig. 1, p. 34) and that "wives’ high earnings were negatively associated with marital quality" (web.stanford.edu/~mrosenfe/Rose…, p. 19).
@HWohmahn @SeptimusSulla @kkriztinaa @playspoemsprose @Gaea56998567 "[H]eterosexual couples were especially likely to marry if the man had high earnings. … [A]mong heterosexual couples, earnings between partners became more unequal as the couples transitioned from cohabitation to marriage" (web.stanford.edu/~mrosenfe/Rose…, p. 5).
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@TheMightyV24 @GretaAurora @SeagerMJ You cite _Half the Sky: Turning Oppression into Opportunity for Women Worldwide_. The figures in that work of "[w]omen and girls are killed specifically because of their gender." includes sex-selective abortion (nytimes.com/2009/09/08/boo…).

Is abortion murder, @TheMightyV24?
@TheMightyV24 @GretaAurora @SeagerMJ There is a compelling reason for those sex-selective abortions: survival of the parents in old age. Boys are future Social Security cheques.

“The Chinese traditionally have valued sons over daughters, depending on their sons to support them in old age” (jstor.org/stable/189961?…).
@TheMightyV24 @GretaAurora @SeagerMJ “Sons are permanent members of their natal families and retain life-time contractual relationships with their parents. Throughout their lives, they are expected to contribute to the economic well-being of their parents” (ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/P…).
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